(If there are any grammarly errors I appoligise since english is not my first language)

Ok so I (16M) have been absolutley humiliated due too my look’s. Most of the time a girl add’s me on snap they usually ask the usual questions such as age and photo.

Anyways when I send these 25% of girl’s a picture of myself (keep in mind I’m talking about a ffp nothing inappropriate) they just say something along the lines of ”EEEWWWW,, and then proceed to Block me and I’m left feeling like a pile of dog sh*t.(one even said: ew you’re so ugly you could make a blind person cry)

My friends and family always say that I’m a pretty good looking guy but it’s not as reassuring as strangers considering that they are my friend’s and family and don’t want to upset me.

Also I have NEVER had a gf in fact I’ve never even kissed a girl. So with that being said am I really ugly enough to make girls runaway in terror?

P.s. ég er íslendingur en mér finnst léttara að skrifa þetta á ensku.

5 comments

  1. >english is not my first language

    >finnst léttara að skrifa þetta á ensku

    smá mótsögn í gangi þarna

    gangi þér vel að finna gf, það er ekkert að hjá þér útlitslega séð, bara venjulegur.

  2. > Also I have NEVER had a gf in fact I’ve never even kissed a girl.

    This was true for me and my friend group at that age, in fact past twenty for most. Don’t think you’re really missing out on anything

    > So with that being said am I really ugly enough to make girls runaway in terror?

    No, there’s something else going on here. Decent people don’t make nasty comments if they’re not interested. Maybe these people on snapchat are more interested in getting a kick out of rejecting someone rather than finding someone? It’s not a dating platform (as far as I know)

  5. Are these girls Icelanders / living in Iceland or are they foreigners living outside of Iceland? And are they anonymous or do you have their names?

    The more distant the girls you are talking to online (ie random anonymous strangers) the easier it is to be rude and hurtful. I remember when I was 15 in the early stages of social media (pre-facebook), I wrote once something really mean and hurtful to a random anonymous girl online. The only thing I knew about her was a profile picture of hers. The fact that I did not know who she was, what her real name was, where she lived or anything else about her, made it really easy for me to just write whatever I wanted to her.

    The same day I sent it I started to feel really bad about it. And I still think about it sometimes, more than 15 years later.

    Since then I have never done something like that again. But for some reason, people dont seem to learn the same lessons as I did, and keep doing this over and over.

    Its so common and it is really sad.

    I think you look absolutely fine. You are still super young, not having kissed anybody at that age is normal.

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