**Zakladnym predpokladom je mat realisticke ocakavania.**
Ocakavanie, ze kazdy jeden den bude niecim unikatny a da vam novy/zaujimavy/nevsedny/vzrusujuci zazitok je jednoducho chybne. Vacsina dni vo vasom zivote budu presne take ste uz zazili. A to je uplne normalne a v poriadku. Naucte sa aj z takychto dni vytazit radost. Inak povedane, radujte sa aj z malickosti. Aj z uplnych picovin.
Nikto, ani ten najstastnejsi clovek na svete, sa neraduje stale.
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**Obklobte sa ludmi, ktori zdielaju vas zmysel pre humor.** Zdrojom nasej radosti je na 90% interakcia s inymi ludmi. Kazdy dobry zazitok je lepsi ak je zdielany. Je to tak, 90% vasho (ne)stastia bude vychadzat z toho, akeho partnera si vyberiete. [50 Points Of Advice From An 80-Year-Old Man – bod 12](https://www.patrickwanis.com/50-points-of-advice-from-an-80-year-old-man/)
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**Budte odvazny a robte odvazne veci. Necakajte, ze radostny zivot sa vam stane. Urobte si ho.** To je najtazsie, lebo za seba musite prebrat zodpovednost
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**Radost a stastie nevyplyvaju z okolnosti nasho zivota, ale z toho aky mate minset.**
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Ak uz teraz rozmyslate nad tym, ako “vase ocakavania su realisticke”, “nie je jednoduche sa obklopit ludmi, co zdielaju moj zmysel pre humor”, a “ako si ho mam urobit? Ak by to bolo take lahke, tak by som si ho uz urobil”, tak ste neprevzali za svoj zivot a svoje stastie zodpovenost a nie ste pripraveny na to si zadovazit radost.
Zopar bodov, ktore som si vytiahla z 50 Points Of Advice From An 80-Year-Old Man, ktore vo mne najviac zarezonovali:
9. Be brave. Even if you’re not, pretend to be. No one can tell the difference.
12. Choose your life’s mate carefully. From this one decision will come 90 per cent of all your happiness or misery.
16. When playing games with children, let them win
19. Become the most positive and enthusiastic person you know
21. Don’t allow the phone to interrupt important moments. It’s there for our convenience, not the caller’s.
31. Be bold and courageous. When you look back on life, you’ll regret the things you didn’t do more than the ones you did.
32. Never waste an opportunity to tell someone you love them
33. Remember no one makes it alone. Have a grateful heart and be quick to acknowledge those who helped you.
34. Take charge of your attitude. Don’t let someone else choose it for you.
40. Keep a note pad and pencil on your bed-side table. Million-dollar ideas sometimes strike at 3 a.m.
42. Send your loved ones flowers. Think of a reason later.
49. Remember that 80 percent of the success in any job is based on your ability to deal with people.
50. Don’t expect life to be fair.
V tychto slovach je obrovska mudrost.
by Sassy-Pantaloons
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Nope.