Biographical info

19 Y/O black nonbinary lesbian, feminine presenting, exclusively swiping on women and other nonbinary people

This is exclusively bumble data from the summer/fall of 2020 so yes I went on other dates from tinder/people I broadly met irl. Yes I have been in relationships before. No I did not marry the first person I dated LMAO. I just thought it was interesting to show a dating app actually leading to a long term relationship/marriage.

Also I didn't get married at 19 we waited a couple of years. I'm the uhaul lesbian stereotype but not that badly.

The chats are likely that low because I had recently decided to only talk to people who messaged me first. I'd been seeing a trend of women (especially white bisexuals, no offense) expecting me to carry the conversation and do the work, kind of like what they'd expect from a man. I'm not a man and don't want to be treated like one. I wanted to be pursued as much as I pursued them. I had a lot of good prompts in my bio so the least you had to do was respond to one. Most didn't.

Posted by Reaniro

23 comments

  1. Tool: Sankeymatic

    Data source: I asked bumble for just my Date data. They gave me info on swipes and match rates but not total conversations for whatever reason. I manually went through my saved conversations on the app to find total amount of chats and what conversations led to dates.

    **Edit:** It was honestly really surprising to me that I didn’t get any dates off bumble except my (now) spouse. I was on tinder at the same time so they kinda blurred together in my head.

  2. Damn, 93% of people you swiped on swiped back? Do you know if that is standard for lesbian dating apps, or are you above average?

  3. Hey, bottom line, it worked and hopefully it lasts a lifetime.

  4. Why did you match with 130+ people if you had no intent to talk to them?

    Congratulations on your marriage.

  5. You’re a lesbian and early 20s, right? Will be back on bumble in no time.

  8. Congratulations! Though the dad joke in me would warn about getting married after one date 🤣

    My wife was 20 when we got married so early is fine if you get the right one 👍 helps with college loans too!

  10. So are you 19 or not? You say yourre 19 but also that you got married after age 19(?)

  12. Man, that change from a high match frequency to radio science is really something.

  14. Congrats!

    I met my wife on Bumble, as well. Back in 2016.

  15. Congratulations on finding your person on Bumble, and happy pride month! I was on there 4 years ago as a straight 20-something dude but gave up on there for Hinge the year after

  16. So, you started off married and then became more and more single?

    I’d watch that movie.

  17. Damn, meanwhile I swipe right on 100 people and I’ll get two matches and no conversation

  18. Congrats! Met my wife the same way. Except as a straight male my matches was like 10% of my right swipes lol. You did well!

  20. how do you guys make this graphics? you count every swipe or there’s an app for that?

  21. 190 right swipes, 170 matches

    WHAT

    we got Scarlett Johansson over here holy shit

  22. I wish I was lesbian so I understood uhaul jokes

  23. Ten years ago I did a experiment on tinder to see how many matches I got if I just swiped right 100 times. I got 4. I then met a girl on a plane and we got married, so I never figured out what was up with those numbers. But you can imagine my respect that you got 176 matches for 190 right-swipes (or even if you’re successfully swiping left for the ones that won’t like you, (270 + 190) / 176 is a hell of a ratio).

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