{"id":81194,"date":"2026-05-10T11:27:09","date_gmt":"2026-05-10T11:27:09","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/cz\/81194\/"},"modified":"2026-05-10T11:27:09","modified_gmt":"2026-05-10T11:27:09","slug":"svatek-matek-kytky-jsou-nam-k-nicemu-chceme-neco-uplne-jineho","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/cz\/81194\/","title":{"rendered":"Sv\u00e1tek matek: Kytky jsou n\u00e1m k\u00a0ni\u010demu, chceme n\u011bco \u00fapln\u011b jin\u00e9ho"},"content":{"rendered":"

Stalo se zvykem, \u017ee politici na soci\u00e1ln\u00edch s\u00edt\u00edch p\u0159ej\u00ed v\u00a0souvislosti se Sv\u00e1tkem matek, kter\u00fd p\u0159ipad\u00e1 na tuto ned\u011bli, klidn\u00fd den \u017een\u00e1m a\u00a0radost z\u00a0d\u011bt\u00ed, oce\u0148uj\u00ed jejich nasazen\u00ed, trp\u011blivost a\u00a0to, jak svoji mate\u0159skou roli zvl\u00e1daj\u00ed. Sem tam kytka, jako vrchol ocen\u011bn\u00ed pouk\u00e1zka do wellnessu.<\/p>\n

Tahle r\u00e9torika je na prvn\u00ed pohled roztomil\u00e1, ale v\u00a0d\u016fsledku vlastn\u011b odv\u00e1d\u00ed pozornost od toho z\u00e1sadn\u00edho: To, co matky pot\u0159ebuj\u00ed, nen\u00ed uzn\u00e1n\u00ed jednou za rok, ale syst\u00e9mov\u00e9 zm\u011bny souvisej\u00edc\u00ed s\u00a0funk\u010dn\u00edmi jeslemi a\u00a0\u0161kolkami, narovn\u00e1n\u00ed plat\u016f a\u00a0zejm\u00e9na ka\u017edodenn\u00ed vyv\u00e1z\u00e1n\u00ed se z\u00a0mate\u0159sk\u00e9 ment\u00e1ln\u00ed z\u00e1t\u011b\u017ee.<\/p>\n

Francouzsk\u00e1 kresl\u00ed\u0159ka, kter\u00e1 si \u0159\u00edk\u00e1 Emma, vytvo\u0159ila komiks, kter\u00fd se jmenuje \u201eM\u011bla jsi mi to \u0159\u00edct\u201c<\/a>. Popisuje se v\u00a0n\u011bm v\u011b\u010dn\u00fd koloto\u010d mate\u0159sk\u00fdch \u010dinnost\u00ed, \u00fakol\u016f a\u00a0ka\u017edodenn\u00ed ub\u00edjej\u00edc\u00ed rutiny. Otec d\u011bt\u00ed se v\u00a0n\u011bm obrac\u00ed na matku s\u00a0lehkou v\u00fd\u010ditkou. Aby mohl vykon\u00e1vat dom\u00e1c\u00ed pr\u00e1ce a\u00a0p\u00e9\u010di o\u00a0d\u011bti, mus\u00ed mu jejich matka p\u0159ece jasn\u011b \u0159\u00edct, co m\u00e1 ud\u011blat\u00a0– r\u00e1d j\u00ed pom\u016f\u017ee, ale mus\u00ed mu to \u0159\u00edct!<\/p>\n

Emma v\u00a0odpov\u011bdi na to ukazuje v\u00a0jednoduch\u00fdch kresb\u00e1ch a\u00a0bublin\u00e1ch, jak paprskovit\u00e1 je pr\u00e1ce matek a\u00a0jak se \u0159et\u011bz\u00ed, a\u00a0\u017ee pokud n\u011bkdo nevezme dom\u00e1c\u00ed pr\u00e1ce za sv\u00e9 komplexn\u011b tak, jak na sebe navazuj\u00ed, nijak jim to \u201enepom\u016f\u017ee\u201c. \u201eKdy\u017e mu\u017e od partnerky o\u010dek\u00e1v\u00e1, \u017ee mu bude \u0159\u00edkat, co m\u00e1 d\u011blat, bude v\u00a0jeho o\u010d\u00edch mana\u017eerkou a\u00a0on pod\u0159\u00edzen\u00fdm,\u201c vysv\u011btluje Emma.<\/p>\n

Pl\u00e1nov\u00e1n\u00ed a\u00a0\u0159\u00edzen\u00ed dom\u00e1cnosti je samo o\u00a0sob\u011b projektov\u00fdm veden\u00edm na pln\u00fd \u00favazek a\u00a0\u017e\u00e1dn\u00fd projektov\u00fd vedouc\u00ed pak u\u017e nem\u00e1 prostor, \u010das a\u00a0energii pod\u00edlet se i\u00a0na vykon\u00e1v\u00e1n\u00ed jednotliv\u00fdch \u00fakol\u016f. Jde nav\u00edc o\u00a0velkou psychickou z\u00e1t\u011b\u017e, proto\u017ee si nem\u016f\u017eete dovolit na nic zapomenout.<\/p>\n

Souvisej\u00edc\u00ed<\/a><\/p>\n

\u017deny v\u00a0dom\u00e1cnosti ale pln\u00ed jak roli mana\u017eerky, tak obvykle \u0159adu \u00fakol\u016f i\u00a0samy vykon\u00e1vaj\u00ed, co\u017e je mnohem v\u00edc ne\u017e pr\u00e1ce pro jednoho \u010dlov\u011bka. P\u0159edstavte si to tak, \u017ee by gener\u00e1ln\u00ed \u0159editel firmy napl\u00e1noval jej\u00ed sm\u011b\u0159ov\u00e1n\u00ed, rozparceloval ho na jednotliv\u00e9 procesn\u00ed \u00fakony a\u00a0ty by si pak tak\u00e9 s\u00e1m splnil.<\/p>\n

S narozen\u00edm d\u011bt\u00ed se tahle z\u00e1t\u011b\u017e, kter\u00e1 krom\u011b jejich vlastn\u00ed pr\u00e1ce v\u00a0zam\u011bstn\u00e1n\u00ed na \u017een\u00e1ch le\u017e\u00ed, zmnohon\u00e1sobuje, proto\u017ee to, co mus\u00edme m\u00edt na pam\u011bti kolem d\u011bt\u00ed, je obrovsk\u00fd, nikdy nekon\u010d\u00edc\u00ed koloto\u010d obsahuj\u00edc\u00ed p\u00e9\u010di o\u00a0j\u00eddlo, jejich oble\u010den\u00ed, zdrav\u00ed, \u0161kolu, p\u00e9\u010di o\u00a0vztahy, jako je t\u0159eba veden\u00ed di\u00e1\u0159e s\u00a0narozeninami jednotliv\u00fdch \u010dlen\u016f \u0161ir\u0161\u00ed rodiny nebo kamar\u00e1d\u016f d\u011bt\u00ed.<\/p>\n

V d\u016fsledku tedy nejde nap\u0159\u00edklad o\u00a0to, \u017ee otec odveze d\u00edt\u011b ze \u0161koly na krou\u017eek. Ale o\u00a0to, \u017ee n\u011bkdo, obvykle matka, mus\u00ed v\u011bd\u011bt, kter\u00e9 krou\u017eky se pro d\u00edt\u011b nab\u00edzej\u00ed<\/a>, mus\u00ed je v\u010das zabookovat, dr\u017eet v\u00a0hlav\u011b to, zda jsou zaplacen\u00e9, m\u00edt pod kontrolou whatsappov\u00e9 skupiny, v\u00a0nich\u017e se domlouvaj\u00ed podrobnosti, vybavit d\u00edt\u011b pom\u016fckami, v\u011bd\u011bt, odkud, kam a\u00a0kdy je t\u0159eba ho zav\u00e9zt a\u00a0jak to skloubit s\u00a0ostatn\u00edmi d\u011btmi v\u00a0rodin\u011b.<\/p>\n

Je to jako rozd\u00edl mezi legislativou a\u00a0exekutivou\u00a0\u2013 a\u00a0ten, kdo ob\u010das pom\u016f\u017ee s\u00a0exekutivou, nese men\u0161\u00ed ment\u00e1ln\u00ed z\u00e1t\u011b\u017e ne\u017e ten, kdo d\u00e1v\u00e1 dohromady legislativu.<\/p>\n

K t\u00e9matu<\/a><\/p>\n

Ta se zdaleka net\u00fdk\u00e1 jen krou\u017ek\u016f, ale v\u0161ech zd\u00e1nliv\u011b jednoduch\u00fdch \u00fakon\u016f kolem d\u011bt\u00ed, po\u010d\u00ednaje objedn\u00e1n\u00edm k\u00a0zuba\u0159i a\u00a0kon\u010de monitorov\u00e1n\u00edm toho, jestli m\u00e1 d\u00edt\u011b nov\u00e9 boty na sezonu nebo nepot\u0159ebuje zaplatit ob\u011bdy ve \u0161kole a\u00a0dopomoci v\u00a0matematice, p\u0159\u00edpadn\u011b podpo\u0159it v\u00a0konfliktu se spolu\u017ea\u010dkou.<\/p>\n

Pokud chceme skute\u010dn\u011b oslavit Sv\u00e1tek matek, mus\u00edme si b\u00fdt ment\u00e1ln\u00ed z\u00e1t\u011b\u017ee spojen\u00e9 s\u00a0mate\u0159stv\u00edm a\u00a0dom\u00e1c\u00edmi povinnostmi v\u011bdomi. A\u00a0n\u00e1sledn\u011b je v\u00a0rodin\u011b rozd\u011blit mezi dosp\u011bl\u00e9 \u010dleny spravedliv\u011bji. <\/p>\n

Zp\u016fsob\u016f je ur\u010dit\u011b v\u00edc, ale pro za\u010d\u00e1tek posta\u010d\u00ed verbalizace cel\u00e9 v\u011bci, prost\u011b o\u00a0tom mluvit. Pokud byste hledali inspiraci jinde, rodi\u010de si mohou zdarma st\u00e1hnout t\u0159eba \u201eaudit\u201c na str\u00e1nk\u00e1ch iniciativy F\u00e9rov\u00e1 dom\u00e1cnost<\/a> a\u00a0poctiv\u011b si proj\u00edt, kdo d\u011bl\u00e1 co. <\/p>\n

Nen\u00ed to p\u0159\u00edjemn\u00e9. Ale je to mnohem f\u00e9rov\u011bj\u0161\u00ed gesto ne\u017e kytka a\u00a0p\u00e1r v\u011bt na s\u00edt\u00edch, kter\u00e9 mu\u017ee nic nestoj\u00ed\u00a0\u2013 a\u00a0\u017een\u00e1m neulev\u00ed.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"Stalo se zvykem, \u017ee politici na soci\u00e1ln\u00edch s\u00edt\u00edch p\u0159ej\u00ed v\u00a0souvislosti se Sv\u00e1tkem matek, kter\u00fd p\u0159ipad\u00e1 na tuto ned\u011bli,…\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":81195,"comment_status":"","ping_status":"","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[7],"tags":[43,42,41,40,25596,14788,8074,21981,25770,15648,25769,3310,25771],"class_list":{"0":"post-81194","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-cesko","8":"tag-ceska-republika","9":"tag-cesko","10":"tag-czech-republic","11":"tag-czechia","12":"tag-den-matek","13":"tag-domaci-pece","14":"tag-matka","15":"tag-matky","16":"tag-mentalni-zatez","17":"tag-muzi-vs-zeny","18":"tag-neplacena-prace","19":"tag-pece-o-dite","20":"tag-rovnopravnost"},"share_on_mastodon":{"url":"https:\/\/pubeurope.com\/@cz\/116550044681911837","error":""},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/cz\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/81194","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/cz\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/cz\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/cz\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/cz\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=81194"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/cz\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/81194\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/cz\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/81195"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/cz\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=81194"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/cz\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=81194"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/cz\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=81194"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}