What is the case, with the most of the guys – suggesting first date at their place? Like, why?!

I did suggest him to plan a date, got invitation to his place instead – is it because a coffee is expensive, or lunch is too much to ask, or any other activity is waaayyy too much???

I did bother to suggest this and that, for everything he had an excuse why it was not good option – only good option was his place.

He finally agreed to come for a drink, not sure, are we on the same wave.. Want to call quits, tbh.

by Maleficent_FoxLady

17 comments

  2. If somebody suggests their place on the first date they are after sex.

  3. Well you know what he wants.. i wouldn’t put up with this lol

  6. Finnish men are cheap, that’s why. 

    To them, there’s no need to go out when their own home is comfortable enough and coffee costs like 0,10€ per cup. Those damn coffee houses charge wayyy too much…and for some reason, the ladies don’t want to meet up at ABC/Teboil/Neste, either.   

  8. What makes automatically think that asking to come your place for coffee etc. means sex.

  9. I don’t want to say he is a creep.
    But he clearly is a creep.

  10. It’s pretty clear he is after a hookup. If you’re not, why entertain it? The guy has told you who he is, listen to him.

  12. Coffee too expensive? In a country where everyone pays for their own stuff? Man, that’s weird as hell. I wouldn’t meet anyone in a non-public place for the first time, and I’m a guy 😀

  14. “Why most guys do x”

    1. You’re talking to the wrong guys

    2. Most guys are clueless about how to meet people.

  15. I always suggest a date on my sailboat, because of the implication.

  16. Wild, like why can’t he just say he only wants to fuck? No woman should just go alone into a dude’s home and no man should expect that, just speak the hell up man wtf.

  17. Sounds like he’s only aiming for a hookup, and not even putting any effort into it. He propably wouldn’t give any effort in the bedroom either, I’d wager.

    Also creepy how he dismisses any safety conserns like that. Shifting them into a passive-aggressive accusation of disinterest. “But I’m a nice guy” yeah right.

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