{"id":84079,"date":"2026-08-31T10:12:14","date_gmt":"2026-08-31T10:12:14","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/australia\/84079\/"},"modified":"2026-08-31T10:12:14","modified_gmt":"2026-08-31T10:12:14","slug":"trainee-massage-therapist-jailed-for-sexually-assaulting-mildura-women","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/australia\/84079\/","title":{"rendered":"Trainee massage therapist jailed for sexually assaulting Mildura women"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph___QITb\">A former massage therapist has been sent to prison for sexually touching two clients in regional Victoria.<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph___QITb\">Warning: This article includes descriptions of sexual abuse.<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph___QITb\">Tomey Mathew, 33, had no qualifications for his role as a massage therapist and was learning on the job at a business in Mildura, north-west Victoria, in 2025.<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph___QITb\">His former employer told the Mildura Magistrates&#8217; Court that, during his training, Mathew had been told that touching women in private places was not permitted.<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph___QITb\">The court heard that, during his time in the industry, Mathew estimated he massaged five women.<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph___QITb\">Three of these women might have been staff.<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph___QITb\">The two that were not colleagues went to police after their massages to lodge sexual assault claims against him.<\/p>\n<p>Touching &#8216;not accidental&#8217;<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph___QITb\">The first victim went to Massage Borneo 1 in Langtree Mall on March 13, 2025 for a 45-minute oil massage.<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph___QITb\">Mathew was called, took payment and began the massage.<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"A man with a dark complexion smiling, wearing a white dress shirt and sunglasses.\" class=\"Image_image__5tFYM ContentImage_image__DQ_cq\"  src=\"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/australia\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/08\/b5f94d3889c602c97aec4e56ea35fee9.jpeg\" loading=\"lazy\" data-component=\"Image\" data-lazy=\"true\"\/><\/p>\n<p class=\"Typography_base__sj2RP FigureCaption_text__zDxQ5 Typography_sizeMobile12__w_FPC Typography_lineHeightMobile20___U7Vr Typography_regular__WeIG6 Typography_colourInherit__dfnUx\" data-component=\"Typography\">Tomey Mathew massaged five women during his five months at the business. (Supplied: Facebook)<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph___QITb\">The court heard everything seemed normal as he massaged the woman&#8217;s legs, arms, feet, shoulders and head.<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph___QITb\">The victim then recalled being unable to speak and freezing in fear as Mathew reached under a towel covering her breasts and grabbed at her.<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph___QITb\">The court heard he was asked to stop but repeated the act soon after as he leaned over her from behind her head.<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph___QITb\">The second victim had booked a 30-minute neck massage which lasted close to an hour on April 5, 2025.<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"The outside of a message parlour called Borneo 1\" class=\"Image_image__5tFYM ContentImage_image__DQ_cq\"  src=\"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/australia\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/08\/d279f0824bddb57490aa7b9825f19954.jpeg\" loading=\"lazy\" data-component=\"Image\" data-lazy=\"true\"\/><\/p>\n<p class=\"Typography_base__sj2RP FigureCaption_text__zDxQ5 Typography_sizeMobile12__w_FPC Typography_lineHeightMobile20___U7Vr Typography_regular__WeIG6 Typography_colourInherit__dfnUx\" data-component=\"Typography\">Tomey Mathew no longer works at Massage Borneo 1, where the offending took place. (ABC News: Wade Stephens)<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph___QITb\">She was also touched under the towel by Mathew, who circled her breasts twice before he was told to stop and left the room.<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph___QITb\">Mathew denied touching the breasts of either woman, either intentionally or accidentally.<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph___QITb\">The court heard that, due to the manner of the touching and the duration, the conduct could not be explained as an accident.<\/p>\n<p>Profound and far-reaching impact<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph___QITb\">Victim impact statements from both women were read in court.<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph___QITb\">The first victim said, since the incident, she had become hyperaware of consent and boundaries and had experienced anxiety attacks.<\/p>\n<p>If you or anyone you know needs help:Police \u2013 000 (triple-zero)<a class=\"Link_link__5eL5m ScreenReaderOnly_srLinkHint__OysWz Link_showVisited__C1Fea Link_showFocus__ALyv2\" href=\"https:\/\/1800respect.org.au\/\" data-component=\"Link\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">1800 Respect National Helpline<\/a>: 1800 737 732<a class=\"Link_link__5eL5m ScreenReaderOnly_srLinkHint__OysWz Link_showVisited__C1Fea Link_showFocus__ALyv2\" href=\"http:\/\/www.lifeline.org.au\/\" data-component=\"Link\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">Lifeline<\/a>: 13 11 14<a class=\"Link_link__5eL5m ScreenReaderOnly_srLinkHint__OysWz Link_showVisited__C1Fea Link_showFocus__ALyv2\" href=\"https:\/\/survivors.org.au\/\" data-component=\"Link\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">National Survivors Foundation<\/a>: 1300 12 44 33<a class=\"Link_link__5eL5m ScreenReaderOnly_srLinkHint__OysWz Link_showVisited__C1Fea Link_showFocus__ALyv2\" href=\"https:\/\/ntv.org.au\/mrs\/\" data-component=\"Link\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">Men&#8217;s Referral Service<\/a>: 1300 766 491<a class=\"Link_link__5eL5m ScreenReaderOnly_srLinkHint__OysWz Link_showVisited__C1Fea Link_showFocus__ALyv2\" href=\"https:\/\/www.dvconnect.org\/womensline\/\" data-component=\"Link\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">Women&#8217;s Crisis Line<\/a>: 1800 811 811<a class=\"Link_link__5eL5m ScreenReaderOnly_srLinkHint__OysWz Link_showVisited__C1Fea Link_showFocus__ALyv2\" href=\"https:\/\/fullstop.org.au\/get-help\/our-services\" data-component=\"Link\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">Full Stop Australia<\/a>: 1800 385 578Rainbow Sexual, Domestic and Family Violence Helpline: 1800 497 212<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph___QITb\">She said she experienced ghost sensations and flashbacks of the incident.<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph___QITb\">The second victim said intimacy felt different and unsettling and she could not avoid a persistent uneasy feeling.<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph___QITb\">Defence lawyer Robert Thyssen argued there was no evidence of sexual gratification by Mathew in either act.<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph___QITb\">He said the offences were &#8220;of fleeting nature&#8221; due to Mathew&#8217;s minimal experience and training.<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph___QITb\">Magistrate Greg Thomas said he did not agree with the word fleeting, as Mathew knew he was not supposed to touch the women&#8217;s breasts.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;The women were in a very vulnerable position. There is an element of breach of trust,&#8221;  he said.Prosecutors push for jail term<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph___QITb\">Police prosecutor Leading Senior Constable Jackie Lowe argued that anything less than imprisonment would be manifestly inadequate.<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph___QITb\">She said the victims had expressed lifelong implications from the offending and were exposed to more trauma by giving evidence in court.<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph___QITb\">She also argued Mathew was not remorseful, as he contested the charges, and said &#8220;regret post-conviction and remorse are two different things&#8221;.<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"A smiling man with a dark complexion.\" class=\"Image_image__5tFYM ContentImage_image__DQ_cq\"  src=\"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/australia\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/08\/c005bb7e8891112a576afd62970fca83.jpeg\" loading=\"lazy\" data-component=\"Image\" data-lazy=\"true\"\/><\/p>\n<p class=\"Typography_base__sj2RP FigureCaption_text__zDxQ5 Typography_sizeMobile12__w_FPC Typography_lineHeightMobile20___U7Vr Typography_regular__WeIG6 Typography_colourInherit__dfnUx\" data-component=\"Typography\">Tomey Mathew will spend the next five months behind bars. (Supplied: Facebook)<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph___QITb\">Mr Thyssen said the complainants were not at risk of being victims of reoffending, as Mathew had moved to Queensland to work as kitchen hand in an aged care facility.<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph___QITb\">He described Mathew as hard working in a sector where staff were hard to obtain and argued jail should be a last resort.<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph___QITb\">But Magistrate Thomas said, even if a community corrections order was available, he did not consider it an adequate sentence.<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph___QITb\">&#8220;Because of the serious nature of offending, the breach of trust involved and lack of remorse, no other disposition other than a term of imprisonment is appropriate,&#8221; Magistrate Thomas said.<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph___QITb\">He sentenced Mathew to five months in jail.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"A former massage therapist has been sent to prison for sexually touching two clients in regional Victoria. 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