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Kad sam već tu, ovo je kakvoćno:
> The trend now– generation <40– is for the woman to have the mid-life crisis. Before you jump on men, it’s a combination of factors.
> On the male side, the drive for novelty and nueva vida loca is turned inwards, so that rather than chase new experiences they close off from the outside world and dream them. They don’t end relationships, they stay caulked to the inside of one, unmoving, ungrowing, apathetic; while their minds and DVRs are an imaginarium. The few things they do choose to jump recklesslsy into are obvious go-nowheres: one night stands (for the married man); making a movie; daytrading. They’re easy to attempt, and easy to blame on externalities when they inevitably fail.
> They don’t break up with the girl, they ignore her until she breaks up with them.
> On the female side: well, reverse 50 years of history and it’s what men went through. Promised the world as described by Coca Cola and whatever TV show was popular at the time. All opportunities are open to anyone who wants to work, a new car, a big house, a career. But no one told the men that those things were for their families, not for them, that none of this would make them happy, and, indeed, would make them realize how little their lives are really worth– unless they understood that their lives had value only if it was of value to someone else. So for a while they chased sex, affairs, or took up an out of the house hobby (e.g.golf). Something to give them the temporary illusion that they were free, and that the world had possibilties, not pot roast and pot bellies.
> That’s where women are, encouraged like the men had been by media images that say, “of course you can! (if you have the right bag).” You can’t. It didn’t make men happy, and it sure won’t make you happy. If you think it looks stupid when a 40 year old man buys a convertible or has to go find himself or chases a 20 year old intern, think how stupid it looks when the woman does it.
> Women since 1980 have been sold a big fat lie, the same one the men were sold since 1945. It didn’t turn out well for them. It did make men drink more, so you can look forward to that.
Znači, treba proći što više veza do kraja puberteta ili ćeš inače ostati psihički nezreo?
Ne bi preozbiljno ovo shvaćao. Psihoanaliza je više manje odbačena perspektiva u suvremenoj psihologiji. Iako sve ovo ima nekakvog smisla kada se pročita, treba imati na umu:
A) ovi zaključci su bazirani na netestabilnim hipotezama. To znači da navedenu teoriju nije moguće znanstveno ispitati, te time niti potvrditi niti odbaciti. Rekla kazala u suštini.
B) sve je to bazirano na Jungovoj psihoanalizi koja se nije značajno mjenjala od Junga do danas. Suvremena psihologija je dosta uznapredovala do danas i termini poput animusa nisu priznati kao znanstveno utemeljeni. Štoviše, jako puno toga što su poznati psihoanaliticari poput Freuda i Junga tvrdili danas se u znanstvenoj zajednici smatra zastarjelim i u potpunosti nepotvrđenim.
source: student psihologije
Aha, znaci zato sam ja jos uvijek balavac u 25oj godini…
i aint readin allat
S druge strane kaj imaš? – Birokratsko odmjerivanje pluseva, minusa je li netko vrijedan pet minuta vremena s tobom?
Droga in a nutshell.
Tačno i lepo objašnjeno, sad mi se još čita 😂
Nikad vise gluposti nisam procito
Jadni psiholozi koji se pokušavaju baviti ozbiljnom znanošću pored svih ovakvih netestabilnih, rekla-kazala, “ima logike”, armchair philosophy mudrosti kojih se čak i obrazovani ljudi hvataju kao muhe na govno.
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Najbolje sjedit sam i nesretan u mračnoj sobi bez kontakta s ostalim ljudskim jedinkama, ali nema veze bitno je da kužiš priču. Knjige su pune prašnjavih mrtvih stranica, no ljudi su barem topli.
Kad sam već tu, ovo je kakvoćno:
> The trend now– generation <40– is for the woman to have the mid-life crisis. Before you jump on men, it’s a combination of factors.
> On the male side, the drive for novelty and nueva vida loca is turned inwards, so that rather than chase new experiences they close off from the outside world and dream them. They don’t end relationships, they stay caulked to the inside of one, unmoving, ungrowing, apathetic; while their minds and DVRs are an imaginarium. The few things they do choose to jump recklesslsy into are obvious go-nowheres: one night stands (for the married man); making a movie; daytrading. They’re easy to attempt, and easy to blame on externalities when they inevitably fail.
> They don’t break up with the girl, they ignore her until she breaks up with them.
> On the female side: well, reverse 50 years of history and it’s what men went through. Promised the world as described by Coca Cola and whatever TV show was popular at the time. All opportunities are open to anyone who wants to work, a new car, a big house, a career. But no one told the men that those things were for their families, not for them, that none of this would make them happy, and, indeed, would make them realize how little their lives are really worth– unless they understood that their lives had value only if it was of value to someone else. So for a while they chased sex, affairs, or took up an out of the house hobby (e.g.golf). Something to give them the temporary illusion that they were free, and that the world had possibilties, not pot roast and pot bellies.
> That’s where women are, encouraged like the men had been by media images that say, “of course you can! (if you have the right bag).” You can’t. It didn’t make men happy, and it sure won’t make you happy. If you think it looks stupid when a 40 year old man buys a convertible or has to go find himself or chases a 20 year old intern, think how stupid it looks when the woman does it.
> Women since 1980 have been sold a big fat lie, the same one the men were sold since 1945. It didn’t turn out well for them. It did make men drink more, so you can look forward to that.
https://thelastpsychiatrist.com/2010/06/love_means_not_letting_the_oth.html
Znači, treba proći što više veza do kraja puberteta ili ćeš inače ostati psihički nezreo?
Ne bi preozbiljno ovo shvaćao. Psihoanaliza je više manje odbačena perspektiva u suvremenoj psihologiji. Iako sve ovo ima nekakvog smisla kada se pročita, treba imati na umu:
A) ovi zaključci su bazirani na netestabilnim hipotezama. To znači da navedenu teoriju nije moguće znanstveno ispitati, te time niti potvrditi niti odbaciti. Rekla kazala u suštini.
B) sve je to bazirano na Jungovoj psihoanalizi koja se nije značajno mjenjala od Junga do danas. Suvremena psihologija je dosta uznapredovala do danas i termini poput animusa nisu priznati kao znanstveno utemeljeni. Štoviše, jako puno toga što su poznati psihoanaliticari poput Freuda i Junga tvrdili danas se u znanstvenoj zajednici smatra zastarjelim i u potpunosti nepotvrđenim.
source: student psihologije
Aha, znaci zato sam ja jos uvijek balavac u 25oj godini…
i aint readin allat
S druge strane kaj imaš? – Birokratsko odmjerivanje pluseva, minusa je li netko vrijedan pet minuta vremena s tobom?
Droga in a nutshell.
Tačno i lepo objašnjeno, sad mi se još čita 😂
Nikad vise gluposti nisam procito
Jadni psiholozi koji se pokušavaju baviti ozbiljnom znanošću pored svih ovakvih netestabilnih, rekla-kazala, “ima logike”, armchair philosophy mudrosti kojih se čak i obrazovani ljudi hvataju kao muhe na govno.