Kristi Noem nearly caught her husband red-handed on the phone to a dominatrix while Noem was running America’s deportation machine, the sex worker has claimed.Bryon Noem, 56, an insurance executive, is alleged to have conducted a nine-year online relationship with Shy Sotomayor, a 30-year-old from Colorado Springs, during which he asked to be called Crystal and said he wanted to become a woman. The shocking revelation about Bryon Noem’s secretive “bimbofication” obsession first surfaced in April in The Daily Mail, weeks after Kristi Noem, 54, was fired as Homeland Security secretary on March 5.