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Inheriting a windfall may seem like a dream come true, but it can cause tremendous anxiety and guilt, and it could even leave you financially worse off.
Mike and Noel, both 34 and recently married, burned through a $171,000 inheritance in about a year.
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“We are super screwed,” Noel told Ramit Sethi on an episode of his podcast, I Will Teach You To Be Rich (1). After spending the inheritance, they still have $30,000 in assets and another $30,000 in investments — but they are also $244,000 in debt.
While they used some of the inheritance to pay off debt, the couple spent $30,000 on furniture, $10,000 on clothes and $10,000 on a trip to Mexico. They also financed a hair transplant for Mike and paid for his collection of Pokémon cards.
Their situation demonstrates how quickly a windfall can disappear without clear priorities, budgeting and an investment plan — and underscores the risks of lifestyle creep and impulsive spending.
As millennials, their story is especially important, as they are also part of the younger generations of Americans set to inherit unprecedented amounts of wealth.
The Great Wealth Transfer
Through 2048, Gen Xers and millennials are projected to inherit $124 trillion in assets — what’s referred to as America’s Great Wealth Transfer — with Gen X expected to receive the largest share of assets over the next decade, according to the latest Cerulli Edge report (2).
While inheriting such a bounty seems like a positive thing, a report by The Harris Poll found that inheritances come with complex emotions: A third (33%) of younger recipients feel stress managing larger or more complex assets, and a similar share (34%) worries about mismanaging those assets (3).
This phenomenon is sometimes called Sudden Wealth Syndrome (SWS), a psychological condition affecting people who suddenly acquire wealth — through an inheritance, lottery, legal settlement or other windfall. Causes can include feeling disconnected from one’s previous life or an intense fear of losing it all.
These feelings can lead to decision paralysis and poor financial choices. That’s why it’s so important to know how to deal with it before it happens.