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Foto: Archiv nakladatelstv\u00ed<\/p>\nCo z\u016fstane, kdy\u017e se \u017eivot zti\u0161\u00ed a\u00a0v\u0161echno nepodstatn\u00e9 odpluje? Zn\u00e1m\u00e1 report\u00e9rka a\u00a0dokumentaristka Lea Surovcov\u00e1 se rozhodla naslouchat lidem, kte\u0159\u00ed se ocitli v\u00a0n\u00e1ro\u010dn\u00e9 a\u00a0pro n\u011bkter\u00e9 z\u00e1v\u011bre\u010dn\u00e9 etap\u011b \u017eivota. V\u00a0jejich vypr\u00e1v\u011bn\u00ed se zrcadl\u00ed radost, l\u00e1ska, l\u00edtost, hrdost\u2026 Nen\u00ed to v\u017edy vesel\u00e9 pov\u00edd\u00e1n\u00ed, ale mnoh\u00e9 v\u011bci si p\u0159itom uv\u011bdom\u00edte. P\u0159edev\u0161\u00edm to, o\u00a0\u010dem je \u017eivot a\u00a0pro\u010d na n\u011bm za\u010dnou mnoz\u00ed lp\u011bt a\u017e ve chv\u00edli, kdy jej ztr\u00e1cej\u00ed. Jak n\u00e1ro\u010dn\u00e9 bylo pro Leu Surovcovou p\u0159iv\u00e9st knihu Jenom chci bejt na sv\u011bt?<\/p>\n
V\u00a0p\u0159edmluv\u011b p\u00ed\u0161ete, \u017ee je va\u0161e kniha pro ka\u017ed\u00e9ho. Nen\u00ed to ale zrovna odpo\u010dinkov\u00e9 \u010dten\u00ed, pro\u010d by si ji lid\u00e9 m\u011bli p\u0159e\u010d\u00edst?<\/p>\n
Tuhle ot\u00e1zku jsem si kladla od sam\u00e9ho za\u010d\u00e1tku. Pro\u010d\u00a0v\u00a0dob\u011b smutk\u016f a\u00a0r\u016fzn\u00fdch frustrac\u00ed je\u0161t\u011b \u010d\u00edst o\u00a0utrpen\u00ed druh\u00fdch. Z\u00e1rove\u0148 jsem ale v\u011bd\u011bla, \u017ee tohle t\u00e9ma m\u00e1 smysl i\u00a0p\u0159esah. Tak jsem se do n\u011bj bez dal\u0161\u00edho p\u0159em\u00fd\u0161len\u00ed intuitivn\u011b pono\u0159ila.<\/p>\n
A\u00a0d\u00edky \u00fa\u017easn\u00fdm hrdin\u016fm knihy jsem z\u00e1hy na\u0161la odpov\u011b\u010f. Mn\u011b osobn\u011b dali obrovsk\u00fd dar si mnoho v\u011bc\u00ed srovnat v\u00a0hlav\u011b, dokud jsem zdrav\u00e1. Od nemocn\u00fdch nebo vyl\u00e9\u010den\u00fdch \u010dten\u00e1\u0159\u016f m\u00e1m zase zp\u011btnou vazbu, \u017ee se v\u00a0knize na\u0161li. Mnoh\u00e9 v\u011bci jsou nep\u0159enosn\u00e9 a\u00a0d\u00edky \u010dten\u00ed pochopili, \u017ee je norm\u00e1ln\u00ed, jak se v\u00a0danou chv\u00edli c\u00edtili.<\/p>\n
Foto: Archiv nakladatelstv\u00ed<\/p>\n
T\u00e9ma smrti p\u0159est\u00e1v\u00e1 b\u00fdt tabu. \u201eAle o\u00a0\u00faskal\u00edch, praktick\u00fdch dopadech i\u00a0kvalit\u011b v\u00a0z\u00e1v\u011bru \u017eivota by se m\u011blo mluvit rozhodn\u011b v\u00edc,\u201c mysl\u00ed si autorka knihy Lea Surovcov\u00e1 Foto: Archiv nakladatelstv\u00ed<\/p>\n
Jak moc n\u00e1ro\u010dn\u00e9 bylo ta \u010dasto velmi smutn\u00e1 pov\u00edd\u00e1n\u00ed zvl\u00e1dnout psychicky?<\/p>\n
V\u0161echny moje cesty po republice za jednotliv\u00fdmi p\u0159\u00edb\u011bhy byly velmi nitern\u00e9, intenzivn\u00ed a\u00a0emo\u010dn\u011b n\u00e1ro\u010dn\u00e9. N\u011bkdy jsem ty lidi vid\u011bla poprv\u00e9 v\u00a0\u017eivot\u011b a\u00a0otev\u00edrali jsme t\u00e9mata, kter\u00e1 si netroufnete \u0159e\u0161it ani s\u00a0nejbli\u017e\u0161\u00edmi. Byla to zvl\u00e1\u0161tn\u00ed alchymie. Ur\u010dit\u011b mi v\u00a0tom vnit\u0159n\u00edm nastaven\u00ed a\u00a0komunikaci pomohla dlouholet\u00e1 novin\u00e1\u0159sk\u00e1 praxe, kdy se podobn\u00fdm t\u00e9mat\u016fm v\u011bnuju v\u00a0\u010cT pravideln\u011b. Bez t\u00e9to pr\u016fpravy bych to nezvl\u00e1dla.<\/p>\n
P\u0159\u00edmo na m\u00edst\u011b to ale bylo navzdory t\u00e9matu v\u017edy velmi p\u0159\u00edjemn\u00e9 a\u00a0v\u016fbec se mi od t\u011bch lid\u00ed necht\u011blo odch\u00e1zet. Vn\u00edmala jsem, \u017ee se vz\u00e1jemn\u011b obohacujeme, a\u010d to m\u016f\u017ee zn\u00edt jako kli\u0161\u00e9. Cesta dom\u016f byla hor\u0161\u00ed, v\u00a0hlav\u011b mi v\u00ed\u0159ily my\u0161lenky i\u00a0smutek, \u017ee toho \u010dlov\u011bka mo\u017en\u00e1 vid\u00edm naposledy.<\/p>\n
Bohu\u017eel ano. Kdy\u017e mi ve t\u0159ech p\u0159\u00edpadech p\u0159i\u0161la tahle smutn\u00e1 zpr\u00e1va, tak jsem to v\u017edy obre\u010dela. Slzy tekly i\u00a0p\u0159i psan\u00ed. Ale po\u0159\u00e1d p\u0159evl\u00e1d\u00e1 ta z\u00e1kladn\u00ed my\u0161lenka, \u017ee n\u00e1m to v\u0161em d\u00e1valo obrovsk\u00fd smysl, a\u00a0nav\u00edc jsem poznala \u00fa\u017easn\u00e9 lidi. A\u00a0za\u010dala jsem sama chodit na terapii, abych mohla b\u00fdt oporou druh\u00fdm i\u00a0sama sob\u011b.<\/p>\n
N\u011bkdy sta\u010d\u00ed jen ml\u010det, b\u00fdt oporou a\u00a0bez velk\u00fdch vypt\u00e1v\u00e1n\u00ed \u0159\u00edct nemocn\u00e9mu: Jsi prost\u011b frajer, jak to zvl\u00e1d\u00e1\u0161\u2026<\/p>\n
P\u0159ekvapilo v\u00e1s n\u011bco, s\u00a0\u010d\u00edm jste nepo\u010d\u00edtala?<\/p>\n
Nepo\u010d\u00edtala jsem s\u00a0t\u00edm, \u017ee p\u0159ed sebou uvid\u00edm na prvn\u00ed pohled zdrav\u00e9 lidi, kte\u0159\u00ed se sm\u011bj\u00ed, maj\u00ed el\u00e1n, chu\u0165 do \u017eivota, pracuj\u00ed, studuj\u00ed\u2026 A\u00a0to v\u0161echno p\u0159i terapi\u00edch, kdy jim \u010dasto nebylo dob\u0159e. V\u016fbec jsem nepoznala, \u017ee je v\u00a0tu chv\u00edli n\u011bkdo z\u00a0nich t\u0159eba na opi\u00e1tech, a\u017e tak siln\u00e9 osobnosti to byly. Nebylo to sezen\u00ed u\u00a0l\u016f\u017eka a\u00a0vzdych\u00e1n\u00ed\u00a0\u2013 p\u0159ed sebou jsem vid\u011bla \u017eivot.<\/p>\n
Je t\u011b\u017ek\u00e9 si v\u00a0takov\u00e9 chv\u00edli udr\u017eet odstup?<\/p>\n
J\u00e1 o\u00a0n\u011bj neusilovala. Bylo to o\u00a0nich. Nem\u011bnila jsem jejich v\u00fdpov\u011bdi, brala jsem, co mi \u0159ekli. \u017diju st\u00e1le ka\u017ed\u00fdm p\u0159\u00edb\u011bhem, jsem s\u00a0nimi v\u00a0kontaktu, zaj\u00edm\u00e1m se o\u00a0n\u011b a\u00a0sleduju je. A\u00a0neskon\u010dilo to ani \u00famrt\u00edm, st\u00e1le jsem v\u00a0kontaktu s\u00a0n\u011bkter\u00fdmi rodinami a\u00a0t\u011b\u0161\u00edm se na n\u00e1v\u0161t\u011bvu.<\/p>\n
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Foto: Archiv Lea Surovcov\u00e1<\/p>\n
Lea Surovcov\u00e1 je zku\u0161en\u00e1 dokumentaristka a\u00a0report\u00e9rka \u010cesk\u00e9 televizeFoto: Archiv Lea Surovcov\u00e1<\/p>\n
Tak\u017ee v\u00e1m kniha v\u00edc dala, ne\u017e vzala?<\/p>\n
Jednozna\u010dn\u011b. Dop\u0159\u00e1la mi p\u0159ehodnotit v\u011bci a\u00a0nadechnout se. Z\u00e1rove\u0148 ale nejsem tak dobr\u00e1, \u017ee bych si \u0159ekla \u201etak te\u010f u\u017e m\u011b \u017e\u00e1dn\u00e1 mali\u010dkost nerozh\u00e1z\u00ed\u201c. Po\u0159\u00e1d se peru s\u00a0malichernostmi, ale u\u017e jsem na lep\u0161\u00ed cest\u011b v\u00e1\u017eit si v\u00edc sama sebe a\u00a0svobody, kterou n\u00e1m zdrav\u00ed dop\u0159\u00e1v\u00e1. Dala mi nov\u00e1 p\u0159\u00e1telstv\u00ed a\u00a0je\u0161t\u011b v\u011bt\u0161\u00ed chu\u0165 \u017e\u00edt!<\/p>\n
Lid\u00e9 \u010dasto nev\u011bd\u00ed, jak s\u00a0v\u00e1\u017en\u011b nemocn\u00fdmi lidmi mluvit. Najdou v\u00a0knize odpov\u011bdi?<\/p>\n
Douf\u00e1m, \u017ee ano. Zjistila jsem t\u0159eba, \u017ee v\u011bt\u0161ina z\u00a0nich byla a\u017e alergick\u00e1 na slovo \u201ebojuj\u201c. \u010clov\u011bk t\u00e1pe a\u00a0mysl\u00ed podobn\u00e1 podp\u016frn\u00e1 slova dob\u0159e, ale nemocn\u00e9ho \u010dlov\u011bka bol\u00ed. N\u011bkdy sta\u010d\u00ed jen ml\u010det, b\u00fdt oporou a\u00a0bez velk\u00fdch vypt\u00e1v\u00e1n\u00ed \u0159\u00edct nemocn\u00e9mu \u201ejsi prost\u011b frajer, jak to zvl\u00e1d\u00e1\u0161\u201c.<\/p>\n
Z\u00e1rove\u0148 nar\u00e1\u017e\u00edme na n\u011bkdy \u0161patnou komunikaci z\u00a0\u0159ad l\u00e9ka\u0159\u016f p\u0159i sd\u011blov\u00e1n\u00ed fat\u00e1ln\u00ed diagn\u00f3zy. Taky se uk\u00e1zalo, \u017ee mnoz\u00ed necht\u011bj\u00ed sly\u0161et milosrdn\u00e9 l\u017ei a\u00a0jsou r\u00e1di, kdy\u017e s\u00a0nimi pak u\u017e paliativn\u00ed t\u00fdmy mluv\u00ed na rovinu. Ka\u017ed\u00fd ale pot\u0159ebuje n\u011bco jin\u00e9ho. N\u011bkdo diagn\u00f3zu taj\u00ed, n\u011bkdo d\u011bl\u00e1 osv\u011btu na soci\u00e1ln\u00edch s\u00edt\u00edch a\u00a0mluv\u00ed o\u00a0sv\u00e9 nemoci otev\u0159en\u011b.<\/p>\n
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Foto: Profimedia.cz<\/p>\n
K\u0159est knihy Jenom chci bejt p\u0159il\u00e1kal \u0159adu zn\u00e1m\u00fdch osobnost\u00ed zleva: Felix Slov\u00e1\u010dek mlad\u0161\u00ed, herec Jan Sklen\u00e1\u0159 a\u00a0Lea Surovcov\u00e1 se svou sestrou Luci\u00ed Surovec Charv\u00e1tovou, kter\u00e1 kn\u00ed\u017eku ilustrovalaFoto: Profimedia.cz<\/p>\n
V\u00a0\u010dem je z\u00a0va\u0161eho pohledu up\u0159\u00edmn\u00e1 zpov\u011b\u010f tak cenn\u00e1?<\/p>\n
Proto\u017ee v\u00e1m m\u016f\u017ee uk\u00e1zat lep\u0161\u00ed sm\u011br a\u00a0pochopen\u00ed smyslu \u017eivota i\u00a0motivac\u00ed. Na\u0161i hrdinov\u00e9 jdou v\u00a0up\u0159\u00edmnosti na d\u0159e\u0148. V\u011bt\u0161ina z\u00a0nich si sebe d\u0159\u00edv nev\u00e1\u017eila, po\u0159\u00e1d cht\u011bli b\u00fdt pro n\u011bkoho. Te\u010f jenom cht\u011bj\u00ed b\u00fdt. U\u017e\u00edvaj\u00ed si ka\u017ed\u00e9ho dne, jsou p\u0159\u00edtomn\u00ed. Necht\u011bj\u00ed u\u017e b\u00fdt v\u0161ude, vyh\u00fdbaj\u00ed se toxick\u00fdm vztah\u016fm, d\u011blaj\u00ed si radost. To n\u00e1m v\u00a0b\u011b\u017en\u00e9m b\u011bhu chyb\u00ed\u00a0\u2013 zastavit se a\u00a0n\u011bkter\u00e9 v\u011bci p\u0159ehodnotit.<\/p>\n
A co je z\u00a0va\u0161\u00ed zku\u0161enosti hlavn\u00ed chyba v\u00a0situaci, kdy se dozv\u00edm ne\u00faprosnou diagn\u00f3zu?<\/p>\n
Poh\u0159b\u00edt se p\u0159edem. Nad\u011bje tady jsou. Nikdy jsem v\u00a0k\u016f\u017ei t\u011bch, co to za\u017eili, nebyla, ale na tomhle se v\u0161ichni v\u00a0knize Jenom chci bejt shodli.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"Co z\u016fstane, kdy\u017e se \u017eivot zti\u0161\u00ed a\u00a0v\u0161echno nepodstatn\u00e9 odpluje? Zn\u00e1m\u00e1 report\u00e9rka a\u00a0dokumentaristka Lea Surovcov\u00e1 se rozhodla naslouchat lidem,…\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":88144,"comment_status":"","ping_status":"","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":"","_share_on_mastodon":"0"},"categories":[15],"tags":[12067,386,27260,2813,19227,665,1819,27261,27262,94,93,21030,27263],"class_list":["post-88143","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","category-sport","tag-diagnoza","tag-knihy","tag-knizni-tipy","tag-lecba","tag-nadeje","tag-nemoc","tag-rozhovory","tag-sebelaska","tag-sebeprijeti","tag-sport","tag-sports","tag-umirani","tag-vdecnost"],"share_on_mastodon":{"url":"https:\/\/pubeurope.com\/@cz\/116588151497720655","error":""},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/cz\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/88143","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/cz\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/cz\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/cz\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/cz\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=88143"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/cz\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/88143\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/cz\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/88144"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/cz\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=88143"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/cz\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=88143"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/cz\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=88143"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}