{"id":3545,"date":"2026-05-02T20:29:13","date_gmt":"2026-05-02T20:29:13","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/australia\/3545\/"},"modified":"2026-05-02T20:29:13","modified_gmt":"2026-05-02T20:29:13","slug":"how-the-kindness-of-strangers-helped-this-ukrainian-family-after-fleeing-war","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/australia\/3545\/","title":{"rendered":"How the kindness of strangers helped this Ukrainian family after fleeing war"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph___QITb\">Maria Mykytiuk is one of many Ukrainians in Australia caught between two worlds. Although now safe in Sydney, she&#8217;s in daily contact with family in war-ravaged Bucha, not far from the capital, Kyiv. War affects every aspect of life there.<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph___QITb\">Warning: This story has references to violence and rape.<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph___QITb\">&#8220;After a night of shooting, with little sleep, the kids still went to school. They had to read under torchlight. But they are so resilient. They never give up,&#8221; she tells ABC&#8217;s <a class=\"Link_link__5eL5m ScreenReaderOnly_srLinkHint__OysWz Link_showVisited__C1Fea Link_showFocus__ALyv2\" href=\"https:\/\/iview.abc.net.au\/show\/compass\" data-component=\"Link\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">Compass<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph___QITb\">Since arriving here on May 29, 2022, Maria and her daughter Anastasia have been supporting the school from afar.<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph___QITb\">&#8220;I organise a project of exchange of letters and books from Australia to [the school in] Ukraine,&#8221; Anastasia explains.<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph___QITb\">Like many Ukrainians here, concern about loved ones experiencing the war has compelled them to action.<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph___QITb\">&#8220;My mum does a lot for Ukraine from here. She raises money from concerts. Meets the mayor. Signs petition,&#8221; Anastasia says.<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"Man speaks to a rally for Ukraine on the Sydney Opera House foreshore. \" class=\"Image_image__5tFYM ContentImage_image__DQ_cq\"  src=\"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/australia\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/54ca9d42dbbf3c60a6f89bddc56dc794.jpeg\" loading=\"lazy\" data-component=\"Image\" data-lazy=\"true\"\/><\/p>\n<p class=\"Typography_base__sj2RP FigureCaption_text__zDxQ5 Typography_sizeMobile12__w_FPC Typography_lineHeightMobile20___U7Vr Typography_regular__WeIG6 Typography_colourInherit__dfnUx\" data-component=\"Typography\">Anton Bogdanovych runs rallies most weeks in support of Ukraine, and Maria Mykytiuk is a regular attendee. (Compass: Kim Akhurst)<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph___QITb\">Rally organisers Anton Bogdanovych and Olga Voronina have spent the past four years hitting the streets of Sydney to ensure Australia doesn&#8217;t forget Ukraine.<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph___QITb\">&#8220;Not one Ukrainian in Australia is not traumatised by this war in some way,&#8221; Olga says.<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph___QITb\">&#8220;We have relatives there. When my brother&#8217;s on the frontline that&#8217;s a constant thought at the back of your head. It&#8217;s everyday messages \u2026 it&#8217;s a constant worry.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph___QITb\">Maria often attends these rallies, where she shares her own harrowing experience of Russian occupation in Bucha, before she came to Australia, after Russia launched its full-scale occupation of Ukraine on February 24, 2022.<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"A female ukrainian vet cares for a wild animal during winter in Ukraine. \" class=\"Image_image__5tFYM ContentImage_image__DQ_cq\"  src=\"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/australia\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/0b7733160034ccec2ade580d88782760.jpeg\" loading=\"lazy\" data-component=\"Image\" data-lazy=\"true\"\/><\/p>\n<p class=\"Typography_base__sj2RP FigureCaption_text__zDxQ5 Typography_sizeMobile12__w_FPC Typography_lineHeightMobile20___U7Vr Typography_regular__WeIG6 Typography_colourInherit__dfnUx\" data-component=\"Typography\">Maria Mykytiuk cared for wild animals before Bucha was occupied in 2022. (Supplied: Maria Mykytiuk)<\/p>\n<p>Maria&#8217;s experience of occupation in Bucha<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph___QITb\">A wildlife veterinarian, Maria led an idyllic life in Bucha before Russian forces invaded the city back in February 2022.<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph___QITb\">&#8220;My life before war was completely like a dream,&#8221; Maria says.<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph___QITb\">Maria&#8217;s friend, Janno McLaughlin, tells <a class=\"Link_link__5eL5m ScreenReaderOnly_srLinkHint__OysWz Link_showVisited__C1Fea Link_showFocus__ALyv2\" href=\"https:\/\/iview.abc.net.au\/show\/compass\" data-component=\"Link\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">Compass<\/a>: &#8220;They lived in a big house; she had a vet surgery. Lots of animals, lots of responsibilities, lots of travel.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph___QITb\">&#8220;She was quite famous in Ukraine.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"A large dark cloud of smoke fills the skies over Bucha, Ukraine after an explosion. \" class=\"Image_image__5tFYM ContentImage_image__DQ_cq\"  src=\"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/australia\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/21e010261dd63a7dab735042ff080caa.jpeg\" loading=\"lazy\" data-component=\"Image\" data-lazy=\"true\"\/><\/p>\n<p class=\"Typography_base__sj2RP FigureCaption_text__zDxQ5 Typography_sizeMobile12__w_FPC Typography_lineHeightMobile20___U7Vr Typography_regular__WeIG6 Typography_colourInherit__dfnUx\" data-component=\"Typography\">A thick cloud of dark smoke rises over Bucha, Ukraine, after an explosion. Debris is scattered across the ground. (Supplied: Maria Mykytiuk)<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph___QITb\">On February 24, 2022, Bucha was occupied by Russian forces due to its proximity to the capital Kyiv.<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph___QITb\">&#8220;We would stay in the basement for many days,&#8221; Anastasia says.<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph___QITb\">&#8220;I could always hear missiles flying; I could hear explosions. Sometimes the walls would shake a little bit. It was really cold.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph___QITb\">When people started to grow ill, Maria decided to use her veterinary training to help civilians.<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph___QITb\">&#8220;My mum would go to other people&#8217;s houses, bring them food, antibiotics to treat them. Obviously, it wouldn&#8217;t be legal in normal circumstances, but it was the only options we had,&#8221; Anastasia says.<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"A woman smiles next to a dog.\" class=\"Image_image__5tFYM ContentImage_image__DQ_cq\"  src=\"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/australia\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/a1189cc4098db7d65bb19454d4d77681.jpeg\" loading=\"lazy\" data-component=\"Image\" data-lazy=\"true\"\/><\/p>\n<p class=\"Typography_base__sj2RP FigureCaption_text__zDxQ5 Typography_sizeMobile12__w_FPC Typography_lineHeightMobile20___U7Vr Typography_regular__WeIG6 Typography_colourInherit__dfnUx\" data-component=\"Typography\">Maria Mykytiuk was shocked by the violent behaviour of Russian soldiers when they shot her dog. (Supplied: Maria Mykytiuk)<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph___QITb\">Although initially the Russian soldiers allowed Maria to help sick civilians, soon they grew violent towards her.<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph___QITb\">&#8220;They came to my garden and my dog was scared,&#8221; Maria says.<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph___QITb\">&#8220;I told the Russian soldier, &#8216;It&#8217;s OK, he&#8217;s very kind; just give me a second and I&#8217;ll put him away.&#8217;<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph___QITb\">&#8220;But in this second, the Russian soldier just killed my dog.<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph___QITb\">&#8220;I feel so angry, and I spat in his face. And after that, he hit me.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph___QITb\">This was not Maria&#8217;s only experience of violence at the hands of the Russians.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph___QITb\">She witnessed the murders of friends. She was also beaten and raped by a Russian soldier.<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph___QITb\">&#8220;I&#8217;m a person with higher educational diplomas, I have two kids, I have very good and famous job, but there was nothing and nobody that could protect me,&#8221; says Maria of her time under occupation.<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph___QITb\">Maria&#8217;s experience of sexual violence led her to evacuate her children from Bucha.<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph___QITb\">They travelled to Australia on their own through a refugee camp in Poland. Maria returned to her home to help the sick people left behind.<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph___QITb\">&#8220;I feel guilty because maybe I should choose to go with my kids,&#8221; Maria says.<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph___QITb\">&#8220;For me, it was a moral dilemma to stay with my kids or to stay with my patients.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph___QITb\">When Bucha was finally liberated after more than 30 gruelling days of occupation, Maria was in disbelief.<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph___QITb\">&#8220;I remember the liberation, some Ukrainian military gave me a yellow flower and told me: &#8216;Bucha is free.&#8217; And it was like big miracle, but with huge pain on the soul.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph___QITb\">Soon after, Maria travelled to Australia where she was reunited with her children.<\/p>\n<p>Support of strangers in Sydney<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph___QITb\">Despite her new-found safety, Maria&#8217;s early days in Australia were plagued by post-traumatic stress disorder.<\/p>\n<p>If you or someone you know needs help, call:<a class=\"Link_link__5eL5m ScreenReaderOnly_srLinkHint__OysWz Link_showVisited__C1Fea Link_showFocus__ALyv2\" href=\"https:\/\/www.lifeline.org.au\/\" data-component=\"Link\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">Lifeline<\/a>: 13 11 14<a class=\"Link_link__5eL5m ScreenReaderOnly_srLinkHint__OysWz Link_showVisited__C1Fea Link_showFocus__ALyv2\" href=\"https:\/\/www.beyondblue.org.au\/\" data-component=\"Link\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">Beyond Blue<\/a>: 1300 224 636<a class=\"Link_link__5eL5m ScreenReaderOnly_srLinkHint__OysWz Link_showVisited__C1Fea Link_showFocus__ALyv2\" href=\"https:\/\/www.dvconnect.org\/womensline\/\" data-component=\"Link\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">Women&#8217;s Crisis Line<\/a>: 1800 811 811<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph___QITb\">&#8220;When I came to Australia, I started to feel trauma and depression. I could sleep all day, and I didn&#8217;t want to eat anything. Didn&#8217;t want to speak, even with the kids. I couldn&#8217;t even cook.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph___QITb\">But through the support of strangers, Maria found her feet.<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"Four lunch boxes packed with fruit, vegetable, meats and crackers. \" class=\"Image_image__5tFYM ContentImage_image__DQ_cq\"  src=\"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/australia\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/aac333b79d68dfd27201abe03d61ac4a.jpeg\" loading=\"lazy\" data-component=\"Image\" data-lazy=\"true\"\/><\/p>\n<p class=\"Typography_base__sj2RP FigureCaption_text__zDxQ5 Typography_sizeMobile12__w_FPC Typography_lineHeightMobile20___U7Vr Typography_regular__WeIG6 Typography_colourInherit__dfnUx\" data-component=\"Typography\">Maria Mykytiuk was touched by the lunches made by the principal of a local Sydney school.\u00a0 (Supplied: Maria Mykytiuk)<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph___QITb\">Unbeknownst to Maria, the principal of a local Sydney primary school was making daily lunches for her children.<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph___QITb\">&#8220;[The principal] was genuinely being kind and treating us as if we are her own children,&#8221; Anastasia says.<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph___QITb\">&#8220;I didn&#8217;t believe such kind people exist,&#8221; Maria says.<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph___QITb\">Carolynne Wawrzyniak, a member of St Vincent de Paul, met the family not long after they arrived in Australia.<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph___QITb\">&#8220;Carolynne helped us with everything: with furniture for our new apartment, with scholarships to Kyrylo&#8217;s school. She is a fairy godmother for the kids,&#8221; Maria says.<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph___QITb\">Other new friends, such as artist Janno McLaughlin, also supported the newly arrived family, sending groceries when the family couldn&#8217;t afford them.<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph___QITb\">&#8220;I think Australians tend to put themselves down a little bit, because I think Australians basically are a very generous culture,&#8221; Carolynne says.<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph___QITb\">For Maria, the support of strangers compelled her to seek help for her trauma, and helped her overcome her depression and integrate into Australia.<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph___QITb\">&#8220;In this time I met lots of people. They are lighthouse. They help me to see my way and to go away from darkness,&#8221; Maria says.<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph___QITb\">Maria is not the only Ukrainian touched by the support of Australians.<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph___QITb\">&#8220;I think Australians are very kind and caring people. They like to support those against which the injustice was committed,&#8221; Anton Bogdanovych says.<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph___QITb\">Anton saw this clearly during an ocean safety session for Ukrainian children at the Bronte Surf Life Saving Club.<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph___QITb\">&#8220;We saw this older guy putting some blue and yellow flags on a piece of string,&#8221; Anton says.<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph___QITb\">&#8220;And I asked him, &#8216;Why do they have more blues on the sides?&#8217; And he said, &#8216;I want those kids to know that they&#8217;re safe here, that now there is this big ocean that protects them from war.'&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Living life to the fullest<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph___QITb\">These days, when Maria and her children are not fundraising for Ukraine, the family&#8217;s experience of war compels them to live life to the fullest with their new friends.<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph___QITb\">&#8220;I will always remember all my friends from Bucha which I lost,&#8221; Maria says.<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph___QITb\">&#8220;But I&#8217;m so thankful and so happy to have my new friends in Australia.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph___QITb\">Watch From Ukraine with Love on Compass tonight at 6:30pm on ABC TV or stream now on <a class=\"Link_link__5eL5m ScreenReaderOnly_srLinkHint__OysWz Link_showVisited__C1Fea Link_showFocus__ALyv2\" href=\"https:\/\/iview.abc.net.au\/show\/compass\" data-component=\"Link\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">iview.<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"Maria Mykytiuk is one of many Ukrainians in Australia caught between two worlds. 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