Id hate to be so tragic but this seems not bad at all to me? This is a date with roughly 1/450ish people you see on the street?
I mean obviously it’s different because this is a dating app with people in a set range. But still. I wouldn’t say you’re doing terribly or anything. Dating online is hard.
i assume rejected means likes rejected by you?
This is what they mean when they say that someone is “the one” – you get two dates with the one.
Maybe only like people you want to date, and people that suit you, rather than just all of them? The other side of this issue is women have to deal with 100s of messages from men who aren’t a good match for them.
Dating is exhausting. When I was on Tinder [paid], Hinge, and something else, I eventually stopped being picky and just started swipping on almost anyone. Lots of matches. Lots of “super matches.” Went on a bunch of dates, but you quickly know if it’s gunna to work or not. I even paid for a date to the zoo and the guy, I had his snap, was in the area but told me he was working. While at pizza joints lmao.
Who owns: and operates the largest global portfolio of popular online dating services including Tinder, Match.com, Meetic, OkCupid, Hinge, Plenty of Fish, OurTime, and other dating global brands.[3]
It’s similar to me. Decent amount of first dates and then that’s it
These are incredible results. You got more results in two months than I did in over six months.
As a woman it is usually pretty transparent who’s been liking 1111 profiles a month, ngl. And I probably won’t match with them if they didn’t show any sign of having read my profile. I totally get why men are too burnt out to put in the effort though.
That’s not bad. 6 dates with 5 people in 2 months.
I’d be curious to know what your messages are like with the 80 something you didn’t meet up with. Also are you planning on seeing any of those 5 again?
This is making me glad to be gay. That’s a rough success rate.
Holy fuck you cast a wide net.
it took me 6 months to find someone on Hinge, good luck!
You got a date? At all? That’s insane. Then again I can’t afford most dating apps
Swipe yes less, it devalues you in the algorithm to have so many positive swipes.
how would you say you’d rate yourself on the SMV?
By any chance can you share your profile? I’m curious to know what type of profiles lead to this outcome (not good or bad specifically)
Men will swipe right over 90% of the time, and women swipe right 5% of profiles. We have to filter so many guys who are looking for a warm body.
Matches to dates ratio is way too low.
Only 44 rejected makes me think that you liked a lot of people you didn’t really want to go out with.
If those 144 were good matches, you should have gone out with at least 10 or more
Maybe you should just like the ones you actually like.
Do you read profiles before swiping, or just swipe on as many people as possible?
Bro go outside and meet people.
If you’re swiping yes on over 1000 people a month I feel as though the app probably has some kind of anti spam protection right? That could be partially whats going on at least.
I got to know a guy platonically who said it’s all in the opening chat. Look up suggestions from dating coaches. Just “hi, how are you?” won’t stand out if she’s an attractive woman; she’ll be getting lots of those low effort contacts.
Assuming you don’t look like an absolute troll, and have photos in which you look pleasant! I did online dating many years ago and there were a lot of dudes with dreadful photos (deadpan or even frowning; or featuring their car or macho dog!) and minimal description of who they are, why they’d be good company. If you can get a friendly woman to look over your profile and give advice that might help.
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You got 144 matches in 2 months wtf?
Great analysis.
Maybe take a salsa class?
Id hate to be so tragic but this seems not bad at all to me? This is a date with roughly 1/450ish people you see on the street?
I mean obviously it’s different because this is a dating app with people in a set range. But still. I wouldn’t say you’re doing terribly or anything. Dating online is hard.
i assume rejected means likes rejected by you?
This is what they mean when they say that someone is “the one” – you get two dates with the one.
Maybe only like people you want to date, and people that suit you, rather than just all of them? The other side of this issue is women have to deal with 100s of messages from men who aren’t a good match for them.
Dating is exhausting. When I was on Tinder [paid], Hinge, and something else, I eventually stopped being picky and just started swipping on almost anyone. Lots of matches. Lots of “super matches.” Went on a bunch of dates, but you quickly know if it’s gunna to work or not. I even paid for a date to the zoo and the guy, I had his snap, was in the area but told me he was working. While at pizza joints lmao.
Hinge for the old people like me: https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hinge_(app)
Owner by Match: https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Match_Group
Who owns: and operates the largest global portfolio of popular online dating services including Tinder, Match.com, Meetic, OkCupid, Hinge, Plenty of Fish, OurTime, and other dating global brands.[3]
It’s similar to me. Decent amount of first dates and then that’s it
These are incredible results. You got more results in two months than I did in over six months.
As a woman it is usually pretty transparent who’s been liking 1111 profiles a month, ngl. And I probably won’t match with them if they didn’t show any sign of having read my profile. I totally get why men are too burnt out to put in the effort though.
That’s not bad. 6 dates with 5 people in 2 months.
I’d be curious to know what your messages are like with the 80 something you didn’t meet up with. Also are you planning on seeing any of those 5 again?
This is making me glad to be gay. That’s a rough success rate.
Holy fuck you cast a wide net.
it took me 6 months to find someone on Hinge, good luck!
You got a date? At all? That’s insane. Then again I can’t afford most dating apps
Swipe yes less, it devalues you in the algorithm to have so many positive swipes.
how would you say you’d rate yourself on the SMV?
By any chance can you share your profile? I’m curious to know what type of profiles lead to this outcome (not good or bad specifically)
Men will swipe right over 90% of the time, and women swipe right 5% of profiles. We have to filter so many guys who are looking for a warm body.
Matches to dates ratio is way too low.
Only 44 rejected makes me think that you liked a lot of people you didn’t really want to go out with.
If those 144 were good matches, you should have gone out with at least 10 or more
Maybe you should just like the ones you actually like.
Do you read profiles before swiping, or just swipe on as many people as possible?
Bro go outside and meet people.
If you’re swiping yes on over 1000 people a month I feel as though the app probably has some kind of anti spam protection right? That could be partially whats going on at least.
I got to know a guy platonically who said it’s all in the opening chat. Look up suggestions from dating coaches. Just “hi, how are you?” won’t stand out if she’s an attractive woman; she’ll be getting lots of those low effort contacts.
Assuming you don’t look like an absolute troll, and have photos in which you look pleasant! I did online dating many years ago and there were a lot of dudes with dreadful photos (deadpan or even frowning; or featuring their car or macho dog!) and minimal description of who they are, why they’d be good company. If you can get a friendly woman to look over your profile and give advice that might help.
Good luck.
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