Just kidding man. Hopefully things turn forward for ya.
PSA to all the guys: I’ve used apps to great success, but I haven’t touched them in years. I’ve found that just asking a female friend if she knows anyone is the best. Girls love playing Cupid for their friends and if she is a good friend they will even try to find someone who they think will be good for you / thinks you’re cute for you. Takes away all the pressure and works much better lol.
I’m glad you got a friend out of it! Good luck with Ms.TBD.
“friend” — i smell future wife
What app do you guys use to create these graphs? They’re so cool
It’s hard for guys to make friends as adults, so congrats
7 dates, then turned down? She couldn’t figure it out by number 2 or so?
Seventh date? At that point its not getting turned down, its a breakup.
Ghosted after a fifth date? I’m sorry.
Inb4 OP marries the one under ‘friend’
I haven’t been single since the ‘00s, so before the apps and social media. If I’d had that many dates in a year AND so few ghostings, I would have been much happier.
You got a first date? How?!
Ghosted after 5 dates is brutal but it always says a lot more about them despite the fact it hurts so much for you.
Did ya at least smash by that 7th date?
Hey, you got a friend out of it. I call that a win.
My dating history for the last eight months would be a straight line – just one bad date.
I’m sorry you got ghosted man. Happened to me recently too, these things suck.
You have better success than 99% of the people here
I went on dates with 12 different women ( and a short relationship but let’s ignore that for now)
only 3 of them went to date #3, 2 fully ghosted, the rest had no interest and 0 became friends because they weren’t good communicators/texters or responders
23 is a crazy number, you’re basically talking to a new girl every 2-3 weeks. Asking their favorite color, favorite food, what they do for work and trying to setup time every 2 weekends?
At that point dating is a full-time hobby, modern dating is not it
This is pretty validating as a man in a similar demographic. I think I probably got less second dates but I did have a few that were 10 plus dates which I guess I feel better about now.
Ghosting, people who randomly decide after they’ve gone on a few dates that they’re not actually looking to date etc. I found most people I dated this year to be very unserious about love and the work it takes when you’re in your late 20s and beyond.
I don’t really think these graphs are beautiful, they are honestly convoluted. Could just post a plate of spaghetti and label various noodles.
Would getting ghosted not be a subset of turned down?Â
What app are ppl using to make these graphs?
Soon people will need an HR department for dating… This is just ridiculous!
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There’s still a TBD so there’s hope
I can give you my stats as a 29M in 2025
First dates [0]
May I ask what you are doing in order to get nearly 2 first dates per month?
That friend, now that’s a keeper
That’s a lot of effort for nothing bruh. 7th date…. What even is that !?
You guys are having dates?
This is crazy to me. I’ve never been on a second date that didn’t turn into a relationship.
The no second and third date categories are unnecessary. Getting ghosted after a fifth date has to hurt.
Maybe it’s time to try out the D.E.N.N.I.S. system.Â
Looks like he’s brining out the Pokémon card collection on the 2nd date.
Just kidding man. Hopefully things turn forward for ya.
PSA to all the guys: I’ve used apps to great success, but I haven’t touched them in years. I’ve found that just asking a female friend if she knows anyone is the best. Girls love playing Cupid for their friends and if she is a good friend they will even try to find someone who they think will be good for you / thinks you’re cute for you. Takes away all the pressure and works much better lol.
I’m glad you got a friend out of it! Good luck with Ms.TBD.
“friend” — i smell future wife
What app do you guys use to create these graphs? They’re so cool
It’s hard for guys to make friends as adults, so congrats
7 dates, then turned down? She couldn’t figure it out by number 2 or so?
Seventh date? At that point its not getting turned down, its a breakup.
Ghosted after a fifth date? I’m sorry.
Inb4 OP marries the one under ‘friend’
I haven’t been single since the ‘00s, so before the apps and social media. If I’d had that many dates in a year AND so few ghostings, I would have been much happier.
You got a first date? How?!
Ghosted after 5 dates is brutal but it always says a lot more about them despite the fact it hurts so much for you.
Did ya at least smash by that 7th date?
Hey, you got a friend out of it. I call that a win.
My dating history for the last eight months would be a straight line – just one bad date.
I’m sorry you got ghosted man. Happened to me recently too, these things suck.
You have better success than 99% of the people here
I went on dates with 12 different women ( and a short relationship but let’s ignore that for now)
only 3 of them went to date #3, 2 fully ghosted, the rest had no interest and 0 became friends because they weren’t good communicators/texters or responders
23 is a crazy number, you’re basically talking to a new girl every 2-3 weeks. Asking their favorite color, favorite food, what they do for work and trying to setup time every 2 weekends?
At that point dating is a full-time hobby, modern dating is not it
This is pretty validating as a man in a similar demographic. I think I probably got less second dates but I did have a few that were 10 plus dates which I guess I feel better about now.
Ghosting, people who randomly decide after they’ve gone on a few dates that they’re not actually looking to date etc. I found most people I dated this year to be very unserious about love and the work it takes when you’re in your late 20s and beyond.
I don’t really think these graphs are beautiful, they are honestly convoluted. Could just post a plate of spaghetti and label various noodles.
Would getting ghosted not be a subset of turned down?Â
What app are ppl using to make these graphs?
Soon people will need an HR department for dating… This is just ridiculous!
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