{"id":48532,"date":"2026-04-08T02:47:16","date_gmt":"2026-04-08T02:47:16","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/cz\/48532\/"},"modified":"2026-04-08T02:47:16","modified_gmt":"2026-04-08T02:47:16","slug":"nekteri-seniori-se-z-obavy-o-to-kdo-se-o-ne-postara-dopousti-v-ramci-sve-rodiny-zoufalych-cinu","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/cz\/48532\/","title":{"rendered":"N\u011bkte\u0159\u00ed senio\u0159i se z\u00a0obavy o\u00a0to, kdo se o\u00a0n\u011b postar\u00e1, dopou\u0161t\u00ed v\u00a0r\u00e1mci sv\u00e9 rodiny zoufal\u00fdch \u010din\u016f"},"content":{"rendered":"

Na\u0161e populace st\u00e1rne a\u00a0k tomu klesla porodnost na historick\u00e9 minimum, co\u017e se v\u00a0bl\u00edzk\u00e9 budoucnosti negativn\u011b prom\u00edtne na d\u016fchodov\u00e9m, soci\u00e1ln\u00edm i\u00a0zdravotn\u00edm syst\u00e9mu. Tedy za p\u0159edpokladu, \u017ee nep\u0159ijmeme dostate\u010dn\u00e9 mno\u017estv\u00ed imigrant\u016f pro vyrovn\u00e1n\u00ed poklesu. V\u00a0historicky kr\u00e1tk\u00e9 dob\u011b vzroste po\u010det senior\u016f vy\u017eaduj\u00edc\u00edch p\u00e9\u010di ostatn\u00edch, co\u017e d\u011bs\u00ed nejen demografy ale tak\u00e9 politiky, nebo\u0165 n\u00e1\u0161 syst\u00e9m nen\u00ed p\u0159ipraven na skokov\u00fd n\u00e1r\u016fst po\u010dtu nemohouc\u00edch. \u0158editel \u00dastavu zdravotnick\u00fdch informac\u00ed a\u00a0statistiky Ladislav Du\u0161ek se ob\u00e1v\u00e1 momentu, kdy p\u016fjdou do d\u016fchodu tzv. Hus\u00e1kovy d\u011bti. \u201eNen\u00ed na co \u010dekat, mus\u00edme jednat hned. Jinak n\u00e1s postihne demografick\u00e1 katastrofa,\u201c varuje.<\/p>\n

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V sou\u010dasnosti nem\u00e1me dostatek za\u0159\u00edzen\u00ed, ve kter\u00fdch by bylo o\u00a0nemohouc\u00ed starce profesion\u00e1ln\u011b postar\u00e1no. Z\u00a0na\u0161\u00ed domoviny se st\u00e1v\u00e1 demografick\u00e1 rozbu\u0161ka, co\u017e si za\u010d\u00ednaj\u00ed uv\u011bdomovat i\u00a0mnoz\u00ed senio\u0159i, kte\u0159\u00ed maj\u00ed obavy, kdo se o\u00a0n\u011b v\u00a0p\u0159\u00edpad\u011b probl\u00e9m\u016f postar\u00e1. V\u011bt\u0161inou se spol\u00e9haj\u00ed na rodinu.<\/p>\n

N\u011bkte\u0159\u00ed starci ve snaze \u201epojistit\u201c si p\u00e9\u010di od sv\u00e9 rodiny, se n\u011bkdy uchyluj\u00ed k\u00a0zoufal\u00fdm krok\u016fm, kter\u00e9 nez\u0159\u00eddka maj\u00ed dopad na vz\u00e1jemn\u00e9 vztahy. Ned\u00e1vno jsem \u010detla \u010dl\u00e1nek, ve kter\u00e9m si jeden mlad\u00fd mu\u017e st\u011b\u017eoval na svou tch\u00fdni. Ta vymyslela pl\u00e1n, jak si svou dceru a\u00a0sv\u00e9ho zet\u011b zah\u00e1\u010dkovat na dlouh\u00e9 roky dop\u0159edu. Bohu\u017eel to u\u010dinila dosti ne\u0161\u0165astn\u00fdm zp\u016fsobem.<\/p>\n

Foto: Unsplash (autor: Ray S)<\/p>\n

Mlad\u00fdm man\u017eel\u016fm po narozen\u00ed dcery za\u010dalo b\u00fdt v\u00a0jejich mal\u00e9m byt\u011b t\u011bsno, nicm\u00e9n\u011b tu byla tch\u00fdn\u011b, kter\u00e1 jim p\u0159isl\u00edbila \u010d\u00e1st sv\u00e9ho pozemku. \u201eA\u017e budete cht\u00edt stav\u011bt, prost\u011b mi to \u0159ekn\u011bte. M\u00edsta je dost. A\u00a0stejn\u011b to jednou bude va\u0161e,\u201c \u0159\u00edk\u00e1vala jim opakovan\u011b u\u00a0ned\u011bln\u00edho ob\u011bda. Man\u017eel\u00e9 s\u00a0t\u00edm za\u010dali po\u010d\u00edtat, a\u00a0tak si zaplatili projektanta a\u00a0pustili se do pl\u00e1nov\u00e1n\u00ed vysn\u011bn\u00e9ho dome\u010dku. Za\u010dali jednat s\u00a0\u00fa\u0159ady a\u00a0vy\u0159izovat pap\u00edry. Jednoho dne si ale s\u00a0nimi tch\u00fdn\u011b pot\u0159ebovala v\u00e1\u017en\u011b promluvit na t\u00e9ma pozemek. \u201eNemus\u00ed\u0161 m\u00edt \u017e\u00e1dn\u00e9 obavy, na pozemku m\u016f\u017eete stav\u011bt\u2026 ale s\u00a0jednou podm\u00ednkou. Chci m\u00edt v\u00a0dom\u011b sv\u016fj pokoj s\u00a0koupelnou. Chci m\u00edt sv\u00e9 m\u00edsto, abych m\u011bla kam j\u00edt. A\u00a0chci to m\u00edt zapsan\u00e9 ve smlouv\u011b,\u201c sd\u011blila. V\u00a0man\u017eel\u00edch hrklo, s\u00a0takovou podm\u00ednkou nepo\u010d\u00edtali. A\u010dkoliv ji uji\u0161\u0165ovali, \u017ee u\u00a0nich bude v\u017edy v\u00edtan\u00e1 a\u00a0\u017ee kdy\u017e bude t\u0159eba, \u017ee se o\u00a0ni postaraj\u00ed, trvala si na sv\u00e9m: \u201eJsem u\u017e star\u0161\u00ed a\u00a0chci m\u00edt jistotu, \u017ee se o\u00a0m\u011b postar\u00e1te. Dneska se rodiny rozpadaj\u00ed, lid\u00e9 se rozv\u00e1d\u011bj\u00ed\u2026 Kdyby se n\u011bco stalo, nechci skon\u010dit sama nebo v\u00a0domov\u011b d\u016fchodc\u016f.\u201c A\u00a0jak to dopadlo? Man\u017eel\u00e9 se samoz\u0159ejm\u011b necht\u011bli nechat vyd\u00edrat a\u00a0m\u011bnit sv\u00e9 pl\u00e1ny. Necht\u011bli stav\u011bt d\u016fm, ve kter\u00e9m by se c\u00edtili jako n\u00e1jemn\u00edci. Rad\u011bji slevili ze sv\u00fdch pl\u00e1n\u016f, koupili men\u0161\u00ed pozemek na okraji m\u011bsta a\u00a0postavili men\u0161\u00ed domek, sice skromn\u011bj\u0161\u00ed, ale cel\u00fd jejich. Tch\u00fdn\u011b se samoz\u0159ejm\u011b urazila, n\u011bjakou dobu s\u00a0nimi nemluvila. Po \u010dase se ale vztahy urovnaly.<\/p>\n

M\u00e1m dojem, \u017ee takov\u00fd postup ze strany senior\u016f, nen\u00ed ni\u010d\u00edm v\u00fdjime\u010dn\u00fdm. Bohu\u017eel to zn\u00e1m i\u00a0z\u00a0vlastn\u00ed zku\u0161enosti. M\u016fj tch\u00e1n si podobn\u00fdm zp\u016fsobem zkou\u0161el zah\u00e1\u010dkovat sv\u00e9 dva\u00a0syny. Po smrti sv\u00e9 \u017eeny a\u00a0matky, kter\u00e1 ob\u00fdvala p\u0159\u00edzem\u00ed jejich domu, dal syn\u016fm najevo, \u017ee d\u016fm bude toho, kdo se bude v\u00edce sna\u017eit. Co na tom, \u017ee jeden ze syn\u016f bydl\u00ed t\u00e9m\u011b\u0159 200\u00a0kilometr\u016f daleko a\u00a0s mal\u00fdmi d\u011btmi m\u00e1 zt\u00ed\u017een\u00e9 cestov\u00e1n\u00ed. Zkr\u00e1tka nastavil nerovn\u00e9 podm\u00ednky, rodinn\u00e9 vztahy se vyhrotily. Ve v\u00fdsledku mlad\u0161\u00edho syna vyd\u011bdil, v\u0161e odk\u00e1zal star\u0161\u00edmu synovi. Samoz\u0159ejm\u011b mu nev\u011bnoval sv\u016fj majetek je\u0161t\u011b za sv\u00e9ho \u017eivota, nejsp\u00ed\u0161e necht\u011bl riskovat, \u017ee by jej star\u0161\u00ed syn mohl um\u00edstit do n\u011bjak\u00e9ho za\u0159\u00edzen\u00ed. Paradoxem je, \u017ee tak nakonec stejn\u011b skon\u010dil. B\u011bhem operace v\u00fdm\u011bny srde\u010dn\u00ed chlopn\u011b do\u0161lo ke komplikac\u00edm. Tch\u00e1n prod\u011blal b\u011bhem z\u00e1kroku n\u011bkolik mrtvic, musel n\u00e1sledn\u011b rehabilitovat. Star\u0161\u00ed syn si sv\u00e9ho otce k\u00a0sob\u011b nevzal. Um\u00edstil ho do za\u0159\u00edzen\u00ed, kde se jeho zdravotn\u00ed stav zhor\u0161il, n\u00e1sledn\u011b zem\u0159el.<\/p>\n

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Bohu\u017eel ono vz\u00edt si k\u00a0sob\u011b st\u00e1rnouc\u00edho p\u0159\u00edbuzn\u00e9ho neb\u00fdv\u00e1 tak jednoduch\u00e9. \u0158ada lid\u00ed si k\u00a0sob\u011b seniora zkr\u00e1tka vz\u00edt nem\u016f\u017ee. Hrozila by jim tak t\u0159eba ztr\u00e1ta zam\u011bstn\u00e1n\u00ed. Nav\u00edc takov\u00e1 p\u00e9\u010de b\u00fdv\u00e1 psychicky i\u00a0fyzicky n\u00e1ro\u010dn\u00e1, rozhodn\u011b to nen\u00ed pro ka\u017ed\u00e9ho. Proto \u0159ada rodin \u0159e\u0161\u00ed, kam by sv\u00e9 st\u00e1rnouc\u00ed p\u0159\u00edbuzn\u00e9 um\u00edstila, m\u00e1lokdo si seniora k\u00a0sob\u011b vezme dom\u016f a\u00a0vzorn\u011b o\u00a0n\u011bj pe\u010duje. To, co b\u00fdvalo d\u0159\u00edve b\u011b\u017en\u00e9 u\u00a0v\u00edcegenera\u010dn\u00edch dom\u00e1cnost\u00ed, postupn\u011b miz\u00ed. A\u00a0kdy\u017e je nedostatek za\u0159\u00edzen\u00ed, kam seniora um\u00edstit, nast\u00e1v\u00e1 probl\u00e9m, na kter\u00fd upozor\u0148uj\u00ed u\u017e i\u00a0nemocnice. P\u0159ib\u00fdv\u00e1 lid\u00ed, kter\u00e9 nen\u00ed kam um\u00edstit. St\u00e1vaj\u00ed se situace, kdy se senio\u0159i dostanou do nemocnice, a\u00a0i kdy\u017e u\u017e jsou schopni propu\u0161t\u011bn\u00ed, v\u00a0nemocnici je\u0161t\u011b setrv\u00e1vaj\u00ed, proto\u017ee nemaj\u00ed kam j\u00edt. \u0158\u00edk\u00e1 se tomu \u201esoci\u00e1ln\u00ed hospitalizace\u201c. Senio\u0159i pak z\u016fst\u00e1vaj\u00ed v\u00a0nemocni\u010dn\u00edm za\u0159\u00edzen\u00ed tak dlouho, ne\u017e se jejich situace n\u011bjak vy\u0159e\u0161\u00ed.<\/p>\n

Foto: Unsplash (autor: Adhy Savala)<\/p>\n

Z\u016fstat na star\u00e1 kolena s\u00a0rodinou nemus\u00ed b\u00fdt a\u017e takov\u00e1 v\u00fdhra. Vid\u011bla jsem to pr\u00e1v\u011b u\u00a0sv\u00e9ho tch\u00e1na, kter\u00fd pe\u010doval o\u00a0svou st\u00e1rnouc\u00ed maminku. Sice m\u011bla naklizeno, obstaral n\u00e1kupy a\u00a0vozil ji k\u00a0l\u00e9ka\u0159i, nicm\u00e9n\u011b se k\u00a0n\u00ed n\u011bkdy choval tak hrub\u011b, \u017ee jsem si \u0159\u00edkala, zda by j\u00ed nebylo l\u00e9pe n\u011bkde, kde by m\u011bla profesion\u00e1ln\u00ed p\u00e9\u010di.<\/p>\n

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Jsou lid\u00e9, kte\u0159\u00ed naopak do domova d\u016fchodc\u016f cht\u011bj\u00ed. \u201e\u2026moje maminka cht\u011bla sama do domova d\u016fchodc\u016f, \u0159ekla n\u00e1m, \u017ee nechce bydlet u\u00a0nikoho z\u00a0n\u00e1s, ale mezi vrstevn\u00edky a\u00a0my to vzali na v\u011bdom\u00ed. Jezdili jsme pak za n\u00ed i\u00a0s mou vnu\u010dkou, kdy\u017e poprv\u00e9 se mnou \u0161la za babi a\u017e na jej\u00ed patro a\u00a0do pokoje, to byla p\u0159ed n\u00e1stupem do \u0161koly. Pak se m\u011b ptala, jestli to je nemocnice, tak jsem j\u00ed to vysv\u011btlila. J\u00e1 i\u00a0sourozenci by jsme ji m\u011bli b\u00fdvali r\u00e1di u\u00a0sebe, ale ch\u00e1pali jsme, \u017ee necht\u011bla b\u00fdt cel\u00e9 dny sama, ne\u017e se n\u011bkdo vr\u00e1t\u00ed z\u00a0pr\u00e1ce dom\u016f, dne\u0161n\u00ed doba je slo\u017eit\u011bj\u0161\u00ed. Moji prarodi\u010de byli dost nemocn\u00ed, se z\u00e1kladn\u00edm d\u016fchodem, nikdy jim nic nebylo vy\u010d\u00edt\u00e1no, naopak i\u00a0my, vnou\u010data jsme je podporovali, jak to bylo mo\u017en\u00e9,\u201c komentovala umis\u0165ov\u00e1n\u00ed senior\u016f jedna \u017eena na webu i60.cz.<\/p>\n

To, \u017ee si k\u00a0sob\u011b rodiny u\u017e tolik neberou sv\u00e9 st\u00e1rnouc\u00ed p\u0159\u00edbuzn\u00e9 bohu\u017eel m\u00e1 i\u00a0ten efekt, \u017ee mlad\u00ed lid\u00e9 k\u00a0senior\u016fm nem\u00edvaj\u00ed tak pevn\u00e9 vazby, jako tomu b\u00fdvalo d\u0159\u00edve. Generace si pak k\u00a0sob\u011b navz\u00e1jem h\u016f\u0159e hledaj\u00ed cestu. Sociolog PhDr. Zden\u011bk Papou\u0161ek zast\u00e1v\u00e1 n\u00e1zor, \u017ee ti mlad\u00ed, kte\u0159\u00ed za\u017eili babi\u010dky a\u00a0d\u011bde\u010dky v\u00a0rodin\u00e1ch, nemaj\u00ed probl\u00e9m star\u0161\u00ed generaci p\u0159ij\u00edmat. Bohu\u017eel se zm\u011bnou spole\u010dnosti do\u0161lo k\u00a0rozt\u0159\u00ed\u0161t\u011bn\u00ed rodinn\u00fdch vazeb, spole\u010dnost se atomizuje. To, co d\u0159\u00edve b\u00fdvalo samoz\u0159ejm\u00e9, p\u0159est\u00e1v\u00e1 samoz\u0159ejm\u00e9 b\u00fdt, co\u017e u\u00a0n\u011bkter\u00fdch lid\u00ed zp\u016fsobuje to, \u017ee se uchyluj\u00ed k\u00a0zoufal\u00fdm krok\u016fm, kter\u00e9 paradoxn\u011b je\u0161t\u011b v\u00edce naru\u0161uj\u00ed rodinn\u00e9 vazby.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"Na\u0161e populace st\u00e1rne a\u00a0k tomu klesla porodnost na historick\u00e9 minimum, co\u017e se v\u00a0bl\u00edzk\u00e9 budoucnosti negativn\u011b prom\u00edtne na d\u016fchodov\u00e9m,…\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":48533,"comment_status":"","ping_status":"","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[12],"tags":[8310,67,68,13680,5809,578,444,11413,2704,3041,18203,2667,650,557,3042,18202,2781,703,1235,13631,12619,6427,3335,651,5092,4367,649,394,8912,17203,18201,2151,652,8388],"class_list":{"0":"post-48532","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-byznys","8":"tag-babicka","9":"tag-business","10":"tag-byznys","11":"tag-dedecek","12":"tag-dedictvi","13":"tag-demografie","14":"tag-deti","15":"tag-domov-pro-seniory","16":"tag-duchodci","17":"tag-generace","18":"tag-husakovy-deti","19":"tag-konflikty","20":"tag-lide","21":"tag-majetek","22":"tag-mezigeneracni-vztahy","23":"tag-nedostatek","24":"tag-pece","25":"tag-penize","26":"tag-pomoc","27":"tag-populace","28":"tag-povinnost","29":"tag-pozemky","30":"tag-rodicovstvi","31":"tag-rodina","32":"tag-rodinne-vztahy","33":"tag-seniori","34":"tag-spolecnost","35":"tag-starnuti","36":"tag-tchan","37":"tag-tchyne","38":"tag-umisteni","39":"tag-vydirani","40":"tag-vztahy","41":"tag-zdravotni-pece"},"share_on_mastodon":{"url":"https:\/\/pubeurope.com\/@cz\/116366805838263742","error":""},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/cz\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/48532","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/cz\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/cz\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/cz\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/cz\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=48532"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/cz\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/48532\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/cz\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/48533"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/cz\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=48532"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/cz\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=48532"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/cz\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=48532"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}