Ovo je za plakati 😂 Bome nas lijepo reklamira.

As my crew (Ivan) and I explore land we are having very different experiences and it often goes badly. I am unsure what my level of responsibility is for my crew (Ivan). I often want to clamp a hand over his mouth and shut him up quickly before we get beat up. I tell him when he goes off alone, do not tell anyone which boat you are on and do not associate my name with you please. Whatever attention you attract I do not want to be stained by it. His mouth is shocking and often offensive.

(…)

I am unsure about the source of the conflicts with my crew and the larger world. He rubs like sandpaper on everyone around. I admit to incredible ignorance about Croatia and could only vaguely find it on a map. My knowledge of their country and culture is nearly zero, and my crew is the only croatian person I have ever met. I do not know if he is simply a normal product of his culture? Is he a normal Croatian and they are all like this?

I cannot tell if we are constantly having a cultural conflict or a human one. My crew is very intelligent, very smart, and incapable of guile. His thoughts are unfiltered to his mouth. He cannot seem to grasp the idea that sometimes people say one thing, while they are thinking something totally different. He says “…in Croatian culture we always say what we think… there is nothing wrong with this… it is normal…” but this is definitely not true in western culture where being polite and respectful of others peoples feelings is paramount.

(…)

If he (Pernar) is representative of his country, I think I do not want to ever visit there. Rude beyond reason.

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  3. >I am often loath to bring male crew onto my boat because so many men have sexist ideas in their heads and resist taking orders from a female captain, eventually they always try to dominate me. My crew has ZERO issues with women and ZERO issues taking orders from his female captain. He is completely submissive and never challenges me when I give an order. He must have been raised by a good strong mother, so to her, thank you.

    Ovo je donekle iznenađujuće, ideja da Pernar nekoga sluša mi je nezamisliva. Pogotovo čudno jer ga stalno opisuje kako NE sluša hahaha

    >I cannot get my crew to stop politically re-educating my friends and everyone around him. He is so confident in his truths he can allow no other truths to exist. I have had to yell at him for “fixing” my close friends. He seems to need to “RED PILL” everyone around him, whether they want it or not. His intentions are only to save everyone with his truths. He is so black and white though, no room for grey in his head. He has offended my friends.

    >I watch the way my crew interacts with and dominates everything and everybody around him. He is comfortable in this European culture and is oblivious that he is pushing around and offending everyone around him. As an Empath I am horrified by the looks and body language and reactions people have to my crew. Their unspoken language being different than their spoken polite words. The Narcissist is oblivious.

    Čini se da lik ne shvaća da nije na internetu, netko će ga prebit.

    >The other night the complete total Narcissism of my crew lead to bad times onboard, that truly offended me and we had to have a talk in the morning. The problem is, he intends no harm, **his brain just cannot place value on the existence of other human beings.** He really does not know any better.

    Dosta dobro ga je sažela, šta je, je.

    >I am a wounded puppy. I know I am a wounded puppy. It is no secret that I am a wounded puppy. On the first day I get new crew I must tell them 3 specific things about living with Lexi.

    >1/ I have a heart condition, you will see me faint several times a day

    >2/ I have a weird seizure condition, you will see me get twitchy

    >3/ NEVER touch Lexi when she is sleeping… I will panic, freak out, and attack.

    Zašto je ova žena na moru???

    >It’s just a thing with me. I have done my therapy and I cope very well with the damage my terrible abusive parents did to me as a child. **The PTSD from the child abuse I suffered thru as a kid has rewired my brain with an unconscious instinct to terror, especially when sleeping.** I have been attacked while sleeping peacefully so many times by predators that the terror is hardwired into my brain as instinct. I don’t like surprises.

    >…

    >My crew understands all of this very well. **It has been explained to him in great detail.** A few times when he got up to pee in the night and I suddenly awoke to him moving around the boat I have woken up in terror. My PTSD conditioning is no secret.

    >…

    >Just before 11pm… my crew comes home in the dark and sneaks onto the yacht quietly. He wanted to brush his teeth with his special toothpaste don’t ya see. Nothing but himself and his wants and needs factors into his decision making process. He ignores all my words and everything I told him, does not even remember. It was all irrelevant to him, background noise, he hears only blah blah blah when other people speak.

    >My crew, completely oblivious to all of this, comes home in the dark after 10pm and at some point, mid salon, calls my name into the darkness.

    Kretenčina teška.

  5. Normalno otišao sam vidjet kaj dela na Telegramu i navodno mu se javlja neka žena iz Irske koja ga oće za muža hahaha. On nju pita jel jede šećer i jel cjepljena.

    >Javila mi se ženska neka naša iz Irske, zgodna je. Pitala me je li istina da tražim ženu, velim ja njoj da u biti tražim, ali ne putem oglasa kako su to prikazali u žutoj štampi. Veli ona da ima 29 godina i da isto razmišlja o tome da nađe muža ali da to nije lako kako se čini na prvi pogled.

    >Odmah sam ju pitao par pitanja – je li cijepljena (protiv korone), na što je odgovorila da nije, potom sam ju pitao može li zamisliti život bez bijelog brašna i šećera, odgovorila je da ne jede to, iduće pitanje bilo je ima li ortodontskih problema (opet je odgovorila da nema), potom sam ju pitao jel ok s tim da ne cijepi dijete i odgovor je bio da je.

    >To su pitanja koja morate postavit kod upoznavanja, ako je odgovor vašeg partnera u neskladu s vašim očekivanjima, jasno vam je da bi se brzo mogli naći u problemima. Zaboravio sam ju pitat za zubne paste.

    >Nekome su moja pitanja smiješna, pogotovo onima u grupi koji ne vole sebe, ali to je njihov problem.

  8. Zar ona nije talijanka? Ne zna gdje je Hrvatska i ne zna nista o Hrvatskoj? Ja ne bi bas toliko ponosno pisala o tome haha

  15. U interesu dobrobiti svih normalnih Hrvata i Hrvatske, mozda ne bi bilo na odmet napisati jedan pristojan mejl i poslati ga Lexi.

    Ukratko, Ivan je village idiot i velika vecina ljudi u HR je cista suprotnost. Na svu srecu

  16. Mislim da je zapeti na brodu s Pernarom posebna verzija pakla. I to bez pizdarija koje izvodi tako da ti dizelom zalije štednjak i zalihe hrane…

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