{"id":93936,"date":"2026-05-22T12:08:12","date_gmt":"2026-05-22T12:08:12","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/cz\/93936\/"},"modified":"2026-05-22T12:08:12","modified_gmt":"2026-05-22T12:08:12","slug":"deti-miluji-ale-sve-role-lituji-vyzkum-odkryva-tabuizovane-pocity-ceskych-matek","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/cz\/93936\/","title":{"rendered":"D\u011bti miluj\u00ed, ale sv\u00e9 role lituj\u00ed. V\u00fdzkum odkr\u00fdv\u00e1 tabuizovan\u00e9 pocity \u010desk\u00fdch matek"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u201eN\u011bkdy si \u0159\u00edk\u00e1m, kde je m\u016fj \u017eivot? Jsem jen m\u00e1ma, m\u00e1ma, m\u00e1ma a\u00a0ukl\u00edze\u010dka doma, ale kde jsou moje kon\u00ed\u010dky, m\u016fj \u017eivot? Je to pry\u010d. Je mi 35\u00a0let, vr\u00e1t\u00ed se to n\u011bkdy?\u201c sv\u011b\u0159ila se v\u00a0r\u00e1mci studie jedna z\u00a0maminek.<\/p>\n

V\u00fdzkumnice Lenka \u0160t\u011bp\u00e1nkov\u00e1 spole\u010dn\u011b s\u00a0kolegyn\u00ed Lenkou Lacinovou skrze otev\u0159enou v\u00fdzvu nalezla deset \u010desk\u00fdch matek, kter\u00e9 byly ochotn\u00e9 se v\u00a0osobn\u00edch rozhovorech sv\u011b\u0159it, \u017ee jim mate\u0159stv\u00ed mnoh\u00e9 vzalo a\u00a0nesou ho t\u011b\u017ece. Inspiraci pro svou studii \u010derpala v\u00a0zahrani\u010d\u00ed, kde si citliv\u00e9 t\u00e9ma pomalu nach\u00e1z\u00ed cestu do v\u011bdeck\u00fdch publikac\u00ed.<\/p>\n

\u201eMatky velmi jasn\u011b odd\u011blovaly l\u00edtost nad mate\u0159stv\u00edm od vztahu k\u00a0d\u00edt\u011bti. Opakovan\u011b zd\u016fraz\u0148ovaly, \u017ee d\u00edt\u011b miluj\u00ed, chr\u00e1n\u00ed a\u00a0sna\u017e\u00ed se b\u00fdt dobr\u00fdmi rodi\u010di. Sou\u010dasn\u011b ale popisovaly, \u017ee mate\u0159stv\u00ed pro n\u011b znamenalo mnohem v\u011bt\u0161\u00ed z\u00e1sah do \u017eivota, ne\u017e \u010dekaly: ztr\u00e1tu volnosti, \u00fanavu, stereotyp, nedostatek sp\u00e1nku, oslaben\u00ed vlastn\u00edch z\u00e1jm\u016f i\u00a0pocit, \u017ee jako \u010dlov\u011bk ustoupily do pozad\u00ed a\u00a0staly se hlavn\u011b pe\u010duj\u00edc\u00ed osobou,\u201c vysv\u011btlila pro Novinky \u0160t\u011bp\u00e1nkov\u00e1.<\/p>\n

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Zpov\u00eddan\u00fdm \u017een\u00e1m bylo zpravidla mezi 30\u00a0a\u00a040\u00a0lety a\u00a0doma m\u011bly jednoho nebo dva zdrav\u00e9 potomky ve v\u011bku od n\u011bkolika m\u011bs\u00edc\u016f po sedm let. Za sv\u00e9 negativn\u00ed pocity v\u016f\u010di mate\u0159stv\u00ed se \u010dasto styd\u00ed a\u00a0vn\u00edmaj\u00ed tak\u00e9 strach z\u00a0toho, \u017ee pokud by se sv\u011b\u0159ily, jejich okol\u00ed je odsoud\u00ed.<\/p>\n

\u201eJ\u00e1 se p\u0159ed sv\u00fdmi kamar\u00e1dkami a\u00a0rodinou jako by styd\u00edm. Jako bych se rouhala, kdy\u017e m\u00e1m kr\u00e1snou rodinu, kr\u00e1sn\u00e9 dcery a\u00a0bez probl\u00e9m\u016f jsem je po\u010dala, odnosila, porodila. Tak co si jako mysl\u00edm,\u201c vysv\u011btlila jin\u00e1 maminka, kter\u00e1 ve sv\u00e9m okol\u00ed m\u00e1 i\u00a0\u017eeny, kter\u00e9 maj\u00ed s\u00a0po\u010det\u00edm obt\u00ed\u017ee.<\/p>\n

\u010cesk\u00e1 spole\u010dnost mate\u0159stv\u00ed neuleh\u010duje<\/p>\n

N\u00e1tlak nejen z\u00a0bl\u00edzk\u00e9ho okol\u00ed, ale i\u00a0od zcela ciz\u00edch lid\u00ed je podle \u0160t\u011bp\u00e1nkov\u00e9 v\u00a0\u010desk\u00e9m prost\u0159ed\u00ed specifick\u00fd a\u00a0vn\u00edmaly ho v\u0161echny osloven\u00e9 \u017eeny. Souvis\u00ed mimo jin\u00e9 s\u00a0velmi dlouhou rodi\u010dovskou dovolenou, kter\u00e1 je v\u00a0\u010cesku a\u017e t\u0159\u00edlet\u00e1. T\u00edm se v\u00fdrazn\u011b li\u0161\u00ed od jin\u00fdch zem\u00ed, kde se t\u00e9matem rodi\u010dovsk\u00e9 l\u00edtosti v\u011bdci zab\u00fdvaj\u00ed.<\/p>\n

\u201eV \u010cesku panuje siln\u00e1 n\u00e1zorov\u00e1 vyhran\u011bnost na to, jak dlouho m\u00e1 b\u00fdt matka s\u00a0d\u00edt\u011btem doma. Pova\u017euje se to a\u017e za v\u011bc ve\u0159ejnou a\u00a0matky tak poslouchaj\u00ed n\u00e1zory na to, kdy by d\u00edt\u011b m\u011blo j\u00edt do \u0161kolky, i\u00a0od lid\u00ed, kter\u00fdch se to v\u016fbec net\u00fdk\u00e1,\u201c vysv\u011btlila v\u00fdzkumnice.<\/p>\n

Matk\u00e1m nev\u00e1haj\u00ed nevy\u017e\u00e1dan\u00e9 rady vykl\u00e1dat nejen \u010dlenov\u00e9 \u0161ir\u0161\u00ed rodiny, ale i\u00a0zcela ciz\u00ed lid\u00e9. N\u00e1zory se nav\u00edc li\u0161\u00ed. Kritiku si tak vyslechla jak matka, kter\u00e1 se cht\u011bla vr\u00e1tit do pr\u00e1ce a\u00a0d\u00edt\u011b do \u0161kolky odvedla ve v\u011bku okolo dvou let, tak i\u00a0matka, kter\u00e1 se rozhodla nechat si star\u0161\u00ed d\u011bv\u010d\u00e1tko doma s\u00a0mlad\u0161\u00edm sourozencem.<\/p>\n

\u201eBylo velmi zaj\u00edmav\u00e9 sledovat, \u017ee matka se vlastn\u011b nem\u016f\u017ee rozhodnout spr\u00e1vn\u011b. Souzen\u00e9 jsou za cokoliv, co se jen trochu odli\u0161uje od nastaven\u00e9 normy,\u201c komentovala \u0160t\u011bp\u00e1nkov\u00e1. Podobn\u011b matky za\u017e\u00edvaj\u00ed n\u00e1tlak nap\u0159\u00edklad na po\u010det\u00ed druh\u00e9ho d\u00edt\u011bte s\u00a0t\u00edm, \u017ee nemohou m\u00edt jedin\u00e1\u010dky.<\/p>\n

Kolik \u010desk\u00fdch matek l\u00edtost nebo podobn\u00e9 emoce poci\u0165uje, nen\u00ed zat\u00edm jasn\u00e9. V\u00fdzkum na t\u00e9ma rodi\u010dovsk\u00e9 l\u00edtosti chce ale \u0160t\u011bp\u00e1nkov\u00e1 d\u00e1le rozv\u00edjet. Aktu\u00e1ln\u011b hled\u00e1 zejm\u00e9na otce, kte\u0159\u00ed si tak\u00e9 proch\u00e1zej\u00ed nep\u0159\u00edjemn\u00fdmi pocity spojen\u00fdmi s\u00a0rodi\u010dovskou rol\u00ed. P\u0159\u00edpadn\u00e9 z\u00e1jemce o\u00a0zapojen\u00ed do studie proto pros\u00ed o\u00a0naps\u00e1n\u00ed zpr\u00e1vy na e-mailovou adresu lenka.stepankova@mail.muni.cz. <\/p>\n

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