{"id":48484,"date":"2026-05-16T23:37:15","date_gmt":"2026-05-16T23:37:15","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/canada\/48484\/"},"modified":"2026-05-16T23:37:15","modified_gmt":"2026-05-16T23:37:15","slug":"is-the-key-to-torontos-dating-scene-meeting-people-irl-we-tested-it-out","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/canada\/48484\/","title":{"rendered":"Is the key to Toronto\u2019s dating scene meeting people IRL? We tested it out"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>What to know<\/p>\n<p>Now Toronto played cupid by trying to set up two single students in the streets of downtown Toronto, but after an hour of approaching people, they had no luck because most women were already taken.<\/p>\n<p>Even though they didn\u2019t find matches, the experience helped them step outside their comfort zones. Joao said it felt like \u201cexposure therapy\u201d for his social anxiety and realized approaching people IRL wasn\u2019t as scary as he expected.<\/p>\n<p>A dating expert said Toronto\u2019s dating culture has become too dependent on apps, making in-person interactions feel harder post-pandemic. She explained that meeting people in real life takes practice, confidence, and being okay with rejection.<\/p>\n<p>Do you ever wish to have a meet-cute in the city and ditch the dating apps?\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>As much as putting yourself out there can be tough, it can help you build confidence and possibly meet \u201cthe one.\u201d\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>So, Now Toronto decided to play cupid and create a love match in the streets of Toronto.<\/p>\n<p class=\"nt-read-more__title no-margin-top\">Read More<\/p>\n<p>Meet the singles<\/p>\n<p>When Now Toronto approached two men to ask if one would be interested in finding a match, both turned out to be single and ready to mingle.<\/p>\n<p>First up is Mateo, a Peruvian third-year student at Toronto Metropolitan University. He\u2019s interested in sports, watching tennis, soccer, F1 and listening to music.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>Alongside him is his friend, Joao, also a student visiting him from Miami. He likes reading, art, Latin music, anime and fashion.<\/p>\n<p>Both men are friends from studying in high school together in Lima, Peru.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>So who are these men? Joao describes his friend as an interesting man who will always take care of his partner.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>\u201cHe\u2019s honest, he\u2019s very charismatic, he\u2019s so funny. I would trust my life with him, always,\u201d Mateo told Now Toronto.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>Joao agreed he trusts Mateo with his life, too. \u201cHe\u2019s also very trustful and very nice.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>What\u2019s their dating experience like?<\/p>\n<p>Mateo has just downloaded Hinge three weeks ago \u2013 and he already wants to swipe left on the app.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>\u201cThe dating experience here in Toronto is not that good, especially for someone that is international. There\u2019s a lot of barriers,\u201d he told Now Toronto.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>For Joao, he hasn\u2019t been on a date since 2023. He\u2019s been living life day-by-day and \u201cmessing around\u201d on trips, he says, so he\u2019s not too aware of Toronto\u2019s dating scene.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>On the hunt for a match<\/p>\n<p>After learning more about the men and their types, Now Toronto was ready to find them a match. Who knows, they might find a pair of best friends and make this a spicy two-man.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>We started walking near the Eaton Centre and talked to a few girls. Unfortunately, many of them were already in relationships.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>Toronto, wasn\u2019t the city in a loneliness epidemic and famous for its sh*tty dating scene? How is everyone suddenly finding significant others?<\/p>\n<p>Later on, we reached the Financial District and there were barely any girls in sight, unfortunately.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>So we went and took a break at Berczy Park, where Mateo tried to talk to this one girl. But as you can guess, taken \u2013 again.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>Isn\u2019t this supposed to be hot girl summer? Where are all the single women?<\/p>\n<p>So we headed all the way near Wellesley and didn\u2019t have much luck.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>But finally, a group of three girls were interested \u2013 though they looked young, so before even choosing which two would be the perfect match, we asked their age.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>Turns out, the girls were 16. This isn\u2019t the <a href=\"https:\/\/www.netflix.com\/ca\/title\/81779095\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer nofollow\">Age of Attraction<\/a>, so we left.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>After one hour of trying to find the men a match, the search was unsuccessful.<\/p>\n<p>Despite being disappointed by the failure, Joao stepped in and explained that to him, being able to overcome his social anxiety was success enough.<\/p>\n<p>Dating takeaways<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI kinda feel like it was exposure therapy,\u201d Joao told Now Toronto.<\/p>\n<p>Joao joked that his therapist suggested he try to talk to people more to overcome his anxiety \u2013 and Now Toronto came at the perfect time.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>Overall, he found it intimidating to approach others, but that it didn\u2019t end up being so bad.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>\u201cNothing bad happens at the end of the day,\u201d Joao said.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>For Mateo, this experience was eye opening and might change his way of dating in the city.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI think it\u2019s definitely hard to do this activity in Toronto. It\u2019s kind of easier to do dating apps, but I would recommend doing this if you are walking around downtown,\u201d he told Now Toronto.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>What\u2019s a dating expert\u2019s take on this experience<\/p>\n<p>Whether it\u2019s a curated speed dating or singles event environment to literally walking in the streets, asking out someone IRL can definitely be intimidating. So, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.torontodatinghub.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer nofollow\">Toronto Dating Hub<\/a> Founder and Dating Coach Andrea Lo shares her tips.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>The first step: follow non-verbal cues to decide whether or not to initiate a move.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>\u201cEven simply making eye contact is a first step\u2026 Holding it for more than a second is already hard enough because most of the time we have that awkward looking away reflex,\u201d she told Now Toronto.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>She also recommends smiling.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>\u201cWe\u2019re gazing at each other, then smiling, because otherwise they\u2019re like, \u2018Why are you looking at me?\u2019 she joked.\u201d\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>But part of the reason dating in Toronto \u2013 or in general \u2013 is so hard, is because of the lack of social interaction since COVID. During the pandemic, there was little-to-no interaction, leaving many in a mindset of isolation that still lingers years later.<\/p>\n<p>Now, there\u2019s remote work and Uber Eats, making it easy for Torontonians to never need to leave the house. So, when they do, it\u2019s harder to interact with other people.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>Dating apps have also removed much of the in-person vulnerability and awkwardness that comes with meeting a cute stranger.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>\u201cApps have definitely trained people to expect efficiency and instant chemistry. In real life, connection is often slower, messier, and more human,\u201d Lo explained.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>\u201cWe\u2019re gonna make mistakes, we\u2019re gonna fumble,\u201d she joked.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>But on apps, it\u2019s harder to read energy and genuine intention, so in person meetings can sometimes be ideal to see true intent.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>\u201cWhat if they used ChatGPT to write them a very good sentence?\u201d she questioned.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>So, she recommends practicing holding eye contact and smiling to strangers whom there\u2019s no romantic interest. That way, you\u2019d be ready and confident to talk with someone you\u2019re later interested in.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cYou need all those different scenarios. You need to be rejected. It definitely helps people. Repetition, but also the rejection,\u201d she said. \u201cJust finding out like, \u2018Wow, I didn\u2019t die. The world didn\u2019t end. I didn\u2019t die of embarrassment,\u2019\u201d is already help enough to combat one\u2019s social anxiety like Joao and grow into that confidence.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>\u200bGot a dating story for us? We want to hear it! Send your experiences to news@nowtoronto.com for a chance to be featured in a future edition of\u00a0This Is Dating Now.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"What to know Now Toronto played cupid by trying to set up two single students in the streets&hellip;\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":48485,"comment_status":"","ping_status":"","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[7],"tags":[12568,21510,21511,17115,48,21512],"class_list":["post-48484","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","category-toronto","tag-love","tag-matchmaking","tag-meet-cute","tag-this-is-dating-now","tag-toronto","tag-toronto-dating-scene"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/canada\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/48484","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/canada\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/canada\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/canada\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/canada\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=48484"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/canada\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/48484\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/canada\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/48485"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/canada\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=48484"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/canada\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=48484"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/canada\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=48484"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}