{"id":187961,"date":"2026-08-22T10:07:13","date_gmt":"2026-08-22T10:07:13","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/cz\/187961\/"},"modified":"2026-08-22T10:07:13","modified_gmt":"2026-08-22T10:07:13","slug":"proc-by-zena-nikdy-nemela-muze-uhanet","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/cz\/187961\/","title":{"rendered":"Pro\u010d by \u017eena nikdy nem\u011bla mu\u017ee uh\u00e1n\u011bt"},"content":{"rendered":"

N\u011bkter\u00e9 \u017eeny \u0159eknou: \u201eTo j\u00e1 jsem ho ulovila.\u201c Jin\u00e9 zase: \u201eTo j\u00e1 jsem si ho vybrala.\u201c A\u00a0okol\u00ed se o\u00a0nich vyjad\u0159uje slovy: \u201eOna ho uhnala.\u201c<\/p>\n

\u017dena pak mus\u00ed cel\u00fd \u017eivot bojovat, aby vztah udr\u017eela, zat\u00edmco mu\u017e se veze. Kdy\u017e je ale t\u00edm, kdo se na za\u010d\u00e1tku aspo\u0148 o\u00a0trochu v\u00edc sna\u017e\u00ed, \u017eeny si pak skute\u010dn\u011b v\u00e1\u017e\u00ed a\u00a0vztah p\u0159irozen\u011b vede jako tane\u010dn\u00edk.<\/p>\n

\u201eMu\u017e je stvo\u0159en k\u00a0tomu, aby usiloval, \u017eena, aby jeho snahu cenila a\u00a0\u0161la mu vst\u0159\u00edc. Kdy\u017e \u017eena usiluje o\u00a0mu\u017ee, ztr\u00e1c\u00ed \u010d\u00e1st sebe sama,\u201c uv\u00e1d\u00ed mentor zdrav\u00fdch partnersk\u00fdch a\u00a0rodinn\u00fdch vztah\u016f R.C. Blakes<\/a>.<\/p>\n

<\/a>Odm\u00edtnut\u00fd mu\u017e jde d\u00e1l, \u017eena je zlomen\u00e1<\/p>\n

Pochopit, pro\u010d \u017eena nesm\u00ed \u201elovit\u201c mu\u017ee, respektive \u017ee k\u00a0tomu nen\u00ed stvo\u0159en\u00e1, pom\u016f\u017ee jednoduch\u00fd p\u0159\u00edklad.<\/p>\n

Kdy\u017e mu\u017e t\u0159eba v\u00a0klubu usiluje o\u00a0\u017eenu a\u00a0ona ho odm\u00edtne, pokra\u010duje k\u00a0dal\u0161\u00ed. \u201eAle pokud se \u017eena do\u010dk\u00e1 odm\u00edtnut\u00ed od mu\u017ee, n\u011bco se v\u00a0n\u00ed zlom\u00ed. Z\u00a0klubu odejde s\u00a0pocitem m\u00e9n\u011bcennosti a\u00a0hojen\u00ed trv\u00e1 dlouho,\u201c vysv\u011btluje.<\/p>\n

Pro\u010d odm\u00edtnut\u00ed \u017eenu zlom\u00ed? Pro\u010d nem\u016f\u017ee pokra\u010dovat, podobn\u011b jako mu\u017e, v\u00a0hled\u00e1n\u00ed? \u201e\u017deny a\u00a0mu\u017ei jsou jinak stav\u011bn\u00ed. \u017deny ve vztaz\u00edch hledaj\u00ed l\u00e1sku, zat\u00edmco mu\u017ei do nich jdou sp\u00ed\u0161e kv\u016fli flirtu, kv\u016fli sexu. Proto je reakce na odm\u00edtnut\u00ed rozd\u00edln\u00e1.\u201c<\/p>\n

Schvalovac\u00ed past a\u00a0lov bez n\u00e1sledk\u016f<\/p>\n

Jin\u00fdmi slovy, kdy\u017e \u017eena mu\u017ee odm\u00edtne, on jde d\u00e1l. Kdy\u017e mu\u017e odm\u00edtne \u017eenu a\u00a0ona ho chce za ka\u017edou cenu \u201eulovit\u201c, d\u00e1v\u00e1 mu moc ji odm\u00edtnout znovu. Ona pak s\u00a0ka\u017ed\u00fdm dal\u0161\u00edm odm\u00edtnut\u00edm v\u00edc pochybuje o\u00a0sv\u00e9 hodnot\u011b.<\/p>\n

\u201e\u0158\u00edk\u00e1m tomu schvalovac\u00ed past. Mu\u017ee, kter\u00fd ji odm\u00edtl, m\u00e1 \u017eena zako\u0159en\u011bn\u00e9ho v\u00a0podv\u011bdom\u00ed a\u00a0nen\u00ed schopn\u00e1 d\u011blat nic jin\u00e9ho ne\u017e bojovat o\u00a0p\u0159ijet\u00ed, bu\u010f od n\u011bj, nebo od jin\u00e9ho jemu podobn\u00e9ho mu\u017ee.\u201c<\/p>\n

R.C. Blakes dod\u00e1v\u00e1, \u017ee se setkal s\u00a0mnoha \u017eenami, kter\u00e9 se s\u00a0n\u00edm h\u00e1daly, \u017ee to tak nen\u00ed, \u017ee i\u00a0\u017eeny jsou schopn\u00e9 stejn\u011b jako mu\u017ei \u201elovit\u201c jen kv\u016fli sexu bez n\u00e1sledk\u016f. \u201ePoka\u017ed\u00e9 odpov\u00edd\u00e1m ot\u00e1zkou: ,Jsou \u0161\u0165astn\u00e9?\u2018\u201c<\/p>\n

Mu\u017e mus\u00ed prok\u00e1zat v\u016fd\u010d\u00ed schopnosti<\/p>\n

Jak vztah za\u010d\u00edn\u00e1, tak tak\u00e9 pokra\u010duje. Kdy\u017e \u017eena mu\u017ee \u201elov\u00ed\u201c, p\u0159edkl\u00e1d\u00e1 se mu na zlat\u00e9m podnose a\u00a0v\u0161echnu vztahovou pr\u00e1ci oded\u0159e sama.<\/p>\n

Odsuzuje se k\u00a0tomu, \u017ee bude muset mu\u017ee neust\u00e1le \u201estartovat\u201c, n\u011bjak motivovat, aby vztah udr\u017eela v\u00a0chodu. \u201ePlat\u00ed da\u0148 za to, \u017ee naru\u0161ila rytmus vztahu. Neumo\u017enila mu prok\u00e1zat v\u016fdcovsk\u00e9 schopnosti,\u201c upozor\u0148uje vztahov\u00fd mentor.<\/p>\n

Pro\u010d by nemohla \u017eena v\u00e9st? \u201eDynamika vztahu mezi mu\u017eem a\u00a0\u017eenou m\u00e1 sv\u00e1 specifika. Kdy\u017e mu\u017e nevede, \u017eena ho nem\u016f\u017ee respektovat.\u201c<\/p>\n

<\/a>On vede, p\u0159itom jsou si rovni<\/p>\n

Pokud chce \u017eena mu\u017ee, kter\u00fd ji ochr\u00e1n\u00ed, postar\u00e1 se o\u00a0ni a\u00a0o rodinu, jako v\u016fdkyn\u011b se ochrany nedo\u010dk\u00e1. Nech\u00e1-li ho v\u00e9st, rozhodn\u011b nen\u00ed slab\u00e1<\/a>.<\/p>\n

\u201eS mou \u017eenou Lisou jsme spolu skoro t\u0159icet let. Je velmi asertivn\u00ed, ona je mozek, zna\u010dka, byznys. J\u00e1 jsem kreativec. Skv\u011ble spolupracujeme, proto\u017ee od sam\u00e9ho za\u010d\u00e1tku respektujeme mu\u017eskou a\u00a0\u017eenskou roli. Ne\u0159ekl bych, \u017ee mi dovoluje v\u00e9st, ona vylo\u017een\u011b po\u017eaduje, abych vedl, proto\u017ee kdybych nevedl, nemohla by si m\u011b v\u00e1\u017eit,\u201c \u0159\u00edk\u00e1 R.C. Blakes.<\/p>\n

\u017de mu\u017e vede, neznamen\u00e1, \u017ee je nad\u0159azen\u00fd, nebo \u017ee \u017eena je slab\u00e1. Jsou odli\u0161n\u00ed a\u00a0z\u00e1rove\u0148 jsou si rovni.<\/p>\n

Jak\u00e9 t\u011b\u017ekosti nerespektov\u00e1n\u00ed rol\u00ed ve vztahu zp\u016fsobuje, se obvykle projev\u00ed hned po l\u00edb\u00e1nk\u00e1ch. Jakmile p\u00e1r bez r\u016f\u017eov\u00fdch br\u00fdl\u00ed zas\u00e1hne realita b\u011b\u017en\u00e9ho \u017eivota.<\/p>\n

\u017dena, kter\u00e1 zn\u00e1 svou hodnotu, odch\u00e1z\u00ed<\/p>\n

Pokud mu\u017e nem\u00e1 dostatek s\u00edly, aby vztah zah\u00e1jil, o\u00a0\u017eenu se uch\u00e1zel a\u00a0vn\u00edmal ji jako dar, m\u011bla by ho nechat j\u00edt. \u201ePro \u017eenu, kter\u00e1 mu\u017ee uh\u00e1n\u00ed, je jedin\u00fdm l\u00e9kem z\u016fstat sama, zapracovat na sv\u00e9 hodnot\u011b a\u00a0a\u017e potom dovolit tomu prav\u00e9mu mu\u017ei<\/a>, aby se o\u00a0ni uch\u00e1zel,\u201c doporu\u010duje R.C. Blakes.<\/p>\n

Blakes tak\u00e9 zmi\u0148uje, jak velk\u00e1 s\u00edla tkv\u00ed ve schopnosti \u017eeny odej\u00edt od mu\u017ee, kter\u00e9ho miluje, ale on ji nemiluje tak, jak si ona zaslou\u017e\u00ed. D\u011bl\u00e1 to pro sebe, aby mohla uzdravit sv\u00e9 srdce. Jemu umo\u017e\u0148uje ujasnit si, co k\u00a0n\u00ed c\u00edt\u00ed a\u00a0\u017ee ji chce m\u00edt v\u00a0\u017eivot\u011b.<\/p>\n

\u201eP\u0159esn\u011b to ud\u011blala Lisa, kdy\u017e jsem j\u00ed \u0159ekl, \u017ee se nechci \u017eenit. O\u010dek\u00e1val jsem: ,Pro\u010d? Co jsem ud\u011blala? Poj\u010fme na tom zapracovat.\u2018 To by \u0159ekla ka\u017ed\u00e1 jin\u00e1 \u017eena, ale ona pronesla jen: \u201aOK.\u2018 Prost\u011b\u2026 OK. Rozhovor skon\u010dil, ode\u0161la,\u201c vzpom\u00edn\u00e1 vztahov\u00fd a\u00a0rodinn\u00fd mentor.<\/p>\n

Jakmile si v\u0161echno srovnal, zavolal j\u00ed a\u00a0ona se od urostl\u00e9ho bohat\u00e9ho sportovce vr\u00e1tila k\u00a0mal\u00e9mu kazateli na mizin\u011b a\u00a0s nadv\u00e1hou, proto\u017ee jejich vztah byl od za\u010d\u00e1tku zalo\u017een\u00fd na n\u011b\u010dem hlub\u0161\u00edm, na p\u0159\u00e1telstv\u00ed a\u00a0spole\u010dn\u00e9 vizi.<\/p>\n

Anketa<\/p>\n

Je v po\u0159\u00e1dku, kdy\u017e \u017eeny \u201elov\u00ed\u201c mu\u017ee?<\/p>\n

Ano, mu\u017ei jsou dnes pasivn\u00ed.<\/p>\n

Ano, nejsme v 17. stolet\u00ed.<\/p>\n

Ne, mu\u017e se mus\u00ed o \u017eenu sna\u017eit, jinak ztrat\u00ed z\u00e1jem.<\/p>\n

Ne, ukazuj\u00ed t\u00edm, \u017ee nemaj\u00ed \u017e\u00e1dnou hrdost.<\/p>\n

Lovit by nem\u011bl ani jeden.<\/p>\n

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\n\t\t\t\t\u010dten\u00e1\u0159\u016f.<\/p>\n

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