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There’s a strange twist that doesn’t get talked about enough in personal finance. Building wealth is hard. Spending it can be even harder.
On “The Ramsey Show,” a 62-year-old attorney named Steve called in with a problem that sounds almost backwards. No wife, no kids, no debt, and $3.5 million saved across retirement accounts. By most standards, he’s done everything right. And yet, he said he’s stuck.
“No money will be coming in, but all money will be going out,” he said. “I’m having a hard time getting comfortable with that. What I really want is somebody to tell me that I can stop.”
That hesitation is more common than it sounds.
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Steve didn’t mention his profession right away, but later shared he’s an attorney earning about $175,000 a year. Over time, he built a sizable nest egg through consistent saving and investing.
Personal finance expert Dave Ramsey got straight to the math.
With $3.5 million invested, Ramsey said a 10% return could generate roughly $350,000 a year without touching the principal. That’s about double Steve’s current income.
So why the hesitation?
Steve pointed to uncertainty. “There’s still… some years it’s going to be up, some years it’s going to be down,” he said. “What do I do in the down years?”
Ramsey’s answer was blunt: “Use some of it.”
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He added that down years in the market are relatively rare and manageable, suggesting Steve could withdraw less in weaker years and let the portfolio recover over time.
Then came the line that reframed everything.
“It’s impossible unless you lose your mind and join Congress for you to go through this money before you die,” Ramsey told him.
The numbers weren’t the problem. The mindset was.
After years of saving, watching a balance grow becomes the goal. Flipping that switch and starting to draw it down can feel like going backwards, even when that’s exactly what the money was meant for.
Steve hinted at something deeper. Recent life events made him rethink how he wants to spend his time. “What I feel like I should be doing is spending time with people that I love,” he said.