Honestly what the f*ck is wrong with these people? What on earth goes through someone’s mind when they assault an innocent person like this. They need psychiatric help.
I really hope the poor girl is ok.
This kind of thing happens so frequently that I’m not even surprised anymore. Men really need to stop thinking they’re entitled to sex.
>Reegan recalls “He spat in my face, pulled down my dress, grabbed my hair and punched me. She added: “As I lay on the floor completely exposed he called me a ‘slag’ and drove away.”
Absolutely fking disgusting. Poor her, hope she recovers ok. My gf has been assaulted several times and refuses to walk alone in the dark.
Men and others simply cannot begin to grasp this part of being a woman, this learned experience that outdoors is dangerous and every car, every stranger could be an attacker. That you are an object for their sexual advances and you can be beaten for not agreeing to fk a random.
Imagine the choice of being raped or being beaten spat and and or raped…
My gf started recieving sexual comments and threats at 13 walking home from school. At 13 life was a playground for me and I barely had any sense of danger apart from like falling put og a tree…
I don’t even think twice about walking alone barring a few dodgy areas.
It really isnt good enough in society that claims to be advanced and free.
Edit – glad to see the “not all men” bots are in. Work harder on being less fragile lads. Women need to be able to talk about a comman experience without ludicrous strawmanning.
Men ask why women make up boyfriends or leave dates with excuses about family emergencies. This is why. If we don’t, we get attacked. And we don’t know which of you handle rejection and who will attack.
The sad thing is it’s not the first time I’ve heard a story like this or seen pictures of a beautiful girl punched simply due to rejection. Violent behaviour is never justified, sure defend yourself but punching someone because of rejection? The self entitlement of people these days.
Men are afraid women will laugh at them. Women are afraid men will harm them.
It’s scary how fragile the egos are of some lads that think physically assaulting someone is an appropriate way to deal with the embarrassment of being rejected. Though it’s telling that they are probably more embarrassed about being rejected than assaulting someone.
Globally 1 in 3 women experience sexual assault during their lifetime – in the UK this is 1 in 5, with 1 in 4 women experiencing domestic abuse.
Clearly a male problem, and this will continue when we keep hearing little male egos trying to defend their own non-violent behaviour but refusing to own their responsibilities to call out this abhorrent behaviour. You can start by utterly rejecting typical male small-mindedness when talking about women as self-satisfying sexual tools and as less worthy human beings then men.
Hopefully he’s caught and jailed.
He sounds like a rapist in waiting, if he hasn’t raped a woman already.
I’m not even surprised by this anymore. I hope she recovers mentally and physically.
To the “not all men” brigade who are already appearing…
Yes, we know it’s not all men. But let’s pull out the maltesers scenario.
Someone comes up to you with a lovely big box of 100 maltesers. Get in! “Have as many as you want,” they say! “Knock yourself out.” Lovely.
“Oh,” they add, “just one thing. There’s one small lump of chocolate coated shit in there. Sorry, don’t know what happened. But you probably won’t get that one! There’s like 99 in there that are absolutely fine.” They walk away, leaving you with the box.
Take a look at your lovely box of maltesers. How do you feel about them now? 99 of them are fine. Are you going to risk it?
Edit: think about this the next time we have a post that shows women being what you think is unnecessarily suspicious of men. Remember that post that went round a while back about a man buying a woman shots at a bar, and she sneakily chucked them away instead? There were a whole load of men in that post saying “why does she have to lie? He wasted money buying those drinks for her! Why can’t she just have a normal conversation with him like a human being and just say no thanks? This is stupid and wasteful”. Well, this is why. He might be a chocolate coated lump of shit, and you can’t tell until you bite in.
>insult was added to injury when a group of men chanted football slogans to her after the incident.
You see a lady assaulted, so you chant football slogans at her. Way to go guys, real gentlemen like of you.
My wife got punched while on a hen party in a strip club in London The strip club opened up as a nightclub once the show was over. Some “roidy guy” punched her right in the mouth when she intervened between the guy and our small friend who he wouldn’t leave alone.
She said he punched like a wimp (didn’t knock her over) but her mouth was swollen and bloody when she got home. The nightclub was treating it like a domestic and didn’t call the police until she explicitly said she had no idea who the guy was.
People do this because they don’t fear the repercussions of their actions.
The law is too soft.
And imagine if she had said yes. She could have been part of an abusive relationship for decades!
This is one of the many reasons women ghost men they don’t know well yet. After one or two dates, she has no way of knowing you won’t attack her.
If people wouldn’t mind could you comment underneath the story on the site too? you don’t need to enter a name or email just comment and enter! i would really appreciate it, as i am trying to amplify the voices and experiences of these ladies and hopefully make a difference in this world. Theres also a chat section on the website and i am very keen to learn from everyone here.
Logically speaking, isnt it more embarrassing to lose your cool and show everyone you have a fragile ego than it is to just shrug say “eh, happens” and move on with your day?
When I was younger I exchanged numbers with someone on a night out. Got cold feet when I sobered up the next day and essentially “ghosted” him. I was younger and less mature. So yeah.
A week later after I ignored a couple of messages I got a text saying “I’ll fucking kill you if I see you again stupid bitch”. It was over 10 years ago but that’s it word for word. Its never left me.
I was scared of going out and to that venue again for months. I changed my number.
The scariest thing is how chill, nice and normal drunken him seemed on that night out. Still consider it the nastiest bullet I’ve ever dodged.
Edit: the police took his number when I contacted them but didn’t seem that bothered really. Never found out if anything happened through hearsay
I was driving through Cornwall last weekend and my partner said they saw an old set of stocks in a village as we passed through. We need to bring these back.
I’ve been viciously cussed out for rejecting a man before- it’s one of the reasons why I literally look past men when I’m walking past them.
Some men should just be neutered. It makes me feel sick to think that some pathetic little man would attack a woman on her own, just because of his insecurities.
I don’t think a lot of men realise how common this is. Lads – I promise you that literally every woman and girl you know will have had a scary, threatening experience with men at some point in her life. Your sister, your girlfriend, your mum, your teen daughter – all of them. They may not feel comfortable talking about it with you (it’s easier to squash down the memories and try to move on than to admit it, discuss it, relive it), but it still happened.
She might have had her drink spiked and assaulted whilst unable to defend herself. Or maybe followed home late at night and had the guy drunkenly shouting obscenities and trying to grab her as she frantically searched for her front door key. Maybe she was curb-crawled and almost dragged into a car on her way home from school when she was 13. Every woman you know has gone through this, no matter how old, young, ugly, or pretty she is.
I was dancing in a bar a few years ago when a woman staggered towards me looking very drowsy. I managed to catch her and help her to the ground as she fell face forward. I put her in the recovery position. Bouncers weren’t interested they just called for the paramedics. I stayed with her until they arrived and as a man helping a semi unconscious woman that I didn’t know did make me worry about consequences plus I couldn’t tell who she was with as no one showed concern.
After a couple of minutes one of her colleagues came over, I asked what had happened and she’d rejected some guys advances as she had a bf and he right hooked her in the side of the face then bolted with his mates. I asked why her friends hadn’t rushed to help and found out she was a new colleague to them and no one knew her that well and I guess they didn’t want it to ruin their night.
There was also some pissed up bloke who tried to get involved and he had that look in his eye that said I can be a hero and get laid, so my mate who was with me told him to fuck off and let the bouncers know. Didn’t see him again.
My friends saw this happen to a woman at a pub in New Cross. Except he punched her with a pint glass in his hand. Think he got away.
It kills me reading about this. It honestly feels like one of those things that would only happen to other people, aka, be rare or infrequent. Except every woman and girl has experienced it multiple times, every guy has probably seen it happen to a female friend or family member.
It really makes you wonder just how many scumbags are out there and capable of being like this. I hope the world is a little bit different when my children grow up.
What a fucking loser. I’ve been rejected loads of times and never injured anyone for it but myself.
I got slashed by a guy who I rejected earlier this year. He threatened to kill me too. He was calling me a slag after I rejected him for apparently flirting with him all night, then when I argued back he got a knife out. Currently awaiting a CPS decision.
Hands up which of us men would be happy to return the favour on her behalf? Fairs fair and he might learn not to hit women that way.
Yup. It’s one of so many shitty behaviours young women have to put up with. I’m glad I’m middle aged and I don’t have to deal with so much of that any more. It’s exhausting and scary 😞
This is so fucking sad! What world do we live in now jeez
And this is why we’re scared of being approached by strange men. 99/100 are decent guys. But you never know when you’re going to get a violent loser who might hurt you.
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Honestly what the f*ck is wrong with these people? What on earth goes through someone’s mind when they assault an innocent person like this. They need psychiatric help.
I really hope the poor girl is ok.
This kind of thing happens so frequently that I’m not even surprised anymore. Men really need to stop thinking they’re entitled to sex.
>Reegan recalls “He spat in my face, pulled down my dress, grabbed my hair and punched me. She added: “As I lay on the floor completely exposed he called me a ‘slag’ and drove away.”
Absolutely fking disgusting. Poor her, hope she recovers ok. My gf has been assaulted several times and refuses to walk alone in the dark.
Men and others simply cannot begin to grasp this part of being a woman, this learned experience that outdoors is dangerous and every car, every stranger could be an attacker. That you are an object for their sexual advances and you can be beaten for not agreeing to fk a random.
Imagine the choice of being raped or being beaten spat and and or raped…
My gf started recieving sexual comments and threats at 13 walking home from school. At 13 life was a playground for me and I barely had any sense of danger apart from like falling put og a tree…
I don’t even think twice about walking alone barring a few dodgy areas.
It really isnt good enough in society that claims to be advanced and free.
Edit – glad to see the “not all men” bots are in. Work harder on being less fragile lads. Women need to be able to talk about a comman experience without ludicrous strawmanning.
Men ask why women make up boyfriends or leave dates with excuses about family emergencies. This is why. If we don’t, we get attacked. And we don’t know which of you handle rejection and who will attack.
The sad thing is it’s not the first time I’ve heard a story like this or seen pictures of a beautiful girl punched simply due to rejection. Violent behaviour is never justified, sure defend yourself but punching someone because of rejection? The self entitlement of people these days.
Men are afraid women will laugh at them. Women are afraid men will harm them.
It’s scary how fragile the egos are of some lads that think physically assaulting someone is an appropriate way to deal with the embarrassment of being rejected. Though it’s telling that they are probably more embarrassed about being rejected than assaulting someone.
Globally 1 in 3 women experience sexual assault during their lifetime – in the UK this is 1 in 5, with 1 in 4 women experiencing domestic abuse.
Clearly a male problem, and this will continue when we keep hearing little male egos trying to defend their own non-violent behaviour but refusing to own their responsibilities to call out this abhorrent behaviour. You can start by utterly rejecting typical male small-mindedness when talking about women as self-satisfying sexual tools and as less worthy human beings then men.
Hopefully he’s caught and jailed.
He sounds like a rapist in waiting, if he hasn’t raped a woman already.
I’m not even surprised by this anymore. I hope she recovers mentally and physically.
To the “not all men” brigade who are already appearing…
Yes, we know it’s not all men. But let’s pull out the maltesers scenario.
Someone comes up to you with a lovely big box of 100 maltesers. Get in! “Have as many as you want,” they say! “Knock yourself out.” Lovely.
“Oh,” they add, “just one thing. There’s one small lump of chocolate coated shit in there. Sorry, don’t know what happened. But you probably won’t get that one! There’s like 99 in there that are absolutely fine.” They walk away, leaving you with the box.
Take a look at your lovely box of maltesers. How do you feel about them now? 99 of them are fine. Are you going to risk it?
Edit: think about this the next time we have a post that shows women being what you think is unnecessarily suspicious of men. Remember that post that went round a while back about a man buying a woman shots at a bar, and she sneakily chucked them away instead? There were a whole load of men in that post saying “why does she have to lie? He wasted money buying those drinks for her! Why can’t she just have a normal conversation with him like a human being and just say no thanks? This is stupid and wasteful”. Well, this is why. He might be a chocolate coated lump of shit, and you can’t tell until you bite in.
>insult was added to injury when a group of men chanted football slogans to her after the incident.
You see a lady assaulted, so you chant football slogans at her. Way to go guys, real gentlemen like of you.
My wife got punched while on a hen party in a strip club in London The strip club opened up as a nightclub once the show was over. Some “roidy guy” punched her right in the mouth when she intervened between the guy and our small friend who he wouldn’t leave alone.
She said he punched like a wimp (didn’t knock her over) but her mouth was swollen and bloody when she got home. The nightclub was treating it like a domestic and didn’t call the police until she explicitly said she had no idea who the guy was.
People do this because they don’t fear the repercussions of their actions.
The law is too soft.
And imagine if she had said yes. She could have been part of an abusive relationship for decades!
This is one of the many reasons women ghost men they don’t know well yet. After one or two dates, she has no way of knowing you won’t attack her.
If people wouldn’t mind could you comment underneath the story on the site too? you don’t need to enter a name or email just comment and enter! i would really appreciate it, as i am trying to amplify the voices and experiences of these ladies and hopefully make a difference in this world. Theres also a chat section on the website and i am very keen to learn from everyone here.
Logically speaking, isnt it more embarrassing to lose your cool and show everyone you have a fragile ego than it is to just shrug say “eh, happens” and move on with your day?
When I was younger I exchanged numbers with someone on a night out. Got cold feet when I sobered up the next day and essentially “ghosted” him. I was younger and less mature. So yeah.
A week later after I ignored a couple of messages I got a text saying “I’ll fucking kill you if I see you again stupid bitch”. It was over 10 years ago but that’s it word for word. Its never left me.
I was scared of going out and to that venue again for months. I changed my number.
The scariest thing is how chill, nice and normal drunken him seemed on that night out. Still consider it the nastiest bullet I’ve ever dodged.
Edit: the police took his number when I contacted them but didn’t seem that bothered really. Never found out if anything happened through hearsay
I was driving through Cornwall last weekend and my partner said they saw an old set of stocks in a village as we passed through. We need to bring these back.
I’ve been viciously cussed out for rejecting a man before- it’s one of the reasons why I literally look past men when I’m walking past them.
Some men should just be neutered. It makes me feel sick to think that some pathetic little man would attack a woman on her own, just because of his insecurities.
I don’t think a lot of men realise how common this is. Lads – I promise you that literally every woman and girl you know will have had a scary, threatening experience with men at some point in her life. Your sister, your girlfriend, your mum, your teen daughter – all of them. They may not feel comfortable talking about it with you (it’s easier to squash down the memories and try to move on than to admit it, discuss it, relive it), but it still happened.
She might have had her drink spiked and assaulted whilst unable to defend herself. Or maybe followed home late at night and had the guy drunkenly shouting obscenities and trying to grab her as she frantically searched for her front door key. Maybe she was curb-crawled and almost dragged into a car on her way home from school when she was 13. Every woman you know has gone through this, no matter how old, young, ugly, or pretty she is.
I was dancing in a bar a few years ago when a woman staggered towards me looking very drowsy. I managed to catch her and help her to the ground as she fell face forward. I put her in the recovery position. Bouncers weren’t interested they just called for the paramedics. I stayed with her until they arrived and as a man helping a semi unconscious woman that I didn’t know did make me worry about consequences plus I couldn’t tell who she was with as no one showed concern.
After a couple of minutes one of her colleagues came over, I asked what had happened and she’d rejected some guys advances as she had a bf and he right hooked her in the side of the face then bolted with his mates. I asked why her friends hadn’t rushed to help and found out she was a new colleague to them and no one knew her that well and I guess they didn’t want it to ruin their night.
There was also some pissed up bloke who tried to get involved and he had that look in his eye that said I can be a hero and get laid, so my mate who was with me told him to fuck off and let the bouncers know. Didn’t see him again.
My friends saw this happen to a woman at a pub in New Cross. Except he punched her with a pint glass in his hand. Think he got away.
It kills me reading about this. It honestly feels like one of those things that would only happen to other people, aka, be rare or infrequent. Except every woman and girl has experienced it multiple times, every guy has probably seen it happen to a female friend or family member.
It really makes you wonder just how many scumbags are out there and capable of being like this. I hope the world is a little bit different when my children grow up.
What a fucking loser. I’ve been rejected loads of times and never injured anyone for it but myself.
I got slashed by a guy who I rejected earlier this year. He threatened to kill me too. He was calling me a slag after I rejected him for apparently flirting with him all night, then when I argued back he got a knife out. Currently awaiting a CPS decision.
Hands up which of us men would be happy to return the favour on her behalf? Fairs fair and he might learn not to hit women that way.
Yup. It’s one of so many shitty behaviours young women have to put up with. I’m glad I’m middle aged and I don’t have to deal with so much of that any more. It’s exhausting and scary 😞
This is so fucking sad! What world do we live in now jeez
And this is why we’re scared of being approached by strange men. 99/100 are decent guys. But you never know when you’re going to get a violent loser who might hurt you.