If you had waited until Saturday evening to send them a message they would have told you that you should have told them earlier so they can find a replacement. Typical toxic boss behaviour imo
The correct answer is ok get well soon , nothing else .
Hun probleem dat het niet draait
‘Omstandigheden’ being zijn gedrag naar z’n werknemers toe precies, direct dreigen om er mee te stoppen. Nee je doet niets verkeerd
You have a doctor’s note? If yes, then there is nothing to ask. You are out sick. If not, does your company allow you to take one sick day without it?Â
Iâm an employee and a boss. The correct thing to do here would be going to the doctor on Monday or Tuesday and get a note for an entire week. No prior note and saying you will be sick on Sunday is kind of weird. The overly dramatic reaction of your boss is overly dramatic and passive aggressive.
I wouldn’t say you did something wrong, you just aren’t making the best impression here. (Neither is your employer).
Normally you don’t call in early when sick unless you have a doctor note. If you do, I would start off by saying: I’m not feeling well, I don’t know if I’ll make Sunday since I’ve been sick for a few days. Then on Sunday morning hit them up with a message you are too sick.
You were sick the entire week, didn’t you visit a doctor? If you did, he must have given you time to recover at home. Just use the note with your employer.
Just tell him: bye. Enough nicer places to work as a student, fuck that guy
Wrong way of communicating, both ways.
You dont ask for sick leave, you take it. Ofcourse you have to follow the rules regarding doctors note and whatever is written down as company rule.
I also understand your boss his reaction. Its weird to say you are going to be sick in the future. 2 days in advance. Doesn’t make sense. ( I assume you dont have a doctors note yet, that includes Sunday?)
The other reaction from your boss, is besides the point of your illness. Not giving my opinion on that.
Lesson learned, you call in sick on sunday morning.
Also the attitude of your bossâŠ
What store is it? đ
Zal hier wrs gedownvote worden maar ik geef je baas gelijk. Dit soort werknemers ben je liever kwijt als bedrijf want men kan gewoon niet rekenen op je.Â
Had je nu nog gezegd, “baas ik ben nog ziek maar ik hoop dat ik zondag kan komen werken. Ik laat je voor x tijdstip iets weten” dat had een andere boodschap geweest, dan bereid je hem voor.Â
In de toekomst zeg je beter geen zo’n domme dingen..
Zeg gewoon: Dag *naam van persoon*, ik ben ziek en zal niet aanwezig zijn zondag. Met vriendelijke groeten, *uw naam*.
En zorg voor een doktersbriefje.
Your message is wrong, you shouldve told him you MIGHT not be able to work.
I believe bossman is upset cuz of you not being open to the possibility of healing in 2 days.
Both are wrong, but look for a less toxic workplace.
Mogen we weten welke winkel?
Beste baas,
Allereerst bedankt voor de zorgzame woorden. Ik ook hoop dat ik snel genezen ben. Ik dacht pro actief te reageren maar uit jouw antwoord kan ik afleiden dat je liever hebt dat ik de ochtend zelf me pas ziek meld zodat je zeker geen oplossing voor die dag kan vinden. Uiteraard heb ik ook begrepen dat u mij enorm nodig hebt maar wel geen probleem heeft mij te ontslaan. Ik zou je aanraden ook eens ziekteverzuim te nemen wat zulke bipolair denken is ook zorgzaam. Veel beterschap baas en tot volgende week.
Ge hebt 2 fouten getypt.
Ik ben de hele week ziek geweest klinkt alsof ge niet meer ziek bent.
Ik kan zondag niet komen werken is er al vanuit gaan dat ge niet geneest.
Wat ik zou zeggen:
Beste …,
Ik lig al de hele week ziek in bed en voel me nog steeds heel slecht.
Ik hou u op de hoogte en zal voor een doktersbriefje zorgen indien ik zondag nog steeds ziek ben.
I would be full of joy if someone gave a heads-up they were most likely not going to be in. That allows to adjust the planning and anticipate. Now they call in sick hours after they should have been there… đ«
You could have said “most likely not be able to work this Sunday” but even without that I would have understood the reason of sending the message early.
Do you have a doctor’s note? If you do: fuck them.
If not (and assuming that’s allowed in your company): why are you informing them so early? Just call in sick on the day, or at most day-1.
Ik krijg flashbacks naar m’n retail tijd. Typisch antwoord van een incompetente retail manager die hun job niet begrijpt.Â
Twee tips: Ga ermee naar de vakbond en begin met ander werk zoeken.
I would be happy if my personel would give me a notice this soon that they might be sick.
So far I have people calling in at 9u30 that they won’t be coming (the store opens at 9u30 but I’m already there at 8)
If you ever need a new student-job … you can always send a PM (Ghent area)
Whatâs the dependency between being sick during the week and not able to work next days? Do you have a doctorâs note until sunday then itâs covered otherwise I donât see why you shouldnât be able to work
Read the book âsurrounded by idiotsâ so people try to communicate better.
Itâs a shop, and itâs the busiest time of the year. So, it seems quite normal that your boss gets upset on Friday. From the texts Iâve seen, I imagine youâre relatively new and probably your first job. You sent the wrong text. You shouldnât have said you were sick for an entire week. You should have said youâre sick and canât come because it doesnât make sense what you wrote. Thereâs no mention of you still being sick in the initial message. What I read in the initial text is that you were sick all week, are feeling better, and are giving no reason why you canât show up on Sunday. âZiek geweestâ means youâre not sick anymore. đ
Your boss is right.
Sunday isnât today nor tommorow.
If youâre really concernerd about going to work you would go see doctor now so that you would be able to go to work on sunday.
Apart from your boss telling you bluntly itâs just weird that you are that sick and only thinl about seeing a doctor so that you get a note.
Zo is 80% van de bazen
Fuck these kinds of bosses, I worked for one, when I gave my resignation he started blubbering about how that was the end, how everyone was leaving ship, he’d have to close the shop. Didn’t even shake my hand on my last day, fat bastard.
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If you had waited until Saturday evening to send them a message they would have told you that you should have told them earlier so they can find a replacement. Typical toxic boss behaviour imo
The correct answer is ok get well soon , nothing else .
Hun probleem dat het niet draait
‘Omstandigheden’ being zijn gedrag naar z’n werknemers toe precies, direct dreigen om er mee te stoppen. Nee je doet niets verkeerd
You have a doctor’s note? If yes, then there is nothing to ask. You are out sick. If not, does your company allow you to take one sick day without it?Â
Iâm an employee and a boss. The correct thing to do here would be going to the doctor on Monday or Tuesday and get a note for an entire week. No prior note and saying you will be sick on Sunday is kind of weird. The overly dramatic reaction of your boss is overly dramatic and passive aggressive.
I wouldn’t say you did something wrong, you just aren’t making the best impression here. (Neither is your employer).
Normally you don’t call in early when sick unless you have a doctor note. If you do, I would start off by saying: I’m not feeling well, I don’t know if I’ll make Sunday since I’ve been sick for a few days. Then on Sunday morning hit them up with a message you are too sick.
You were sick the entire week, didn’t you visit a doctor? If you did, he must have given you time to recover at home. Just use the note with your employer.
Just tell him: bye. Enough nicer places to work as a student, fuck that guy
Wrong way of communicating, both ways.
You dont ask for sick leave, you take it. Ofcourse you have to follow the rules regarding doctors note and whatever is written down as company rule.
I also understand your boss his reaction. Its weird to say you are going to be sick in the future. 2 days in advance. Doesn’t make sense. ( I assume you dont have a doctors note yet, that includes Sunday?)
The other reaction from your boss, is besides the point of your illness. Not giving my opinion on that.
Lesson learned, you call in sick on sunday morning.
Also the attitude of your bossâŠ
What store is it? đ
Zal hier wrs gedownvote worden maar ik geef je baas gelijk. Dit soort werknemers ben je liever kwijt als bedrijf want men kan gewoon niet rekenen op je.Â
Had je nu nog gezegd, “baas ik ben nog ziek maar ik hoop dat ik zondag kan komen werken. Ik laat je voor x tijdstip iets weten” dat had een andere boodschap geweest, dan bereid je hem voor.Â
In de toekomst zeg je beter geen zo’n domme dingen..
Zeg gewoon: Dag *naam van persoon*, ik ben ziek en zal niet aanwezig zijn zondag. Met vriendelijke groeten, *uw naam*.
En zorg voor een doktersbriefje.
Your message is wrong, you shouldve told him you MIGHT not be able to work.
I believe bossman is upset cuz of you not being open to the possibility of healing in 2 days.
Both are wrong, but look for a less toxic workplace.
Mogen we weten welke winkel?
Beste baas,
Allereerst bedankt voor de zorgzame woorden. Ik ook hoop dat ik snel genezen ben. Ik dacht pro actief te reageren maar uit jouw antwoord kan ik afleiden dat je liever hebt dat ik de ochtend zelf me pas ziek meld zodat je zeker geen oplossing voor die dag kan vinden. Uiteraard heb ik ook begrepen dat u mij enorm nodig hebt maar wel geen probleem heeft mij te ontslaan. Ik zou je aanraden ook eens ziekteverzuim te nemen wat zulke bipolair denken is ook zorgzaam. Veel beterschap baas en tot volgende week.
Ge hebt 2 fouten getypt.
Ik ben de hele week ziek geweest klinkt alsof ge niet meer ziek bent.
Ik kan zondag niet komen werken is er al vanuit gaan dat ge niet geneest.
Wat ik zou zeggen:
Beste …,
Ik lig al de hele week ziek in bed en voel me nog steeds heel slecht.
Ik hou u op de hoogte en zal voor een doktersbriefje zorgen indien ik zondag nog steeds ziek ben.
Mvg
…
Edit: zijn reactie is niet oké, maar verstaanbaar aangezien er veel mensen ziek melden omdat ze gewoon geen goesting hebben.
I would be full of joy if someone gave a heads-up they were most likely not going to be in. That allows to adjust the planning and anticipate. Now they call in sick hours after they should have been there… đ«
You could have said “most likely not be able to work this Sunday” but even without that I would have understood the reason of sending the message early.
Do you have a doctor’s note? If you do: fuck them.
If not (and assuming that’s allowed in your company): why are you informing them so early? Just call in sick on the day, or at most day-1.
Ik krijg flashbacks naar m’n retail tijd. Typisch antwoord van een incompetente retail manager die hun job niet begrijpt.Â
Twee tips: Ga ermee naar de vakbond en begin met ander werk zoeken.
I would be happy if my personel would give me a notice this soon that they might be sick.
So far I have people calling in at 9u30 that they won’t be coming (the store opens at 9u30 but I’m already there at 8)
If you ever need a new student-job … you can always send a PM (Ghent area)
Whatâs the dependency between being sick during the week and not able to work next days? Do you have a doctorâs note until sunday then itâs covered otherwise I donât see why you shouldnât be able to work
Read the book âsurrounded by idiotsâ so people try to communicate better.
Itâs a shop, and itâs the busiest time of the year. So, it seems quite normal that your boss gets upset on Friday. From the texts Iâve seen, I imagine youâre relatively new and probably your first job. You sent the wrong text. You shouldnât have said you were sick for an entire week. You should have said youâre sick and canât come because it doesnât make sense what you wrote. Thereâs no mention of you still being sick in the initial message. What I read in the initial text is that you were sick all week, are feeling better, and are giving no reason why you canât show up on Sunday. âZiek geweestâ means youâre not sick anymore. đ
Your boss is right.
Sunday isnât today nor tommorow.
If youâre really concernerd about going to work you would go see doctor now so that you would be able to go to work on sunday.
Apart from your boss telling you bluntly itâs just weird that you are that sick and only thinl about seeing a doctor so that you get a note.
Zo is 80% van de bazen
Fuck these kinds of bosses, I worked for one, when I gave my resignation he started blubbering about how that was the end, how everyone was leaving ship, he’d have to close the shop. Didn’t even shake my hand on my last day, fat bastard.
Volgende keer zeg je op zaterdag : “ik wĂĄs al de hele week ziek en het wordt alleen maar erger, ik voel me steeds heel beroerd, jammer genoeg gaat het mij morgen niet lukken om op de werkvloer te staan. Ik moet ook niemand komen aansteken. Dank voor uw begrip” Afhankelijk van hoe ziek je dan bent is een doktersattest dan misschien wel aangewezen.
LĂ©ren mensen aanvoelen en uw uitleg op die manier aanpassen is keyđ€
Werkt dat ook niet, dan is het een zeikerd en helpt hen enkele uitlegđ€·đŒââïž
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