The images below are the only possible markers for his location. I need your help identifying them:

https://drive.google.com/file/d/1vyS1nUgTdsbvB5dC9bspw15qJRVs1lYi/view?usp=drivesdk

https://drive.google.com/file/d/1vzwp1qyzCe9wS5lw_MI9cK98Hr1XECLg/view?usp=drivesdk

https://drive.google.com/file/d/1w0kpb6fKmZRnNJk99Y16tlbeB3W14rZy/view?usp=drivesdk

https://drive.google.com/file/d/1w4JhycXWrIsSH1h_kDkC64kDka8MwIJe/view?usp=drivesdk

UPDATE: Looks like I got through to him. It seems as if he’s moved the deadline because of what I said. 2022. I still need his school though, as a “just in case” something happens.

I live in the Philippines and met him through Omegle. We transferred it to Snapchat and became very close. I quickly learned he was extremely suicidal. I continued the friendship with the intention of helping him recover.

He has gone through several forms of abuse. His parents are neglectful and inflict physical pain toward him. They slap him for doing the littlest things and constantly argue with one another. They gamble a lot and show affection to his other siblings, but none of it is directed toward him. Couple that with the fact he was raped by his uncle at eleven, and you’ve created a person always on the brink of death.

The love of his parents was the only thing he vied for, yet even that was too much to ask. They’re currently in Russia with all of his other siblings, leaving him alone with his cousin. He has a loving brother who would be devasted if he died, but even he doesn’t know this plot of his.

I have continuously extended my support. Everything I could do I did it for him. I told him he was loved, I told him he was special, I told him I would be there with him for as long as I could.

Yet, his response is always the same: “You don’t know the pain I am going through. You might understand it partially, but if you were in my shoes, you would agree with my decisions.”

He wasn’t like this before. He used to have a much longer deadline to his ordeal. But recently, he started feeling a rush of emotions he wanted to end swiftly. He’ll kill himself by the end of December 2021, saying even I can’t stop him.

This lead me to contact the Belgian police through a Redditor. This saint came to the police with the limited information I had. But even with that, they still couldn’t seem to find him anywhere. He was always secretive about his location, maybe damn well knowing I might pull a stunt like this.

Luckily, I have saved a few photos which might give away his school. If the school is identified, they could contact the police and check up on his welfare. It might be a far cry, but a one percent chance is better than zero.

There are multiple children within that household. People that may go through the same abuse he does. I want to end that cycle before he ends his life. Most importantly, I need to save this person who became integral to my being. I can’t lose him over something like this, and it would kill me inside if I did nothing.

The police themselves have said it was “unidentifiable”, but I need your help. I need to know where this school is so the appropriate actions can be taken. It is very much difficult to decipher the location, but I need just one person who knows where he is. I also know he’s around one hour toward a beach with lots of Christmas decor. There’s a bar close by and there’s a McDonald’s.

If you have information, please DM me. I will relay it the moment I receive it. Thank you so much for your kind consideration, it really means the world to me.

TL;DR: My online friend from Belgium is about to kill himself, and I need someone to identify which school he’s in.

11 comments

  2. Can’t they find his location through Snapchat? Could you get a picture of that beach?
    I would contact Childfocus, they are specialized in finding people.

  3. I admire what you are trying to do but you have to understand, for the reader there is no guarantee that you are not just trying to stalk someone and find out their location for the wrong intentions. Do you have anything to prove to us that you are this person’s friend?

  4. Any info about shops he went to, or restaurants, or did he ever tell things where he went to?

    These pictures are a long shot, they’re all from inside so difficult to find any markers unless you’re going to the same school.

  5. The most critical info that you shared is that he lives an hour from the beach. Is it by car or by train? If it’s by train/bus he’s probably from the northern part of belgium. (Do you know if he speaks french or dutch?)

    Unfortunately, those pictures are very generic :/ most schools in belgium look sort of similar. Maybe the one with the teacher could help narrow it down ?

  7. The Christmas tree looks really fancy. Maybe it could be a Catholic school? Those schools tend to have more money than government schools (from my opinion).

    Those schools usually start with “st. x y” “Sint x y” (Sint Michiels college for example).

    Are you guys friends on facebook? Many people still write their school in their bio.

    If you are friends on facebook, go to his friends list and find a little group that are all friends with each other. They are probably all in the class Facebook group.

    If you have his Instagram, check for the frequent commenters and likers. They might have some info as well.

    And lastly, just casually ask his name. “Hey what’s your full name I want to add you on facebook” (and idk just say facebook is really popular in your country). When you have his name it’s easier to call the police.

    But lastly: as a person with a history of mental illnesses: I would be absolutely pissed at you if you told anyone. When he’s better he’ll see how valuable your act was, but in the moment he will be mad af. Don’t start to argue. Just let him be angry.

    Suicidal thoughts aren’t constant. They aren’t always a 10 on severety for months on end. They might get down and come back.

    And also: when I was very concretely planning my suicide attempts, I told everyone I was doing better. When people think you’re doing better they will leave you alone and you can do your thing. Something to look out for.

  9. OP is from the Phillipines. Age of consent over there is 12. Not saying OP isn’t genuine, but this combined with OP’s post history make me more sceptical by the second. FFS, he even has a question about the specifics about murdering somebody for an upcoming book/”book”. Plus, there is a removed post from r slash relationship where in the comments OP is being accused of grooming. Mods, this probably should be handled by authorities, because this seems very fishy. And the last thing anybody would like to do is help a pedophile.

  10. OP, from your previous posts, some of which you deleted, it seems this friend of yours blocked you some time ago. There are also people in previous comments claiming that you are a predator. You yourself wrote something like that you hadn’t made any friends for 7 years until you met this boy. That is all very strange.

    Obviously we don’t have all the facts. I hope your intentions are indeed noble and that you just want to help him, but bear in mind that this might be very overwhelming for him and could be causing more harm than good.

    If anyone has any more info, I suggest they contact the police or a helpline instead of OP.

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