I got rid of dating apps and gave up on dating altogether because in my red state finding a big bearded Liberal in his 50s is like finding a particular grain of sand in the ocean. Ankle deep in MAGA saying ‘We can disagree about politics.’ No. No we can’t.
Or personal hygiene 🤷♂️
I love that when I saw this, there was literally only one comment thread of “b-b-but punching Nazis is bad!”
Fucking hysterical
Conservative dating apps report not enough women are on them. Who could have predicted that anti-social behavior (to put it mildly) isn’t attractive.
Fictional case study: even Nazi double agent like Elsa here, who loves her fatherland, still couldn’t resist riding the Indiana Jones American bull, and you bet your ass he punched the shit outta all Nazis.
Had he been with Aldo Raine’s posse, he would have skewered Hitler like a fucking shish kabob, and scalped him front to back.
I agree to an extant but this is somewhat reductive. I’m gay so the social norms around dating are different but i know a lot of men who I would qualify as ‘desirable’ and they have troubles dating as well.
I think the number one complaint I hear is there is no real social consensus on when and where it is appropriate to ask a women out or how to express interest. Whether you can or can’t men feel like they can’t ask a women out from work, or the store, or the gym, or one a hike. They feel like you can only do internet dating which brings the worst out in people.
That’s….not inherently the problem. Its part of it sure but there are a host of other issues that contribute….
If only women werent also captured by this insane cult
I wish this were true. All I run into is rightwing religious women where I’m at.
Nah, it’s the women’s and the woke’s fault.
/s
Ahh, to be a young single liberal male in this day an age.
Republicans know this too, so they try to hide the fact that they are Trump-loving idiots.
It always comes out though.
It’s funny cause I’m a mid thirties, single, white, uneducated male. I’m the rights target demographic and I fucking hate MAGA. I blame the right more for me being single than I do women because they make men like me look so unappealing.
There is a growing trend of conservative women.
Saw one of those ted talks or big think. The guy said don’t be a dick, don’t be a pussy. Started thinking about it a lot, I made one fucking change and the effects were immediate. Self awareness is fucking ridiculous
Somewhat derivative and shitty argument.
“You’re lonely? You must be a disgusting individual, kindly fuck off and die.vm”
You know, it’s funny, but if you took the Musk out of Tesla, the Nazi punching guy would have been flying that flag. Because unlike the assclowns that support him now, the nazi puncher believes in trying to protect the environment and would support a vehicle trying to offset emissions (even though Tesla production has a myriad of problems).
MAGA has spent years mocking hybrids and full electrics, but I’m not surprised they now back Tesla, they don’t believe in anything really. They have no foundational structure and oscillate wildly from one extreme to another without thought.
All reactionary, no substance that is what it is to be a conservative in modern day America. You stand for nothing because you believe in nothing.
As a progressive man, I wish it were this simple. Yes, I’d say a majority of the male loneliness epidemic is caused by conservative men and incels unintentionally pushing women away. But to reduce it to this ignores countless men who are actually worth dating and trying their best but failing because of things that are out of their control. The death of third spaces, the stigmatization of approaching women IRL, the awfulness of online dating, and unrealistic standards or hyper specific checklists that many women seem to have.
“YOU HAVE NO AUTONOMY – YOU ARE AN INCUBATOR NOW DATE ME WOMEN”
Living in the U.S makes me feel dumber every day
>Recently on a trip abroad, a couple cute Australian girls thanked me for being an ally
Lmao, wtf…?
“Directions unclear, fucked a couch.”
why is everyone gendering lonliness? fucking psyop.
God I wish it was this simple.
I honestly think these type of men will have an advantage, and it’ll comeback full circle.
Idk how some american women aren’t turned off by the lifted truck epidemic. I haven’t met a decent person yet that drives those monstrosities. I’m sure they’re out there but boy are they good at hiding.
Meh, living in a red state I don’t see anyone of these guys having any trouble finding a like minded bigot. Meanwhile I haven’t had a relationship in 10 years and the times I did were with someone long distance. Acting like women in the US aren’t caught up in this cult is a false narrative, they are lesser in number but still there. It’s only a 7% gap between white women and white men.
If only it were that easy. I’d do my best not to be a douchebag anyway, but just being not-a-shitstain doesn’t exactly keep me warm at night.
This is a particularly dumb take I’ve been seeing online.
Being male and partnerless is not a product of political or ideological beliefs. Sure, you can draw a parallel from those specific groups, but you’re omitting a massive chunk of the effected. I would gamble to say probably the majority, actually.
Like most confirmation biases, you’re only really hearing from the vocal minority who are either too dull to see the forest for the trees or have come to a completely wrong conclusion. The vast majority of men who are finding that meeting a partner is all but impossible are dealing with their loneliness/depression silently.
I know this because generally, I’m one of them.
Like them, I also believe this isn’t somehow women’s fault. That’s the misogynist talking. This is occurring for several reasons, many of which women are also experiencing.
As a man who can only speak for that side of things, this is what I personally feel is contributing to my own loneliness:
– Working twice as hard to afford the same standard of living. This is universal. Many people my age (Millennials to Gen Z) are working long hour and spending most of their downtime just recovering. This IMO is the single largest chunk of the pie chart. Literally the state of the world in 2025.
– 2020 made people less outgoing. Many have taken comfort in being home bodies and keeping to themselves. Again I feel this is a significant piece of the pie and universal.
– Men as a whole have been getting a bad rap online. This is where I feel the road forks on this depression. Women and groups in their justiciable outrage against violence occurring to women decided to throw the baby out with the bathwater. We have all seen the math and know how small the segment of men who actually commit acts of violence are, so everyone just accepted brushing with a VERY broad brush. This meant men who would never dream of doing those things to women (the majority of men) got brushed in with those animals. Now you and I can pontificate about how things like killallmen and every man is a grapist only triggers the guilty but we both know nuance is becoming a dead art. Nuance is also why this reason feels like the biggest reason, while in actuality, it’s probably very low on the pie chart.
Anyway, TLDR, not all those who are lonely vote like morons.
It’s disappointing that “your body your choice” is seen as some rare jewel when it’s common sense. That’s like if I changed the oil in my car.
It shouldn’t be impressive and that’s sad lol
Im 6’4, ally, supporter of womens rights, voted for Kamala , … is this a surprise to some people? Lol
I feel like this is the opposite of reality.
Come on now, the people that talk about punching nazis online are the soy-left, nobody is attracted to that. There are options outside of being a nazi and being a soy.
Hey now, I have been single my entire 32 years of life. I’m fairly progressive *(according to 1/3 of Americans I would be considered a lefty extremist)* and have been fighting against bigots and idiots along the way. Especially since the Russian invasion and the Trump madness that happens quite often nowadays. Yet, I am still a sometimes lonely guy.
I’m not a douche, but I’m still lonely 🙁
But I can’t complain too much, I still have friends because I’m not a douche.
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I got rid of dating apps and gave up on dating altogether because in my red state finding a big bearded Liberal in his 50s is like finding a particular grain of sand in the ocean. Ankle deep in MAGA saying ‘We can disagree about politics.’ No. No we can’t.
Or personal hygiene 🤷♂️
I love that when I saw this, there was literally only one comment thread of “b-b-but punching Nazis is bad!”
Fucking hysterical
Conservative dating apps report not enough women are on them. Who could have predicted that anti-social behavior (to put it mildly) isn’t attractive.
Don’t forget: Women like to be treated as equals
its actually that simple
https://preview.redd.it/dg0pi37mej3f1.png?width=540&format=png&auto=webp&s=6bb8e32a66b80cd64f5cafa58b10b82d3cb5754a
Fictional case study: even Nazi double agent like Elsa here, who loves her fatherland, still couldn’t resist riding the Indiana Jones American bull, and you bet your ass he punched the shit outta all Nazis.
Had he been with Aldo Raine’s posse, he would have skewered Hitler like a fucking shish kabob, and scalped him front to back.
I agree to an extant but this is somewhat reductive. I’m gay so the social norms around dating are different but i know a lot of men who I would qualify as ‘desirable’ and they have troubles dating as well.
I think the number one complaint I hear is there is no real social consensus on when and where it is appropriate to ask a women out or how to express interest. Whether you can or can’t men feel like they can’t ask a women out from work, or the store, or the gym, or one a hike. They feel like you can only do internet dating which brings the worst out in people.
That’s….not inherently the problem. Its part of it sure but there are a host of other issues that contribute….
If only women werent also captured by this insane cult
I wish this were true. All I run into is rightwing religious women where I’m at.
Nah, it’s the women’s and the woke’s fault.
/s
Ahh, to be a young single liberal male in this day an age.
Republicans know this too, so they try to hide the fact that they are Trump-loving idiots.
It always comes out though.
It’s funny cause I’m a mid thirties, single, white, uneducated male. I’m the rights target demographic and I fucking hate MAGA. I blame the right more for me being single than I do women because they make men like me look so unappealing.
There is a growing trend of conservative women.
Saw one of those ted talks or big think. The guy said don’t be a dick, don’t be a pussy. Started thinking about it a lot, I made one fucking change and the effects were immediate. Self awareness is fucking ridiculous
Somewhat derivative and shitty argument.
“You’re lonely? You must be a disgusting individual, kindly fuck off and die.vm”
You know, it’s funny, but if you took the Musk out of Tesla, the Nazi punching guy would have been flying that flag. Because unlike the assclowns that support him now, the nazi puncher believes in trying to protect the environment and would support a vehicle trying to offset emissions (even though Tesla production has a myriad of problems).
MAGA has spent years mocking hybrids and full electrics, but I’m not surprised they now back Tesla, they don’t believe in anything really. They have no foundational structure and oscillate wildly from one extreme to another without thought.
All reactionary, no substance that is what it is to be a conservative in modern day America. You stand for nothing because you believe in nothing.
As a progressive man, I wish it were this simple. Yes, I’d say a majority of the male loneliness epidemic is caused by conservative men and incels unintentionally pushing women away. But to reduce it to this ignores countless men who are actually worth dating and trying their best but failing because of things that are out of their control. The death of third spaces, the stigmatization of approaching women IRL, the awfulness of online dating, and unrealistic standards or hyper specific checklists that many women seem to have.
“YOU HAVE NO AUTONOMY – YOU ARE AN INCUBATOR NOW DATE ME WOMEN”
Living in the U.S makes me feel dumber every day
>Recently on a trip abroad, a couple cute Australian girls thanked me for being an ally
Lmao, wtf…?
“Directions unclear, fucked a couch.”
why is everyone gendering lonliness? fucking psyop.
God I wish it was this simple.
I honestly think these type of men will have an advantage, and it’ll comeback full circle.
Idk how some american women aren’t turned off by the lifted truck epidemic. I haven’t met a decent person yet that drives those monstrosities. I’m sure they’re out there but boy are they good at hiding.
Meh, living in a red state I don’t see anyone of these guys having any trouble finding a like minded bigot. Meanwhile I haven’t had a relationship in 10 years and the times I did were with someone long distance. Acting like women in the US aren’t caught up in this cult is a false narrative, they are lesser in number but still there. It’s only a 7% gap between white women and white men.
If only it were that easy. I’d do my best not to be a douchebag anyway, but just being not-a-shitstain doesn’t exactly keep me warm at night.
This is a particularly dumb take I’ve been seeing online.
Being male and partnerless is not a product of political or ideological beliefs. Sure, you can draw a parallel from those specific groups, but you’re omitting a massive chunk of the effected. I would gamble to say probably the majority, actually.
Like most confirmation biases, you’re only really hearing from the vocal minority who are either too dull to see the forest for the trees or have come to a completely wrong conclusion. The vast majority of men who are finding that meeting a partner is all but impossible are dealing with their loneliness/depression silently.
I know this because generally, I’m one of them.
Like them, I also believe this isn’t somehow women’s fault. That’s the misogynist talking. This is occurring for several reasons, many of which women are also experiencing.
As a man who can only speak for that side of things, this is what I personally feel is contributing to my own loneliness:
– Working twice as hard to afford the same standard of living. This is universal. Many people my age (Millennials to Gen Z) are working long hour and spending most of their downtime just recovering. This IMO is the single largest chunk of the pie chart. Literally the state of the world in 2025.
– 2020 made people less outgoing. Many have taken comfort in being home bodies and keeping to themselves. Again I feel this is a significant piece of the pie and universal.
– Men as a whole have been getting a bad rap online. This is where I feel the road forks on this depression. Women and groups in their justiciable outrage against violence occurring to women decided to throw the baby out with the bathwater. We have all seen the math and know how small the segment of men who actually commit acts of violence are, so everyone just accepted brushing with a VERY broad brush. This meant men who would never dream of doing those things to women (the majority of men) got brushed in with those animals. Now you and I can pontificate about how things like killallmen and every man is a grapist only triggers the guilty but we both know nuance is becoming a dead art. Nuance is also why this reason feels like the biggest reason, while in actuality, it’s probably very low on the pie chart.
Anyway, TLDR, not all those who are lonely vote like morons.
It’s disappointing that “your body your choice” is seen as some rare jewel when it’s common sense. That’s like if I changed the oil in my car.
It shouldn’t be impressive and that’s sad lol
Im 6’4, ally, supporter of womens rights, voted for Kamala , … is this a surprise to some people? Lol
I feel like this is the opposite of reality.
Come on now, the people that talk about punching nazis online are the soy-left, nobody is attracted to that. There are options outside of being a nazi and being a soy.
Hey now, I have been single my entire 32 years of life. I’m fairly progressive *(according to 1/3 of Americans I would be considered a lefty extremist)* and have been fighting against bigots and idiots along the way. Especially since the Russian invasion and the Trump madness that happens quite often nowadays. Yet, I am still a sometimes lonely guy.
I’m not a douche, but I’m still lonely 🙁
But I can’t complain too much, I still have friends because I’m not a douche.
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