Bella Ramsey Says ‘I Didn’t Want’ Coming Out as Nonbinary to ‘Become a Headline,’ but It’s a ‘Good Thing’: ‘I’m Living More Freely’

https://variety.com/2025/tv/news/bella-ramsey-coming-out-non-binary-the-last-of-us-1236375660/

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  1. >“Part of me looks back and I wish that I didn’t, because I didn’t want it to become a headline and a big thing,” Ramsey said. “And obviously it was going to, and I didn’t really understand that at the time. And I wasn’t really prepared for that. But on the other hand, people have said to me that it’s been very helpful for them seeing some representation.”

    >They continued, “So it’s been a mixed bag, but overall, I think it was a good thing, just for me living more freely, without feeling like I’m keeping a secret. But now I’m like, ‘I’ll talk about it, but I don’t want it to be the focus anymore.’ I guess I’m just quite chill with it. And I want everyone else to be as chill with it basically.”

  2. When you are non-binary what are you? Can someone ELI5? I mean she has a female sex organs? I’m sorry I am not judging I just don’t understand what they think they are when they have biological indicators.

    Edit- are you supposed to call them it or them instead of he/her?

  3. Here come the completely level-headed Redditors with their mature and positive take on this bait-worthy headline.

  4. It’s absolutely the safest thing you can do to get your name in the headlines right now.

  5. “I don’t want it to be a headline but I speak to a major publication about it”.

  6. This poor kid gets so much hate. She does a great job!

  7. She wasn’t my choice for Ellie but I don’t get the hate against her.

  8. Attention seeking behavior at the pinnacle of entitlement

  9. You know what? Good for them. It isn’t hurting me, nor does it affect me in any way. I just enjoy watching them. So, good for them.

  10. Everyone leave her alone, this is Shane Gillis’s younger sister, you shouldn’t be surprised she has talent. It runs in the family.

  11. Person tells press they didn’t want thing they said to become a headline.

    Shock and awe ensues as the same thing makes headlines again

  12. With all the best intentions I can put behind this statement:

    Oh my god I so very much do not give a shit about the orientation/gender identity of actors and actresses. Why do we care? Honestly we just need to start letting this stuff become a nonfactor in our lives. Here’s the only question that matters: are they good at what they do?

  13. I *completely* understand why they didn’t want it to be headline news, but I’m kind of glad it was for my sake. I’ve been struggling with my gender for years and always assumed non-binary folks basically had to be totally androgynous or it “doesn’t count”. Seeing how Bella is presents a bit more feminine while still considering themselves NB gave me a big boost in confidence and the courage to accept myself. I still haven’t come out to anyone aside from my therapist (literally list night) but hey, baby-steps.

    They absolutely do no deserve the hate they’re getting online, but that kind of goes without saying.

  14. She seems like a cool person but man I hate her acting

  15. God the ending of the second episode, I don’t know if I want to continue the season..

  16. If the label doesn’t change how you behave or move in the world, is it a statement—or a performance?

  17. The alphabet mafia loves a new poster child. 🤦🏻‍♂️ she’s a great actress and has been doing a phenomenal job. Why not highlight her talent? Instead of using her personal life to push an agenda.

  18. I haven’t seen this show, many controversies around it, is she a good actress?

  19. Can actors just act? No offense but I don’t care about their opinions or personal lives….do your job and go home

  20. Why do non-binary people only get cast as women and never as men?

  21. They they they. So crazy I feel like I’m having a stroke reading these comments.

  22. People who never played the game think they’re great in the show. These fools hating on an actor over them not looking exactly like the character in the game have some very smooth, very underdeveloped brains.

  23. Half of us still don’t even know what that means….including me

  24. Get on hormones or fuck off. God damn all these stupid celebs attention whoring and making real trans people look like idiots.

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