{"id":32830,"date":"2026-03-23T07:49:11","date_gmt":"2026-03-23T07:49:11","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/cz\/32830\/"},"modified":"2026-03-23T07:49:11","modified_gmt":"2026-03-23T07:49:11","slug":"prekvapive-mnoho-muzu-zaziva-bolest-pri-milovani-jen-o-tom-mluvi-mene-nez-zeny","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/cz\/32830\/","title":{"rendered":"P\u0159ekvapiv\u011b mnoho mu\u017e\u016f za\u017e\u00edv\u00e1 bolest p\u0159i milov\u00e1n\u00ed, jen o tom mluv\u00ed m\u00e9n\u011b ne\u017e \u017eeny"},"content":{"rendered":"

Fyzickou intimitu si spojujeme zejm\u00e9na se slast\u00ed, ale realita m\u016f\u017ee b\u00fdt bohu\u017eel bolestiv\u011bj\u0161\u00ed. V\u00fdzkum publikovan\u00fd<\/a> v International Journal of Sexual Health ukazuje, \u017ee bolest p\u0159i milov\u00e1n\u00ed nen\u00ed \u017e\u00e1dn\u00e1 rarita a zdaleka se net\u00fdk\u00e1 jen \u017een.<\/p>\n

V\u011bt\u0161ina p\u0159edchoz\u00edch studi\u00ed se dosud zam\u011b\u0159ovala hlavn\u011b na lidi s diagn\u00f3zami nebo z\u00e1va\u017en\u011bj\u0161\u00edmi pot\u00ed\u017eemi. Jen\u017ee b\u011b\u017en\u00e1 \u201eka\u017edodenn\u00ed\u201c nepohoda p\u0159i intimn\u00edch chvilk\u00e1ch z\u016fst\u00e1vala tak trochu ve st\u00ednu. Pr\u00e1v\u011b na tu se zam\u011b\u0159il t\u00fdm v\u011bdky\u0148 kolem psycholo\u017eky Terri D. Fisher. V\u00fdzkum mezi v\u00edce ne\u017e dv\u011bma stovkami vysoko\u0161kol\u00e1k\u016f uk\u00e1zal, \u017ee bolest nap\u0159\u00ed\u010d r\u016fzn\u00fdmi typy intimity za\u017eilo n\u011bkdy v \u017eivot\u011b opravdu hodn\u011b lid\u00ed. Zat\u00edmco \u00fa\u010dastn\u00edci odhadovali, \u017ee se to t\u00fdk\u00e1 hlavn\u011b \u017een, realita byla vyrovnan\u011bj\u0161\u00ed. Nap\u0159\u00edklad p\u0159i peniln\u011b-vagin\u00e1ln\u00ed penetraci uvedlo zku\u0161enost s bolest\u00ed p\u0159es 90 % \u017een, ale tak\u00e9 zhruba polovina mu\u017e\u016f. Ano, \u010dtete spr\u00e1vn\u011b, polovina.<\/p>\n

\"Koment\u00e1\u0159:<\/a>Koment\u00e1\u0159: Kdy\u017e \u201eto\u201c m\u00e1ma s t\u00e1tou cht\u011bj\u00ed taky<\/a><\/p>\n

Pro\u010d n\u00e1s prvn\u00ed \u010d\u00edslo nep\u0159ekvap\u00ed tolik, jako to druh\u00e9? Z\u00e1sadn\u00ed rozd\u00edl je zejm\u00e9na v komunikaci. \u017deny se o nep\u0159\u00edjemn\u00fdch pocitech sv\u011b\u0159ovaly v\u00fdrazn\u011b \u010dast\u011bji a tak\u00e9 \u010dast\u011bji dok\u00e1zaly \u0159\u00edct \u201estop\u201c. Mu\u017ei naopak mnohem \u010dast\u011bji zat\u00ednali zuby (n\u011bkdy doslova) a pokra\u010dovali d\u00e1l. Pro\u010d? Za\u017e\u00edvali rozpaky, necht\u011bli \u201ekazit atmosf\u00e9ru\u201c a nav\u00edc se dr\u017eeli p\u0159edstavy, \u017ee mu\u017e m\u00e1 b\u00fdt drs\u0148\u00e1k a nic ho nerozhod\u00ed.<\/p>\n

M\u00fdtus, kter\u00fd stoj\u00ed za to opustit<\/p>\n

Studie uk\u00e1zala, \u017ee \u010d\u00edm siln\u011bji lid\u00e9 v\u011b\u0159\u00ed tradi\u010dn\u00edm p\u0159edstav\u00e1m o mu\u017enosti a \u017eenskosti, t\u00edm m\u00e9n\u011b jsou ochotn\u00ed o nepohodl\u00ed mluvit. Mu\u017ei se boj\u00ed, \u017ee by p\u0159izn\u00e1n\u00edm bolesti p\u016fsobili slab\u011b. \u017deny zase n\u011bkdy c\u00edt\u00ed, \u017ee by m\u011bly vydr\u017eet, aby nezklamaly partnera. Kdy\u017e se \u00fa\u010dastn\u00edci studie rozepsali, d\u016fvody jejich nepohodl\u00ed byly p\u0159ekvapiv\u011b \u201epraktick\u00e9\u201c jako \u0161patn\u00fd \u00fahel, p\u0159\u00edli\u0161n\u00e1 intenzita, nedostate\u010dn\u00e9 zvlh\u010den\u00ed nebo t\u0159eba nedostatek vzru\u0161en\u00ed a p\u0159edehry. U mu\u017e\u016f se objevovaly i situace jako nep\u0159\u00edjemn\u00e9 t\u0159en\u00ed nebo necht\u011bn\u00e9 incidenty se zuby p\u0159i or\u00e1ln\u00ed stimulaci.<\/p>\n

\"Ov\u011b\u0159ov\u00e1n\u00ed<\/a>Ov\u011b\u0159ov\u00e1n\u00ed souhlasu se stykem jako zabij\u00e1k v\u00e1\u0161n\u011b? Je to m\u00fdtus, \u0159\u00edk\u00e1 Johanna Nejedlov\u00e1<\/a><\/p>\n

I kdy\u017e to zn\u00ed ban\u00e1ln\u011b, pr\u00e1v\u011b tyhle drobnosti rozhoduj\u00ed o tom, jestli bude z\u00e1\u017eitek p\u0159\u00edjemn\u00fd, nebo na n\u011bj budeme cht\u00edt zapomenout. Opravdu smutn\u00e9 je, \u017ee spousta lid\u00ed pova\u017euje bolest p\u0159i milov\u00e1n\u00ed za tak norm\u00e1ln\u00ed, \u017ee jsou ochotni ji prost\u011b vydr\u017eet. Jen\u017ee kdy\u017e o nep\u0159\u00edjemn\u00fdch podn\u011btech nebudeme mluvit, asi se n\u00e1\u0161 intimn\u00ed \u017eivot sotva zlep\u0161\u00ed. Mo\u017en\u00e1 to nen\u00ed zrovna nejv\u00edc sexy rada na sv\u011bt\u011b, ale funguje. Sd\u00edlen\u00ed toho, co je p\u0159\u00edjemn\u00e9 (a co u\u017e ne) atmosf\u00e9ru nepokaz\u00ed. Bolest p\u0159i milov\u00e1n\u00ed nen\u00ed selh\u00e1n\u00ed. A naopak otev\u0159en\u00e1 komunikace b\u011bhem milov\u00e1n\u00ed zvy\u0161uje<\/a> pot\u011b\u0161en\u00ed i pocit bl\u00edzkosti.<\/p>\n

Pokud si nev\u00edte rady, jak s\u00a0t\u00edmto typem komunikace za\u010d\u00edt a styd\u00edte se, m\u016f\u017eete nejd\u0159\u00edve zkusit partnera \u010di partnerku nav\u00e9st svou rukou. Nemus\u00edte ani mluvit jako b\u00e1snick\u00e1 sb\u00edrka, ze za\u010d\u00e1tku v\u00e1m posta\u010d\u00ed ano\/ne \u010di kr\u00e1tk\u00e9 v\u011bty typu: \u201etrochu pomaleji\u201c, \u201epo\u010dkej\u201c apod. Komunikujte, co c\u00edt\u00edte, rad\u011bji ihned ne\u017e zp\u011btn\u011b, ale pokud se rozhodnete pro rozhovor a\u017e s\u00a0odstupem, zkuste se naladit na pozitivn\u00ed notu m\u00edsto neadekv\u00e1tn\u011b ostr\u00e9 kritiky.<\/p>\n

\"Chcete<\/a>Chcete lep\u0161\u00ed milostn\u00fd \u017eivot? Za\u010dn\u011bte s partnerem v posteli, ale jinak, ne\u017e \u010dek\u00e1te<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"Fyzickou intimitu si spojujeme zejm\u00e9na se slast\u00ed, ale realita m\u016f\u017ee b\u00fdt bohu\u017eel bolestiv\u011bj\u0161\u00ed. V\u00fdzkum publikovan\u00fd v International Journal…\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":32831,"comment_status":"","ping_status":"","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":"","_share_on_mastodon":"0"},"categories":[13],"tags":[7236,13921,1612,8213,1132,13920,9386,74,73,1611,78,75,77,76],"class_list":["post-32830","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","category-veda-a-technika","tag-bolest","tag-genderove-stereotypy","tag-intimita","tag-komunikace","tag-muzi","tag-muznost","tag-myty","tag-science","tag-science-technology","tag-sex","tag-technika","tag-technology","tag-veda","tag-veda-a-technika"],"share_on_mastodon":{"url":"https:\/\/pubeurope.com\/@cz\/116277396270976818","error":""},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/cz\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/32830","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/cz\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/cz\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/cz\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/cz\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=32830"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/cz\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/32830\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/cz\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/32831"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/cz\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=32830"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/cz\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=32830"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/cz\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=32830"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}