Omg, moral question. Do you delete to help the lad out or do you keep if to be fair to the wife?
Totally leave it up.
I’d delete it.
I’d leave it up. I would want to know if I was the partner being betrayed. It’s better long term for that person to know the truth.
How prevalent is this do ya reckon? I don’t get why people are like this?!
Who was not with his wife here?
Never mind leave it up or not. This has made me think about how chaotic and fun it would be to write reviews for someone who stayed on their own as “John and their partner were a lovely couple…”
In the spirit of minding your own business, delete it
Small chance it could be a more complicated reason than just infidelity. Maybe he’s recently separated / divorced, or maybe he’s trying to get away from an unhealthy ex. His request should be respected.
And soon his wife won’t be his wife anymore.
Pub I worked in years ago did B&B.
I remeber a couple that used to come stay regularly.
As we used to say about them, “they’re married, just not to each other.”
One ought to own the consequences of one’s own actions gracefully.
Leave the review. Don’t be an accessory in this guy’s cheating.
Another reason to use a regular hotel.
Those women were in the nip
I do social media management for a pub that had someone come in and take nighttime photos of people enjoying themselves.
The amount of people messaging us to take down the photo because 1) they are making a holy show of themselves 2) they think they look manky in the photo 3) they are with someone somewhere they shouldn’t be.
Unless your giving yhe finger, throwing gang signs or the boss boss tells me, I’m not taking anything down. It’s our page and the photographer literally shouts in your face over the music “DO YOU WANT YOUR PHOTO TAKEN?! ARE YOU SURE!?” And will listen if someone says no or wants to step out of shot. You consented to the photo.
Had one guy be blurry in the background of the photo once. Couldn’t tell it was him from John across the road because it was the back of his head ans blurry. He wanted us to take it down because he wasn’t supposed to be out or something. Wanted me to delete a lovely photo of smiling friends enjoying themselves because his spud head was slightly in the blurry background with no tag on him. Not a chance.
This is the most boards.ie thread I’ve seen on this subreddit.
Is there a legit privacy issue here? Like almost GDPR? If a hotel was posting the names of every person I stayed a single night with… well it’d be a short list with no way of reordering it
Why is someone writing a review about a guest?
Is he still ‘one of the lads’ if he cheats on his wife?
The mouth alone from this screenshot is enough for him to get caught
If you were the man’s wife you’d probably be able to make him out from the bottom half of that pic. Bet it’s the same one he uses on Facebook
The amount of people in this thread who seem to thing keeping a cheaters secret is the right thing to do is kinda shocking.
I would take down the review and stay the hell out of it. Not my problem. I’m sure discretion is a major part of any hospitality job
Our old landlady learned the hard way that this is why most air BnBs have a 2 night minimum stay.. she was renting out the granny flat she had built for her Mam who passed away, one of her daughters friends who was on grinder matched with a guy and sent him the eircode.. it was to her house! The hilarious part was our landlady had a new enough boyfriend and for a few minutes the daughter was in the awkward position of trying to tell her Mam that her boyfriend was on grinder.. turned out of course it was just the man who had rented the place for the night.. she’s also definitely had people meet up for affairs as most of the time couples arrive in 2 separate cars and are gone by early AM.. she’s also had “lovely” things to have to clean up..including candle wax all over the bed linen and a bowl of fairy liquid left on the bedside locker..
Of course the host should delete it. It’s none of their business who the chap is bringing back to the house. If the host leaves it up, and deliberately tries to destroy the marriage, I’d at the very least expect the guest to re-visit the host with the intention of serious injury or property damage (this is the real world, after all).
That’d be subject to the optional “Don’t expose my skeevy affair” service fee.
A good rule of thumb is this sort of carry on explodes eventually and when it does you don’t want to be anywhere remotely close enough to get hit by the shrapnel.
Judge not, lest you be judged!!
Ask him for 100 euro then leave it up anyways
Just change it slightly. “John stayed here alone with absolutely nobody else, and was a lovely guest. He spent much of his time in his room. Totally alone, of course.”
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Omg, moral question. Do you delete to help the lad out or do you keep if to be fair to the wife?
Totally leave it up.
I’d delete it.
I’d leave it up. I would want to know if I was the partner being betrayed. It’s better long term for that person to know the truth.
How prevalent is this do ya reckon? I don’t get why people are like this?!
Who was not with his wife here?
Never mind leave it up or not. This has made me think about how chaotic and fun it would be to write reviews for someone who stayed on their own as “John and their partner were a lovely couple…”
In the spirit of minding your own business, delete it
Small chance it could be a more complicated reason than just infidelity. Maybe he’s recently separated / divorced, or maybe he’s trying to get away from an unhealthy ex. His request should be respected.
And soon his wife won’t be his wife anymore.
Pub I worked in years ago did B&B.
I remeber a couple that used to come stay regularly.
As we used to say about them, “they’re married, just not to each other.”
One ought to own the consequences of one’s own actions gracefully.
Leave the review. Don’t be an accessory in this guy’s cheating.
Another reason to use a regular hotel.
Those women were in the nip
I do social media management for a pub that had someone come in and take nighttime photos of people enjoying themselves.
The amount of people messaging us to take down the photo because 1) they are making a holy show of themselves 2) they think they look manky in the photo 3) they are with someone somewhere they shouldn’t be.
Unless your giving yhe finger, throwing gang signs or the boss boss tells me, I’m not taking anything down. It’s our page and the photographer literally shouts in your face over the music “DO YOU WANT YOUR PHOTO TAKEN?! ARE YOU SURE!?” And will listen if someone says no or wants to step out of shot. You consented to the photo.
Had one guy be blurry in the background of the photo once. Couldn’t tell it was him from John across the road because it was the back of his head ans blurry. He wanted us to take it down because he wasn’t supposed to be out or something. Wanted me to delete a lovely photo of smiling friends enjoying themselves because his spud head was slightly in the blurry background with no tag on him. Not a chance.
This is the most boards.ie thread I’ve seen on this subreddit.
Is there a legit privacy issue here? Like almost GDPR? If a hotel was posting the names of every person I stayed a single night with… well it’d be a short list with no way of reordering it
Why is someone writing a review about a guest?
Is he still ‘one of the lads’ if he cheats on his wife?
The mouth alone from this screenshot is enough for him to get caught
https://preview.redd.it/mbp1iecaisoa1.jpeg?width=688&format=pjpg&auto=webp&v=enabled&s=731e0d7dd3f96e12b24cd1ea732231cc03c896b7
Just change it to this
If you were the man’s wife you’d probably be able to make him out from the bottom half of that pic. Bet it’s the same one he uses on Facebook
The amount of people in this thread who seem to thing keeping a cheaters secret is the right thing to do is kinda shocking.
I would take down the review and stay the hell out of it. Not my problem. I’m sure discretion is a major part of any hospitality job
Our old landlady learned the hard way that this is why most air BnBs have a 2 night minimum stay.. she was renting out the granny flat she had built for her Mam who passed away, one of her daughters friends who was on grinder matched with a guy and sent him the eircode.. it was to her house! The hilarious part was our landlady had a new enough boyfriend and for a few minutes the daughter was in the awkward position of trying to tell her Mam that her boyfriend was on grinder.. turned out of course it was just the man who had rented the place for the night.. she’s also definitely had people meet up for affairs as most of the time couples arrive in 2 separate cars and are gone by early AM.. she’s also had “lovely” things to have to clean up..including candle wax all over the bed linen and a bowl of fairy liquid left on the bedside locker..
Of course the host should delete it. It’s none of their business who the chap is bringing back to the house. If the host leaves it up, and deliberately tries to destroy the marriage, I’d at the very least expect the guest to re-visit the host with the intention of serious injury or property damage (this is the real world, after all).
That’d be subject to the optional “Don’t expose my skeevy affair” service fee.
A good rule of thumb is this sort of carry on explodes eventually and when it does you don’t want to be anywhere remotely close enough to get hit by the shrapnel.
Judge not, lest you be judged!!
Ask him for 100 euro then leave it up anyways
Just change it slightly. “John stayed here alone with absolutely nobody else, and was a lovely guest. He spent much of his time in his room. Totally alone, of course.”