{"id":77151,"date":"2026-08-21T06:00:10","date_gmt":"2026-08-21T06:00:10","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/australia\/77151\/"},"modified":"2026-08-21T06:00:10","modified_gmt":"2026-08-21T06:00:10","slug":"page-13-melbourne-insiders-open-up-on-topless-waitress-parties","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/australia\/77151\/","title":{"rendered":"Page 13: Melbourne insiders open up on topless waitress parties"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>\u201cNOTHING good happens after 1am\u201d.<\/p>\n<p>We\u2019ve heard it all week bandied around by AFL commentators, footy clubs and no doubt in the hanging heads of the players from the <a class=\"body-link\" href=\"https:\/\/www.heraldsun.com.au\/truecrimeaustralia\/police-courts-victoria\/lawyer-for-alleged-sydney-swans-victims-sensationally-claims-club-leaders-were-in-hotel-room\/news-story\/6a288ac8dcbaf2be8e6792197e7e2df3\" title=\"www.heraldsun.com.au\" data-tgev=\"event119\" data-tgev-container=\"bodylink\" data-tgev-order=\"6a288ac8dcbaf2be8e6792197e7e2df3\" data-tgev-label=\"truecrimeaustralia\" data-tgev-metric=\"ev\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">now infamous Swans five<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>But we\u2019re told it\u2019s also what any good topless waitress booking agent thinks too.<\/p>\n<p>Too bad the agent from Party Girls Melbourne sending a callout at 4.26am to a room of five-plus males is known around the industry as someone who sends her girls to jobs at all hours.<\/p>\n<p>Jobs are posted on the company\u2019s WhatsApp with often a first-in best-dressed system with the girls responding if they are available for the gig.<\/p>\n<p>The Herald Sun obtained the job callout for the Swans players where the details are initially limited to just five guys, Aussie \u2026.<\/p>\n<p>These types of late jobs are dangerous. There is generally no security to go with them and it\u2019s up to the girls \u2013 and their agent \u2013 to use their discretion and wits in handling the men who call them in.<\/p>\n<p>Many are inebriated. Many high on drugs. Many say one thing and want to do another.<\/p>\n<p>But all the \u201cworking girls\u201d from the Melbourne adults scene who spoke to the Herald Sun this week on the agreement of anonymity, say it\u2019s the footy player types who are so entitled they think they can \u201cdo whatever they want and just get away with it.\u201d <\/p>\n<p>\u201cThis certainly isn\u2019t the first and it won\u2019t be the last time something like this has happened,\u201d said one.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cThe NRL rugby boys are just the same type of customers, they get put up on a pedestal. It\u2019s that boys will be boys type situation,\u201d said another.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cPeople always think, oh the stripper is out to extort them, but that\u2019s not what happens.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cWe all take privacy pretty seriously, because you aren\u2019t going to keep booking jobs if you don\u2019t. And we all know that things can get a bit crazy, we expect that and know how to pull them into line.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cSo for something to have gotten this out of control it means something bad, really bad, has happened.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>The world of working girls \u201ctopless waitressing\u201d at private parties is nothing new in Melbourne.<\/p>\n<p>But it really (like really) ramped up in Covid lockdown thanks to strict curfews at strip clubs and other adults only entertainment venues, which were forced to shut their legs.<\/p>\n<p>The jobs can be anywhere and for any occasion, as, too, the locations. Think boozy boat cruises, to footy, cricket or bowls club rooms for their end-of-season drink-a-thons. Makeshift warehouses for a bucks, a bonfire out bush, or even a construction job with some randy tradies after Friday knock off. Hoping to, well, knock one off.<\/p>\n<p>Most are usually pre-planned. One ex agent told Page 13 the key is the rules of engagement which are spelt out clearly at the start of each booking.<\/p>\n<p>This is done during the negotiation of the fee and hourly rate \u2013 which includes the agent\u2019s percentage, known as \u201ccomms\u201d and cut \u2013 with the finer details of any \u201cextras\u201d set out and made clear.<\/p>\n<p>Extras, can mean a lot of things, one said with a laugh. A show, or lap dance for the party might be an extra $300 with another cut to the agent. And than there are other extras \u2013 from a private lap dance too as we have since discovered with the Swans 5, snorting drugs on someone\u2019s boobs or bum ($100).<\/p>\n<p>\u201cNothing is for free, that\u2019s part of the hustle and the game,\u201d said one topless waitress.<\/p>\n<p>But what many, including the alleged Swans 5 victim who exclusively spoke to the Herald Sun\u2019s Anthony Dowsley on Thursday night, are upset over is that no woman deserves to be made to feel unsafe in their workplace. What is lost in so much of the discourse this week they say is the narrative that topless waitresses, strippers, exotic dancers are \u201cup for anything\u201d or \u201chad it coming\u201d.<\/p>\n<p>This couldn\u2019t be further from the truth said one who has long been working in the game. There are clear and defined boundaries of what is on and off limits. The party is again given these instructions when arriving.<\/p>\n<p>Something which was clearly not followed in that Pullman Hotel room.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"\u201cNOTHING good happens after 1am\u201d. 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