vzpom\u00ednala<\/a> Gabriela, kter\u00e1 si na za\u010d\u00e1tku man\u017eelstv\u00ed Ingra s\u00a0Monyovou podle sv\u00fdch slov \u0159\u00edkala, \u017ee dokonalej\u0161\u00ed vztah snad nikdy nevid\u011bla. \u201eJ\u00e1 jsem to zjistila, a\u017e kdy\u017e jsem chodila hl\u00eddat \u0160im\u016fnka. T\u0159i t\u00fddny po sob\u011b m\u011bla Simona poka\u017ed\u00e9 n\u011bkde jinde mod\u0159inu. U\u017e mi to nedalo, tak jsem j\u00ed \u0159ekla: \u201aBu\u010f jsi \u00fapln\u00e9 nemehlo, anebo t\u011b Boris bije\u2018. Zeptala se m\u011b, jestli jsem \u010detla jej\u00ed knihu \u017denu ani kv\u011btinou\u2026 \u0158ekla, \u017ee je cel\u00e1 o\u00a0n\u00ed. V\u00a0tu chv\u00edli jsem m\u011bla hus\u00ed k\u016f\u017ei. Kn\u00ed\u017eku jsem \u010detla a\u00a0m\u016f\u017eu \u0159\u00edct, \u017ee v\u00e1s vezme od prvn\u00ed str\u00e1nky. Kdy\u017e jsem si p\u0159edstavila, \u017ee je to opravdu o\u00a0n\u00ed, \u017ee byla doma v\u00a0kuchyni schoulen\u00e1 a\u00a0on do n\u00ed kopal\u2026 Od t\u00e9 chv\u00edle u\u017e to pak p\u0159ede mnou netajila,\u201c dodala Gabriela.<\/p>\nHlavn\u00ed hrdinka knihy se tam seznamuje s\u00a0mu\u017eem, kter\u00fd sice nep\u016fsob\u00ed dokonale, ale dok\u00e1\u017ee \u017eenu okouzlit sv\u00fdm \u0161armem a\u00a0sebev\u011bdom\u00edm. Autorka v\u00a0textu popisuje, jak snadn\u00e9 je spadnout do lepkav\u00e9 a\u00a0neprody\u0161n\u00e9 s\u00edt\u011b manipul\u00e1tora, ze kter\u00e9 pak u\u017e nen\u00ed \u00faniku. Prvn\u00ed varovn\u00e9 sign\u00e1ly p\u0159itom p\u0159ich\u00e1zej\u00ed velmi brzy, \u010dasto hned na za\u010d\u00e1tku vztahu. Zamilovan\u00e1 a\u00a0d\u016fv\u011b\u0159iv\u00e1 \u017eena je v\u0161ak p\u0159ehl\u00ed\u017e\u00ed a\u00a0v\u011b\u0159\u00ed, \u017ee sv\u00e9ho partnera dok\u00e1\u017ee zm\u011bnit nebo l\u00e9pe poznat. A\u00a0nebo snad i\u00a0n\u011bkdy douf\u00e1, \u017ee to tak nemyslel a\u00a0jeho r\u00e1ny byly jen shoda n\u00e1hod. <\/p>\n
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Simona Monyov\u00e1 s\u00a0Borisem Ingrem v\u00a0roce 2007<\/p>\n
Slep\u00e1 d\u016fv\u011bra<\/p>\n
V \u00favodu zmi\u0148ovan\u00e9ho rom\u00e1nu se objevuj\u00ed slova o\u00a0tom, jak snadn\u00e9 je odsuzovat \u017eeny, kter\u00e9 si nechaj\u00ed ubli\u017eovat. Hrdinky p\u0159\u00edb\u011bhu samy sebe pova\u017eovaly za siln\u00e9, \u00fasp\u011b\u0161n\u00e9 a\u00a0emancipovan\u00e9 bytosti, se kter\u00fdmi nikdo nedok\u00e1\u017ee manipulovat. P\u0159esto se realita uk\u00e1zala jako zcela odli\u0161n\u00e1. Ukazuje to, \u017ee dom\u00e1c\u00ed n\u00e1sil\u00ed se net\u00fdk\u00e1 pouze slab\u00fdch nebo ustra\u0161en\u00fdch lid\u00ed, ale m\u016f\u017ee postihnout kohokoliv. A\u00a0\u010dasto je ten, kter\u00fd doma n\u011bco takov\u00e9ho za\u017e\u00edv\u00e1, na ve\u0159ejnosti usm\u011bvav\u00fd a\u00a0pln\u00fd \u017eivota. Sna\u017e\u00ed se toti\u017e ostatn\u00ed p\u0159esv\u011bd\u010dit, \u017ee \u017eije b\u00e1je\u010dn\u00fd \u017eivot. Boj\u00ed se p\u0159iznat pravdu – okol\u00ed, a\u00a0n\u011bkdy i\u00a0s\u00e1m sob\u011b.<\/p>\n
Vztah spisovatelky a\u00a0jej\u00edho mu\u017ee fungoval od za\u010d\u00e1tku jako na horsk\u00e9 dr\u00e1ze. Po po\u010d\u00e1te\u010dn\u00edm okouzlen\u00ed se na nebi objevily prvn\u00ed mraky v\u00a0podob\u011b ur\u00e1\u017eek, j\u00edzliv\u00fdch pozn\u00e1mek a\u00a0psychick\u00e9ho n\u00e1tlaku. Simona Monyov\u00e1 nebyla \u017eenou, kter\u00e1 by ml\u010dela. Sna\u017eila se pravdu hledat, partnera testovala a\u00a0ov\u011b\u0159ovala si jeho tvrzen\u00ed, proto\u017ee tou\u017eila po obnoven\u00ed ztracen\u00e9 d\u016fv\u011bry. To v\u0161ak vedlo pouze k\u00a0dal\u0161\u00edm konflikt\u016fm a\u00a0prohlubov\u00e1n\u00ed krize. \u201eV\u011bd\u011bla to Dana Urb\u00e1nkov\u00e1, man\u017eelka jej\u00edho bratra, se kterou si byla velmi bl\u00edzk\u00e1. P\u0159ed\u00a0syny se to ale sna\u017eila v\u017edycky tajit. Nejstar\u0161\u00ed syn u\u017e doma nebydlel. Prost\u0159edn\u00ed Dominik na to ale p\u0159i\u0161el tak, \u017ee je jednou p\u0159istihl, kdy\u017e ji Ingr \u0161krtil,\u201c vzpom\u00ednala zm\u00edn\u011bn\u00e1 kamar\u00e1dka, kter\u00e9 Monyov\u00e1 brzy odkryla ve\u0161ker\u00e9 karty. Nikoho ale nenapadlo, jak zle to m\u016f\u017ee cel\u00e9 skon\u010dit.<\/p>\n
Od psychick\u00e9ho n\u00e1tlaku k\u00a0fyzick\u00e9mu n\u00e1sil\u00ed<\/p>\n
N\u00e1sledoval koloto\u010d, kter\u00fd je pro toxick\u00e9 vztahy typick\u00fd. Po slovn\u00edch \u00fatoc\u00edch a\u00a0h\u00e1dank\u00e1ch p\u0159i\u0161lo na \u0159adu fyzick\u00e9 n\u00e1sil\u00ed. Spisovatelka v\u00a0knize barvit\u011b vyl\u00ed\u010dila pocity \u017eeny, kter\u00e9 po brad\u011b st\u00e9k\u00e1 krev z\u00a0rozseknut\u00e9ho rtu, zat\u00edmco v\u00a0pam\u011bti lov\u00ed st\u0159\u00edpky toho, jak se do takov\u00e9 situace v\u016fbec dostala.<\/p>\n
Nejv\u011bt\u0161\u00ed z\u00e1hadou pro okol\u00ed \u010dasto z\u016fst\u00e1v\u00e1, pro\u010d chytr\u00e1 a\u00a0sob\u011bsta\u010dn\u00e1 \u017eena v\u00a0takov\u00e9m prost\u0159ed\u00ed z\u016fst\u00e1v\u00e1 a\u00a0partnerovi st\u00e1le odpou\u0161t\u00ed. Odpov\u011b\u010f b\u00fdv\u00e1 slo\u017eit\u00e1 a\u00a0bolestiv\u00e1. Hraje v\u00a0n\u00ed roli hlubok\u00fd cit, nad\u011bje na n\u00e1pravu i\u00a0rafinovan\u00e1 manipulace ze strany agresora. Ten dok\u00e1\u017ee po ka\u017ed\u00e9m \u00fatoku prosit za odpu\u0161t\u011bn\u00ed a\u00a0budovat iluzi, \u017ee se v\u0161e zlep\u0161\u00ed.<\/p>\n
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Foto: se souhlasem TV Nova<\/p>\n
Hlavn\u00ed roli v\u00a0minis\u00e9rii Monyov\u00e1 dostala Tereza Ramba<\/p>\n
Tragick\u00e1 realita p\u0159ekonala rom\u00e1n<\/p>\n
Zat\u00edmco kni\u017en\u00ed p\u0159\u00edb\u011bh \u017denu ani kv\u011btinou kon\u010d\u00ed s\u00a0nad\u011bj\u00ed a\u00a0uv\u011bdom\u011bn\u00edm, \u017ee \u010dlov\u011bk nesm\u00ed zlo sn\u00e1\u0161et, skute\u010dn\u00fd \u017eivot autorky m\u011bl mnohem temn\u011bj\u0161\u00ed konec. Simona Monyov\u00e1 v\u00a0sob\u011b po letech t\u00fdr\u00e1n\u00ed na\u0161la s\u00edlu a\u00a0rozhodla se pro rozvod. Cht\u011bla za\u010d\u00edt znovu a\u00a0zachr\u00e1nit si \u017eivot.<\/p>\n
Hrdost a\u00a0ego jej\u00edho man\u017eela v\u0161ak takov\u00fd krok nedok\u00e1zaly un\u00e9st. V\u00a0srpnu roku 2011, b\u011bhem posledn\u00ed velk\u00e9 h\u00e1dky v\u00a0jejich dom\u011b, Boris Ingr svou \u017eenu ubodal k\u00a0smrti. Autorka tak doplatila na mu\u017ee, o\u00a0jeho\u017e nebezpe\u010dn\u00e9 povaze sama psala u\u017e sedm let p\u0159ed svou smrt\u00ed. Jej\u00ed knihy tak z\u016fst\u00e1vaj\u00ed nejen mementem jej\u00edho velk\u00e9ho talentu, ale tak\u00e9 mraziv\u00fdm varov\u00e1n\u00edm p\u0159ed nebezpe\u010dn\u00fdmi p\u0159\u00edznaky dom\u00e1c\u00edho n\u00e1sil\u00ed.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"\u00dasp\u011b\u0161n\u00e1 spisovatelka Simona Monyov\u00e1 pat\u0159ila k\u00a0nejobl\u00edben\u011bj\u0161\u00edm \u010desk\u00fdm autork\u00e1m rom\u00e1n\u016f pro \u017eeny. Jej\u00ed p\u0159\u00edb\u011bhy byly pln\u00e9 humoru, nadhledu a\u00a0vztahov\u00fdch…\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":105529,"comment_status":"","ping_status":"","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":"","_share_on_mastodon":"0"},"categories":[14],"tags":[30889,79,25648,1947,7850,649,80],"class_list":["post-105528","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","category-zabava","tag-cesti-spisovatele","tag-entertainment","tag-serial-monyova","tag-simona-monyova","tag-spisovatele","tag-spolecnost","tag-zabava"],"share_on_mastodon":{"url":"https:\/\/pubeurope.com\/@cz\/116683160117875886","error":""},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/cz\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/105528","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/cz\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/cz\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/cz\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/cz\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=105528"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/cz\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/105528\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/cz\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/105529"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/cz\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=105528"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/cz\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=105528"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/cz\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=105528"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}
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<\/a>\u0160armantn\u00ed past se zaklapla rychle<\/p>\n![](\"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/simona-monyova.jpeg\")
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