I’m in a small college town and in about a week a swiped through all my options in a 30 mile radius
EDIT: Forgot to state I’m gay 😂
I am actually glad its not just me who swipes left like 8 out of 10 times.
Tinder is trash. It’s genuinely only to give ego boosts to the top of the top (for either gender). If you’re actually trying to meet people, Hinge is way better
Average male experience on dating apps
Tell me you’re a man without telling me you’re a man
Totally SFW, unfortunately for you.
I am extremely happy to of never had to use tinder. Looks like a nightmare.
Flip that M to an F and everything is inverted except still no dates lol
Every time a dude posts his tinder analytics, it’s like a an anti-advertisement for tinder/hinge/bumble/online dating in general. Fuck tinder and their algorithm, I’m not giving them a goddamn dime.
God, these posts make me appreciate doing my dating in the 90s and 00s. I cannot imagine dealing with these apps.
what do you use to create this visualization?
who the hell counts swipes?
How did you compile these data? I’d love to know more.
Should try the family guy method
Guess you’ll have higher success just talking to random woman on a club, cafe….
Why tf is this tagged NSFW??
You forgot the Tinder profit line. That’s what they are there for. SUCESS! Well, a successful business. If they actually matched people, that would be like intentionally drying up their resource.
Dating apps should be required to post match rates for all genders over time. Show us that your app is worth it, not just making me pay for nothing, and that you’re actively working to make matches more common and meaningful.
Female here. Basically the same experience across two different apps. Why people don’t want to have a conversation is beyond me.
Try hinge. I’ve been on more dates in the last 6 months than I went on in 4 years of college doing it the old fashioned way.
The easier something is, the less the result is appreciated.
Do these sites tell others anything else? My dating experience was decades before the internet.
Besides a photo, is there a profile with general location, age, education, profession, hobbies, height, weight, kids, general location?
I expect there are guys whose appeal visually along with any of the other provided info is in the bottom half of the sample universe, who reject potential partners who are not in the top 10%.
That just doesn’t math.
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Welp. That makes me feel a lot better about my match rate haha
Did you record any data on qualities that led to left or right swipes?
I wonder if there is a correlation between poor success in dating and turning that experience into a data driven graph…
Hate to say it, but this one’s on you dawg 😭😭
AI matchmaking doesn’t work there
The chart seems to imply someone mentioned you first and you didn’t respond to them
1243 swipes in a month seems very high to me. That’s 40-45 a day and it’s way higher than what I used to do. It was the right strategy for me, being selective (not picky), not trying to be too much on the app (like I’d swipe 5-10 min in the morning, 5-10 min at night max). When I was starting a nice conversation, I would not swipe anymore.
In my area, Tinder was really, really bad. It was way better on Bumble and Hinge. Infinitely better in fact, because I got 0 match on Tinder, and many on the other apps which felt “higher quality”*. By that I mean: nicer (more interesting) profiles, nicer conversations, nicer starts (depending on the app you must either let the women talk first or send a like/right swipe by specifically commenting on something regarding the profile). To anyone in my area that wants to find someone for a serious and commited relationship, I would not recommend Tinder and highly recommend the other two apps. Perhaps that’s something you must consider as well.
*Compared to my previous Tinder experience, some 6 years ago.
YMMV and there is not a single strategy that works, and eventually it all depends a lot on luck. I read in the comments here that 10% swipe right ratio is being very picky, as for me I’d say it’s true you must be open-minded and not just be a freak robot trying to find the perfect match (it does not really exist), but in my experience it’s also true that if you want to meet someone for the long term, for real, it’s important to know what you want. This part can also be “done” when starting the conversation. But I really did not like the feeling I had several times of getting a match, but in fact I wasn’t really keen on many things on the profile. My aim was to swipe right on someone I would be 100% eager to write to.
Good luck!
For context: I was a man seeking a woman + I’d say I have high interpersonnal skills + I did put some effort in the profile (no overzealous analysis or marketing strategy, just attention to details and somewhat honest. I’d think hard about what I’d like to see on a profile, and consider it was probably what other likeminded people would like to find on mine). Never paid for any feature. Area: big city in Canada.
My 2 cents: i had awful luck on dating sites (circa 2010) and it was so incredibly defeating. And then one day a woman who was completely out of my league messaged me, we went on a date, fell in love, moved in together, got married, bought a house, had kids and stayed in love. she’s still out of my league and life is great. keep at it. you never know who is out there just praying for the day they meet you.
I hate Facebook…
I like Facebook dating because it’s free.
If it make you feel any better, I’ve had like 70 matches but only 3 more dates
those are some really good numbers
Fuck this is grim. Even more reason to make sure I never get a divorce.
Tinder kind of sucks for us gays.
Next month, force yourself into one right for every left. I’m confident it will change the bottom line.
I’ll never forget that time a girl posted on here and like 90% of her right swipes were matches even after seldom swiping right, and she had 30 casual sex hookups in a year. Really took one to the ol’ ego on that one.
Why is there a line from First message (Them) to no response. There are cases when you didn’t respond?
Your issue is that you’re trying to find dates on tinder. Use World of Warcraft. Much higher success rate, and even if it doesn’t work, it’s still fun in the moment 😂
Online dating is a scam. Just walk up to hot chicks that smile at you and brush their hair over their ear, I dunno. It’s trickier than that, learn to play guitar, work out, blah blah. Get rich.
This is exactly how my 20s went, as a guy.
Pretty sure I know why you’re single 😂
25M here Yeah about right
I gave up entirely on the apps. They’re not worth a damn! I met one girl off there that was absolutely perfect! I’m talking we matched vibes so well, music, smoking weed, banter, always wanting to be on the move, and just easy conversation. She even planned the next date and told me to let her know when I was free next and i told her right then and there. Communication started to slow and then stopped. Day came for date and I asked if she was still up for it. She wasn’t and then straight up tells me we’re looking for different things and she would be doing me a disservice if she didn’t tell me. We didn’t even get to the conversation of what we were looking for. Guess she just had a better option. After that one I gave up on the apps and pretty much dating all together. 🤷🏽♂️
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What a useful way to spend your time 😅
All Data downloaded from Tinder
I’m in a small college town and in about a week a swiped through all my options in a 30 mile radius
EDIT: Forgot to state I’m gay 😂
I am actually glad its not just me who swipes left like 8 out of 10 times.
Tinder is trash. It’s genuinely only to give ego boosts to the top of the top (for either gender). If you’re actually trying to meet people, Hinge is way better
Average male experience on dating apps
Tell me you’re a man without telling me you’re a man
Totally SFW, unfortunately for you.
I am extremely happy to of never had to use tinder. Looks like a nightmare.
Flip that M to an F and everything is inverted except still no dates lol
Every time a dude posts his tinder analytics, it’s like a an anti-advertisement for tinder/hinge/bumble/online dating in general. Fuck tinder and their algorithm, I’m not giving them a goddamn dime.
God, these posts make me appreciate doing my dating in the 90s and 00s. I cannot imagine dealing with these apps.
what do you use to create this visualization?
who the hell counts swipes?
How did you compile these data? I’d love to know more.
Should try the family guy method
Guess you’ll have higher success just talking to random woman on a club, cafe….
Why tf is this tagged NSFW??
You forgot the Tinder profit line. That’s what they are there for. SUCESS! Well, a successful business. If they actually matched people, that would be like intentionally drying up their resource.
Dating apps should be required to post match rates for all genders over time. Show us that your app is worth it, not just making me pay for nothing, and that you’re actively working to make matches more common and meaningful.
Female here. Basically the same experience across two different apps. Why people don’t want to have a conversation is beyond me.
Try hinge. I’ve been on more dates in the last 6 months than I went on in 4 years of college doing it the old fashioned way.
The easier something is, the less the result is appreciated.
Do these sites tell others anything else? My dating experience was decades before the internet.
Besides a photo, is there a profile with general location, age, education, profession, hobbies, height, weight, kids, general location?
I expect there are guys whose appeal visually along with any of the other provided info is in the bottom half of the sample universe, who reject potential partners who are not in the top 10%.
That just doesn’t math.
I
Welp. That makes me feel a lot better about my match rate haha
Did you record any data on qualities that led to left or right swipes?
I wonder if there is a correlation between poor success in dating and turning that experience into a data driven graph…
Hate to say it, but this one’s on you dawg 😭😭
AI matchmaking doesn’t work there
The chart seems to imply someone mentioned you first and you didn’t respond to them
1243 swipes in a month seems very high to me. That’s 40-45 a day and it’s way higher than what I used to do. It was the right strategy for me, being selective (not picky), not trying to be too much on the app (like I’d swipe 5-10 min in the morning, 5-10 min at night max). When I was starting a nice conversation, I would not swipe anymore.
In my area, Tinder was really, really bad. It was way better on Bumble and Hinge. Infinitely better in fact, because I got 0 match on Tinder, and many on the other apps which felt “higher quality”*. By that I mean: nicer (more interesting) profiles, nicer conversations, nicer starts (depending on the app you must either let the women talk first or send a like/right swipe by specifically commenting on something regarding the profile). To anyone in my area that wants to find someone for a serious and commited relationship, I would not recommend Tinder and highly recommend the other two apps. Perhaps that’s something you must consider as well.
*Compared to my previous Tinder experience, some 6 years ago.
YMMV and there is not a single strategy that works, and eventually it all depends a lot on luck. I read in the comments here that 10% swipe right ratio is being very picky, as for me I’d say it’s true you must be open-minded and not just be a freak robot trying to find the perfect match (it does not really exist), but in my experience it’s also true that if you want to meet someone for the long term, for real, it’s important to know what you want. This part can also be “done” when starting the conversation. But I really did not like the feeling I had several times of getting a match, but in fact I wasn’t really keen on many things on the profile. My aim was to swipe right on someone I would be 100% eager to write to.
Good luck!
For context: I was a man seeking a woman + I’d say I have high interpersonnal skills + I did put some effort in the profile (no overzealous analysis or marketing strategy, just attention to details and somewhat honest. I’d think hard about what I’d like to see on a profile, and consider it was probably what other likeminded people would like to find on mine). Never paid for any feature. Area: big city in Canada.
My 2 cents: i had awful luck on dating sites (circa 2010) and it was so incredibly defeating. And then one day a woman who was completely out of my league messaged me, we went on a date, fell in love, moved in together, got married, bought a house, had kids and stayed in love. she’s still out of my league and life is great. keep at it. you never know who is out there just praying for the day they meet you.
I hate Facebook…
I like Facebook dating because it’s free.
If it make you feel any better, I’ve had like 70 matches but only 3 more dates
those are some really good numbers
Fuck this is grim. Even more reason to make sure I never get a divorce.
Tinder kind of sucks for us gays.
Next month, force yourself into one right for every left. I’m confident it will change the bottom line.
I’ll never forget that time a girl posted on here and like 90% of her right swipes were matches even after seldom swiping right, and she had 30 casual sex hookups in a year. Really took one to the ol’ ego on that one.
Why is there a line from First message (Them) to no response. There are cases when you didn’t respond?
Your issue is that you’re trying to find dates on tinder. Use World of Warcraft. Much higher success rate, and even if it doesn’t work, it’s still fun in the moment 😂
Online dating is a scam. Just walk up to hot chicks that smile at you and brush their hair over their ear, I dunno. It’s trickier than that, learn to play guitar, work out, blah blah. Get rich.
This is exactly how my 20s went, as a guy.
Pretty sure I know why you’re single 😂
25M here Yeah about right
I gave up entirely on the apps. They’re not worth a damn! I met one girl off there that was absolutely perfect! I’m talking we matched vibes so well, music, smoking weed, banter, always wanting to be on the move, and just easy conversation. She even planned the next date and told me to let her know when I was free next and i told her right then and there. Communication started to slow and then stopped. Day came for date and I asked if she was still up for it. She wasn’t and then straight up tells me we’re looking for different things and she would be doing me a disservice if she didn’t tell me. We didn’t even get to the conversation of what we were looking for. Guess she just had a better option. After that one I gave up on the apps and pretty much dating all together. 🤷🏽♂️
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