What kind of interactions are you having with IRL strangers that they’re so negative?
The real shocker is online gamers not being overwhelmingly negative
Seems like you don’t do well with people outside of your circle
it seems you have a very unpleasant working environment.
why not looking for a new job?
What do you define as a “negative interaction” ? I feel like you shouldn’t be having 50+ negative interactions with your close friends lol
Interesting but kinda lacking one important thing. Some conversations make you feel anger or sadness (or other “bad” moods) in the moment but later they lead to some realisation that improves your mood or resilience… So labelling interactions like this isn’t very helpful I would think
What counts as an interaction? If you spend an evening with your girlfriend or a day at the beach with a close friend, is that 1 interaction or several?
You saw your doctor 36 times in 9 months?
Boss beat out Dad, aint no way
How did you track this? Interested in doing the same and being able to visualize it
So what I took away from this is that your grilfriend is roughly as nice to talk to as people on Discord.
How do you even have negative interactions with strangers that much? Most of my own interactions with strangers is either neutral or positive because people don’t like talking to strangers, a lot more people don’t go out of their way to have a negative talk with strangers.
Great visual, real issue that it’s a looping GIF so you can’t pause it and actually read it
Why do categories move around? It doesn’t seem to be sorted in any manner that requires shuffling as more data is added.
How are you having so many negative interactions with IRL strangers lol
I know people suck but there is no way you have that ratio of bad encounters with IRL strangers, there must be some bias, that you track the bad ones more or something
You think the act of measuring this data impacted your interactions?
I can imagine your gf or close friends might get annoyed if you pulled out a notebook every time they said something remotely negative haha
Why is this a time plot? Just show the graph
a pause at the end of this would be nice lol… can’t see the data before it disappears.
That’s a whole lot of negative interactions 😅
Net ambivalence at work. Not bad considering the impression count
Not gonna lie, bases on thèse you look like a toxic person.
You have more positive interactions with online gamers than your close friends?
That is…unusual.
You have a lot of negative interactions across the board it seems like. I can’t even remember the last negative interaction I really had, perhaps last week with a colleague. I’d have to go back further before a negative interaction with someone close to me.
The amount of negative interactions is unusual, and it’s telling the person you have some of the least negative interactions with, and what appears to also be one of the highest percentage of positive interactions with is your therapist: someone who you could argue is paid to connect with you and make you feel good enough to be a return customer. Kind of like a prostitute, except for the mind instead of the body. Your weekly stress relief where you can unwind, complain about your negative interactions and they can give generic advice on how to solve it in future followed up with the real reason you’re there: they tell you you’re doing great, you’re a good person and perhaps not all of those negative interactions were your fault.
tl;dr Try to chillout dude. Relax.
I am antisocial and I still feel like a solid 99% of my interactions with strangers are positive. WTF are you doing to random people that they treat you so bad?
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What kind of interactions are you having with IRL strangers that they’re so negative?
The real shocker is online gamers not being overwhelmingly negative
Seems like you don’t do well with people outside of your circle
it seems you have a very unpleasant working environment.
why not looking for a new job?
What do you define as a “negative interaction” ? I feel like you shouldn’t be having 50+ negative interactions with your close friends lol
Interesting but kinda lacking one important thing. Some conversations make you feel anger or sadness (or other “bad” moods) in the moment but later they lead to some realisation that improves your mood or resilience… So labelling interactions like this isn’t very helpful I would think
What counts as an interaction? If you spend an evening with your girlfriend or a day at the beach with a close friend, is that 1 interaction or several?
You saw your doctor 36 times in 9 months?
Boss beat out Dad, aint no way
How did you track this? Interested in doing the same and being able to visualize it
So what I took away from this is that your grilfriend is roughly as nice to talk to as people on Discord.
How do you even have negative interactions with strangers that much? Most of my own interactions with strangers is either neutral or positive because people don’t like talking to strangers, a lot more people don’t go out of their way to have a negative talk with strangers.
Great visual, real issue that it’s a looping GIF so you can’t pause it and actually read it
Why do categories move around? It doesn’t seem to be sorted in any manner that requires shuffling as more data is added.
How are you having so many negative interactions with IRL strangers lol
I know people suck but there is no way you have that ratio of bad encounters with IRL strangers, there must be some bias, that you track the bad ones more or something
You think the act of measuring this data impacted your interactions?
I can imagine your gf or close friends might get annoyed if you pulled out a notebook every time they said something remotely negative haha
Why is this a time plot? Just show the graph
a pause at the end of this would be nice lol… can’t see the data before it disappears.
That’s a whole lot of negative interactions 😅
Net ambivalence at work. Not bad considering the impression count
Not gonna lie, bases on thèse you look like a toxic person.
You have more positive interactions with online gamers than your close friends?
That is…unusual.
You have a lot of negative interactions across the board it seems like. I can’t even remember the last negative interaction I really had, perhaps last week with a colleague. I’d have to go back further before a negative interaction with someone close to me.
The amount of negative interactions is unusual, and it’s telling the person you have some of the least negative interactions with, and what appears to also be one of the highest percentage of positive interactions with is your therapist: someone who you could argue is paid to connect with you and make you feel good enough to be a return customer. Kind of like a prostitute, except for the mind instead of the body. Your weekly stress relief where you can unwind, complain about your negative interactions and they can give generic advice on how to solve it in future followed up with the real reason you’re there: they tell you you’re doing great, you’re a good person and perhaps not all of those negative interactions were your fault.
tl;dr Try to chillout dude. Relax.
I am antisocial and I still feel like a solid 99% of my interactions with strangers are positive. WTF are you doing to random people that they treat you so bad?
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