{"id":110928,"date":"2026-06-08T09:43:11","date_gmt":"2026-06-08T09:43:11","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/cz\/110928\/"},"modified":"2026-06-08T09:43:11","modified_gmt":"2026-06-08T09:43:11","slug":"zapomnela-jsem-mit-deti-prozrela-jsem-az-prilis-pozde-sverila-se-ctyriapadesatileta-zena","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/cz\/110928\/","title":{"rendered":"Zapomn\u011bla jsem m\u00edt d\u011bti. Proz\u0159ela jsem a\u017e p\u0159\u00edli\u0161 pozd\u011b, sv\u011b\u0159ila se \u010dty\u0159iapades\u00e1tilet\u00e1 \u017eena"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u201eVe dvaceti a\u00a0t\u0159iceti letech jsem hodn\u011b pracovala a\u00a0po ve\u010derech se bavila, stejn\u011b jako mnoho lid\u00ed v\u00a0m\u00e9m v\u011bku. Nav\u00edc jsem se setk\u00e1vala s\u00a0lidmi podobn\u00e9ho sm\u00fd\u0161len\u00ed, kte\u0159\u00ed \u017eili kari\u00e9rou a\u00a0na p\u0159em\u00fd\u0161len\u00ed o\u00a0d\u011btech jednodu\u0161e nem\u011bli \u010das,\u201c sv\u011b\u0159ila se Nadiya. <\/p>\n

Sama p\u0159itom nem\u011bla \u0161t\u011bst\u00ed ani na partnery. Nikdy nenarazila na takov\u00e9ho, o\u00a0kter\u00e9m by uva\u017eovala jako o\u00a0otci sv\u00fdch d\u011bt\u00ed. \u201eMo\u017en\u00e1 to bylo i\u00a0t\u00edm, \u017ee jsem si z\u0159ejm\u011b pov\u011bdom\u011b vyb\u00edrala mu\u017ee, kte\u0159\u00ed nebyli zam\u011b\u0159eni na rodinu,\u201c dodala Nadiya. <\/p>\n

V t\u00e9 dob\u011b to ale v\u016fbec ne\u0159e\u0161ila. Soust\u0159edila se p\u0159edev\u0161\u00edm na budov\u00e1n\u00ed sv\u00e9 kari\u00e9ry. Tvrd\u011b pracovala, aby rozjela sv\u00e9 podnik\u00e1n\u00ed a\u00a0mohla spl\u00e1cet hypot\u00e9ku na byt. Co\u017e se j\u00ed i\u00a0poda\u0159ilo, dlouh\u00e1 l\u00e9ta tak m\u011bla pocit, \u017ee m\u00e1 v\u0161e, o\u00a0\u010dem v\u017edy snila, a\u00a0nic j\u00ed nechyb\u00ed. <\/p>\n

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S p\u0159ib\u00fdvaj\u00edc\u00edmi roky se ale jej\u00ed pohled za\u010dal postupn\u011b m\u011bnit. \u201eNejd\u0159\u00edv to byly jen okam\u017eiky,\u201c \u0159\u00edk\u00e1 ti\u0161e. \u201eT\u0159eba kdy\u017e jsem vid\u011bla kamar\u00e1dky s\u00a0d\u011btmi. Nejd\u0159\u00edv jsem si \u0159\u00edkala, \u017ee m\u00e1m klid, svobodu, \u017ee jsem si vybrala jinou cestu. Ale pak jsem za\u010dala poci\u0165ovat osam\u011blost,\u201c dodala. <\/p>\n

V byt\u011b, kter\u00fd si kdysi vysnila, kde ka\u017ed\u00fd kus n\u00e1bytku symbolizoval jej\u00ed \u00fasp\u011bch, najednou n\u011bco chyb\u011blo. Ne v\u011bc, ale vztah. \u201eZvl\u00e1\u0161tn\u00ed je, \u017ee jsem nebyla ne\u0161\u0165astn\u00e1,\u201c vysv\u011btluje. \u201eSp\u00ed\u0161 pr\u00e1zdn\u00e1. Jakoby mi n\u011bco uniklo, ani\u017e bych si toho v\u0161imla.\u201c<\/p>\n

Kdy\u017e j\u00ed bylo pades\u00e1t, p\u0159i\u0161el zlom. Ne n\u00e1hl\u00fd, ale ne\u00faprosn\u00fd. \u201eZa\u010dala jsem si uv\u011bdomovat, \u017ee u\u017e nem\u00e1m \u010das na odkl\u00e1d\u00e1n\u00ed,\u201c \u0159\u00edk\u00e1. \u201eD\u0159\u00edv jsem si v\u017edycky \u0159\u00edkala, je\u0161t\u011b rok, dva po\u010dk\u00e1m na spr\u00e1vn\u00e9ho partnera. Jen\u017ee pak jsem si najednou spo\u010d\u00edtala, kolik mi je, a\u00a0do\u0161lo mi, \u017ee ten vlak prost\u011b odjel.\u201c<\/p>\n

Nepopisuje to dramaticky. Sp\u00ed\u0161 s\u00a0klidem n\u011bkoho, kdo si pro\u0161el procesem p\u0159ijet\u00ed. \u201eLid\u00e9 si mysl\u00ed, \u017ee lituju. Ale j\u00e1 nev\u00edm, jestli je to spr\u00e1vn\u00e9 slovo. Sp\u00ed\u0161 je to takov\u00e9 tich\u00e9 \u201aco kdyby\u2018. Co kdybych tehdy zpomalila. Co kdybych si dovolila cht\u00edt i\u00a0n\u011bco jin\u00e9ho ne\u017e \u00fasp\u011bch.\u201c<\/p>\n

Dnes se sna\u017e\u00ed sv\u016fj \u017eivot naplnit jinak. V\u00edce se v\u00edd\u00e1 s\u00a0p\u0159\u00e1teli, tr\u00e1v\u00ed \u010das s\u00a0jejich d\u011btmi, ob\u010das pom\u00e1h\u00e1 jako mentorka mlad\u0161\u00edm \u017een\u00e1m, kter\u00e9 stoj\u00ed na za\u010d\u00e1tku kari\u00e9ry. A\u00a0pr\u00e1v\u011b jim \u0159\u00edk\u00e1 n\u011bco, co by d\u0159\u00edv sama sly\u0161et necht\u011bla: \u201eNikdo v\u00e1m to ne\u0159ekne nahlas, ale v\u0161echno m\u00edt najednou je t\u011b\u017ek\u00e9. Kari\u00e9ra, vztah, rodina\u2026 chcete-li v\u0161echno, mus\u00edte o\u00a0tom p\u0159em\u00fd\u0161let d\u0159\u00edv. Ne a\u017e potom.\u201c<\/p>\n

Z\u00e1rove\u0148 ale zd\u016fraz\u0148uje, \u017ee \u017e\u00e1dn\u00e1 cesta nen\u00ed \u0161patn\u00e1. \u201eKa\u017ed\u00fd \u017eivot m\u00e1 svoji cenu,\u201c dod\u00e1v\u00e1. \u201eJ\u00e1 jsem si vybrala tenhle. A\u00a0i kdy\u017e m\u00e1 svoje tich\u00e9 momenty, st\u00e1le je to m\u016fj \u017eivot. A\u00a0j\u00e1 jsem za n\u011bj vd\u011b\u010dn\u00e1. Mo\u017en\u00e1 jsem zapomn\u011bla m\u00edt d\u011bti, ale nezapomn\u011bla jsem \u017e\u00edt,\u201c uzav\u00edr\u00e1. <\/p>\n

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