{"id":77363,"date":"2026-08-21T10:23:17","date_gmt":"2026-08-21T10:23:17","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/australia\/77363\/"},"modified":"2026-08-21T10:23:17","modified_gmt":"2026-08-21T10:23:17","slug":"tyler-blue-allans-really-scary-rules-for-dating-revealed","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/australia\/77363\/","title":{"rendered":"Tyler Blue-Allan\u2019s \u2018really scary\u2019 rules for dating revealed"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Former First Dates Australia contestant Tyler Blue-Allan has reignited intense online debate after sharing his strict relationship rules during an interview on Kyle Sandilands Live.<\/p>\n<p>The 23-year-old model \u2014 who previously sparked widespread fury on Channel 7\u2019s dating show for questioning whether his date would give up her career to become a housewife \u2014 doubled down on his traditional values while speaking to hosts Kyle Sandilands and Mary Madigan.<\/p>\n<p>During his appearance on Channel 7\u2019s First Dates, Mr Blue-Allan was matched with 27-year-old nurse Kristal. <\/p>\n<p><a class=\"body-link\" href=\"https:\/\/www.news.com.au\/lifestyle\/relationships\/dating\/viewers-horrified-by-23yo-models-housewife-demand-on-first-date\/news-story\/847f0616b383c8fa22746ad98c82f2f2\" target=\"_blank\" data-tgev=\"event119\" data-tgev-container=\"bodylink\" data-tgev-order=\"847f0616b383c8fa22746ad98c82f2f2\" data-tgev-label=\"lifestyle\" data-tgev-metric=\"ev\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">On their date<\/a><a class=\"body-link\" href=\"https:\/\/www.news.com.au\/lifestyle\/relationships\/dating\/viewers-horrified-by-23yo-models-housewife-demand-on-first-date\/news-story\/847f0616b383c8fa22746ad98c82f2f2\" target=\"_blank\" data-tgev=\"event119\" data-tgev-container=\"bodylink\" data-tgev-order=\"847f0616b383c8fa22746ad98c82f2f2\" data-tgev-label=\"lifestyle\" data-tgev-metric=\"ev\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">,<\/a> the self-described \u201c10 out of 10\u201d model immediately zeroed in on her career, asking if she would ever give up nursing to be a stay-at-home housewife. <\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"poster-img\" src=\"https:\/\/content.api.news\/v3\/images\/bin\/47416e3a0ccb1ab5518bb673976b9b65\" data-sctrack=\"op-poster-img\" alt=\"Ben Simmons with Mia Fevola at Melbourne airport\" fetchpriority=\"high\"\/><\/p>\n<p>When Kristal explained she was passionate about her career, Mr Blue-Allan suggested her desire to work was preventing her from finding a partner, famously asking, \u201cWhy would a man want to put effort into a woman who is independent?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Now, Mr Blue-Allan has taken those controversial opinions a step further on Kyle Sandilands Live, which is Sandilands\u2019 new show since leaving KIIS.<\/p>\n<p>During the <a class=\"body-link\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/@ksandilandslive\/video\/7673055583418862866?is_from_webapp=1&amp;sender_device=pc&amp;web_id=7641749580329387528\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">interview<\/a>, Mr Blue-Allan revealed he would \u201cprobably never ever date an Australian woman ever again\u201d, claiming that \u201cthe traditional wife in Australia is unheard of\u201d.<\/p>\n<p>When pressed by news reader, Ms Madigan, on what his ideal dynamic looks like, Mr Blue-Allan laid out a series of uncompromising ground rules.<\/p>\n<p>He stressed that his woman would have no independent social life.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cNo going out with the girls,\u201d Mr Blue-Allan said on the show, confirming that his partner wouldn\u2019t be allowed to visit the pub unless he was present.<\/p>\n<p>He stated that he does not want his partner to work or have her own bank account, providing her only with a credit card linked to his phone, basically making her financially dependent on him.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cShe has my card on her phone,\u201d Mr Blue-Allan explained, confirming that he could cut off her financial access at any given point.<\/p>\n<p>When asked if he retained the right to have \u201cboys\u2019 nights\u201d out while restricting his partner, Mr Blue-Allan replied, \u201cof course\u201d. <\/p>\n<p>Madigan openly challenged the set up, describing the complete financial dependency as a \u201cpretty precarious position\u201d and calling his comments \u201creally scary\u201d.<\/p>\n<p>When Sandilands noted that Mr Blue-Allan appeared \u201cvery attacked\u201d, Madigan responded, \u201cI don\u2019t care, he\u2019s saying really scary things\u201d.<\/p>\n<p>Mr Blue-Allan defended his stance by claiming he was raised in a similar household by his parents, while Sandilands argued for the model\u2019s right to a personal preference, stating, \u201cthere\u2019s nothing wrong with different flavours \u2026 for variety of types of relationships\u201d.<\/p>\n<p>As expected with controversial opinions like this, social media was not on Mr Blue-Allan\u2019s side, with Aussies expressing concerns about his views. <\/p>\n<p>\u201cOn behalf of women in Australia, thank you for not wanting to date us,\u201d one person commented on <a class=\"body-link\" href=\"https:\/\/www.news.com.au\/topics\/tiktok\" target=\"_blank\" data-tgev=\"event119\" data-tgev-container=\"bodylink\" data-tgev-order=\"tiktok\" data-tgev-label=\"topics\" data-tgev-metric=\"ev\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">TikTok<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cWho is he, and why was he provided a platform to talk?\u201d a second person wrote.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cThat\u2019s not a girlfriend. That\u2019s a hostage situation,\u201d a third chimed in. <\/p>\n<p>\u201cSo basically he wants a slave?\u201d another person questioned. <\/p>\n<p>\u201cThis is coercive control,\u201d one user pointed out. <\/p>\n<p>Many people were also disappointed with Sandilands\u2019 stance and the way he handled the controversial conversation. <\/p>\n<p>\u201cShame on the male host for not challenging more. Absolutely disgusting behaviour from both men in the room,\u201d one person expressed. <\/p>\n<p>But although the men were slammed, Madigan\u2019s fight back with Mr Allan-Blue was praised by many social media users.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cWho is this queen? Love what you contributed to this conversation, Mary,\u201d one person wrote.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cCan we subscribe to just Mary?\u201d another asked.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cThis is my first time seeing Mary, but I\u2019m a big fan,\u201d a third echoed.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cThanks for calling this out, Mary,\u201d a fourth commented.<\/p>\n<p>News.com.au has contacted Mr Blue-Allan for further comment.<\/p>\n<p><script async src=\"\/\/www.tiktok.com\/embed.js\"><\/script><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"Former First Dates Australia contestant Tyler Blue-Allan has reignited intense online debate after sharing his strict relationship 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