Hello guys..here’s perhaps a strange one.
So the context: I moved in with my boyfriend who lives with his family (mum and a brother), a few weeks ago. We’ve been together 4ish years and generally I get along well with the family. They (including my boyfriend) are a bit emotionally detached but yeah it’s been fine. They are also upper middle class, owning a house and big garden in a nice district.
The situation: Today I come home after a long day and head to the bathroom and I see my stuff removed from the shelf above (facewash, lotion etc.) and put aside and this note in the photo. That’s how the counter top looks like.
Personally I felt dejected and asked my boyfriend if he knew about marble getting stained but he had no idea. Me neither, I mean I grew up average household that had no marble in bathrooms.
Question: I don’t know how to take this? I’m so confused as I don’t know how usually Germans tackle such issues.
I’ve had German flatmates before but usually for minor things they’d address it personally with “bitte kannst du..” or something along those lines.
[The note](https://pasteboard.co/f5lvTmM8b0KB.jpg)
I don’t want to be unnecessarily upset but also don’t want to dismiss any feelings I should rightfully be feeling.
Sorry for the long post .. I have anxiety disorder and things have been tough lately so I want to make sure I don’t overthink this.
I would super appreciate any input!
PS. Of course I admit my mistake and wioo try to fix it if possible ^^
Thanks (:[The counter top](https://pasteboard.co/pFYPh3tQh9tA.jpg)