[OC] My GF and I recorded Stress Triggers for 2 years – Timelapse video



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25 comments
  1. Is there a way to filter out people’s personal data from this sub?

    I cannot describe how much I don’t care about random internet stranger’s stats.

  2. I find it odd that “daily recording of stress triggers” isn’t one of the stress triggers. I would go nuts having to remember to do that every day.

  3. All I could do is look at the accommodation stat and wonder what the heck is going on in their house and why doesn’t OP care as much???

  4. What is the benefit of having uncontrollable gifs compared to something like a stacked area chart or something with time as x axis?

  5. …And then you broke up because it turns out you’re a primary trigger for your girlfriend’s stress?

  6. Interesting! Can you explain a bit more on what “accommodation” means? Do you two not live together and her housing situation sucks or something?

  7. This is interesting.

    From this tiny bit of data: You seem like a pretty self-centered, career driven individual. And you girlfriend seems like a more sensitive, social-dependent person.

    Not necessarily anything right or wrong about it.

    How’s your actual chemistry? Are you having a good relationship?

  8. Congratulations on being zero worried about world events. God I wish I could stop stressing daily over it. With that said, my work stress to everything else is a similar ratio to yours.

  9. Your time lapse shows a consistent pattern of your stress triggers being normal things like work, productivity, and health – whereas her stress trigger has mainly been you, family, and accommodation for months on end.

    I’m not trying to use this as an indication of your relationship – but data is only as meaningful as the way we use it. You might want to have a discussion with her

  10. How do yall do track this i want to track it too😭

  11. I definitely identify with one of your top 5 stressors being “existential”. I feel you

  12. Interesting how gf stressors frequently have to do with others, while bf has more to do with self.

  13. 1) I hope your health is ok
    2) I felt my stress levels rise watching this

  14. Hey OP, looks like you are stressed about your health. I hope everything is OK!!

  15. It’s wild people over here are just assuming things about their relationship and blaming the guy without knowing the context at all. You are the ones that need to seek help.

  16. What’s “accommodation ” and why was that your gf #1 issue?
    Was she struggling to find stable housing?

  17. Existence can be stressful. I get that. Or do you mean existential as in Heidegger’s sense, out “throwness” in an inexplicable universe as beings-towards-death?

  18. Seeing ~20 upticks in girlfriend’s “world events” in the last few months makes me sad, because I feel like I know exactly how she’s feeling.

  19. Can I ask if you two are still together? Seems like you and her were a top 5 stress to each other. If I’m reading that wrong I am so sorry

  20. My world events shot up in November, specifically Nov 6

  21. Alt title: how my gf tried to tell me for a year that she wants to move in and I didn’t get the hint.

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