{"id":4320,"date":"2026-02-08T04:10:08","date_gmt":"2026-02-08T04:10:08","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/dk\/4320\/"},"modified":"2026-02-08T04:10:08","modified_gmt":"2026-02-08T04:10:08","slug":"can-ordering-an-extra-entree-create-relationship-problems","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/dk\/4320\/","title":{"rendered":"Can Ordering an Extra Entree Create Relationship Problems?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>    <img width=\"2560\" height=\"1440\" src=\"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/dk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/Woman-goes-on-date-with-boyfriend.jpg\" class=\"attachment-post-thumbnail size-post-thumbnail wp-post-image\" alt=\"woman shares date experience (l) couple on a date (r)\" decoding=\"async\" fetchpriority=\"high\"  \/><\/p>\n<p data-characters=\"273\" data-injectable=\"true\" data-video=\"true\">There\u2019s no doubt that dating has always been an expensive activity. As prices increase and inflation is still high, it\u2019s turning into a luxury to take significant others or potential partners out on a date.\u00a0Now couples are resorting to splitting the bill or meal. <\/p>\n<p data-characters=\"310\" data-current-count=\"310\" data-injectable=\"false\">While money can be the death of a relationship, so can the way it\u2019s handled. When this woman wanted to add an extra entree, her boyfriend\u2019s reaction boiled her blood, igniting conflict in the comments section about relationship behaviors. TikTok creator Liz (@liz_bizness) recounts the incident in her car.<\/p>\n<p data-characters=\"235\" data-current-count=\"545\" data-injectable=\"true\">\u201cYesterday, I\u2019m at dinner with my soon-to-be ex and we usually get one entree. It just depends on the plate and how hungry we are,\u201d she says. \u201cSo, we pick the pasta, and then I say, \u2018I also want to order brussels sprouts.\u201d <\/p>\n<p data-characters=\"148\" data-current-count=\"148\" data-injectable=\"false\">In her mind, she didn\u2019t see a problem. \u201cIt\u2019s fifteen dollars. You know people go out and each get a thirty plus dollar entree,\u201d she states. <\/p>\n<p data-characters=\"205\" data-current-count=\"353\" data-injectable=\"false\">However, the content creator\u2019s boyfriend felt differently. \u201cHe goes, \u2018Well. I thought we would just get the one thing. I don\u2019t really wanna. I\u2019m not that hungry,\u2019\u201d she recalls him saying.<\/p>\n<p data-characters=\"194\" data-current-count=\"547\" data-injectable=\"true\">Needless to say, this ticked Liz off. \u201cWell, I [expletive] am. Am I breaking the bank for you?\u201d she says angrily. \u201cI don\u2019t think this is a money thing. You\u2019re just really annoying.\u201d <\/p>\n<p data-characters=\"220\" data-current-count=\"220\" data-injectable=\"false\">Once the server stopped at their table, he subtly saved the day. \u201cThen, the waiter comes and asks for our order. He looks at me after [ordering] the pasta and is like, \u2018Oh, and the brussels sprouts,\u2019\u201d she shares.<\/p>\n<p data-characters=\"76\" data-current-count=\"296\" data-injectable=\"false\">\u201cYes, that is literally what I said,\u201d the content creator concludes.<\/p>\n<p data-characters=\"242\" data-current-count=\"538\" data-injectable=\"true\">Ultimately, it isn\u2019t the Brussels sprouts that stirred her anger, but rather the hypocrisy. \u201cAll about what he wants. I\u2019ve seen this man spend $300 in one night on drinks. Also he loved the appetizer,\u201d Liz explains in the caption.<\/p>\n<p>    Viewers Were Divided    <\/p>\n<p data-characters=\"115\" data-current-count=\"115\" data-injectable=\"false\">The video garnered over 17,000 views. Despite the explanation, some didn\u2019t understand why it warranted a breakup.<\/p>\n<p data-characters=\"71\" data-current-count=\"186\" data-injectable=\"false\">\u201cBreaking up over brussel sprouts says a lot,\u201d one viewer remarked.<\/p>\n<p data-characters=\"98\" data-current-count=\"284\" data-injectable=\"false\">\u201cIf you are dating and he doesn\u2019t want to spend that much, you should pay,\u201d a second stated.<\/p>\n<p data-characters=\"112\" data-current-count=\"396\" data-injectable=\"false\">Meanwhile, fury was sparked among the majority for what they believed was thoughtless on her boyfriend\u2019s part.<\/p>\n<p data-characters=\"84\" data-current-count=\"480\" data-injectable=\"true\">\u201cIt\u2019s not a money thing, it\u2019s a respect thing,\u201d one commenter wrote.<\/p>\n<p data-characters=\"151\" data-current-count=\"151\" data-injectable=\"false\">\u201cNo he\u2019s inconsistent, incompetent, and frugal. It\u2019ll be hard and he\u2019ll try to minimize your needs as time go on,\u201d another explained.<\/p>\n<p data-characters=\"212\" data-current-count=\"363\" data-injectable=\"false\">\u201cIf a man won\u2019t happily feed you at a restaurant he took you to, he is not the man you want to spend your life (or time) with. And I say that as someone who happily gives to those I love,\u201d a third said.<\/p>\n<p>    Have People Become More Selfish In Relationships?    <\/p>\n<p data-characters=\"477\" data-current-count=\"840\" data-injectable=\"true\">Indeed, they have. Although the brain is naturally hard-wired to be giving and altruistic, selfish behaviors have increased over the span of decades. However, <a href=\"https:\/\/fortune.com\/2024\/03\/12\/age-of-selfishness-sick-single-miserable-brains-hardwired-self-interest-altruism-mental-health\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">Fortune<\/a> reported the pandemic drove it into full swing, especially in young people, resulting in being prone to stress, distrust, and neuroticism. Besides affecting their mental and physical health, selfish tendencies also impact relationships, with Utah State University listing the behaviors that can spell disaster:<\/p>\n<p>     Lack of empathy    Always prioritizing their needs    Avoiding responsibility    Lack of emotional av aiablitiyy\u00a0    Constantly taking but never giving    No compromise    Communication constantly revolving around them       <a target=\"_blank\" title=\"@liz_bizness\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/@liz_bizness?refer=embed\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">@liz_bizness<\/a> All about what he wants. I\u2019ve seen this man spend $300 in one night on drinks. Also he loved the appetizer <a title=\"forwomen\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/tag\/forwomen?refer=embed\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">#forwomen<\/a> <a title=\"dating\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/tag\/dating?refer=embed\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">#dating<\/a> <a title=\"relateable\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/tag\/relateable?refer=embed\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">#relateable<\/a> <a title=\"relationshipstorytime\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/tag\/relationshipstorytime?refer=embed\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">#relationshipstorytime<\/a> <a title=\"absurd\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/tag\/absurd?refer=embed\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">#absurd<\/a> <a target=\"_blank\" title=\"\u266c original sound - liz\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/music\/original-sound-7586762156742314807?refer=embed\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">\u266c original sound \u2013 liz<\/a>      <\/p>\n<p data-characters=\"70\" data-current-count=\"368.5\" data-injectable=\"false\">The Mary Sue reached out to Liz via TikTok comment and direct message.<\/p>\n<p>Have a tip we should know? <a href=\"http:\/\/www.themarysue.com\/cdn-cgi\/l\/email-protection#c6b2afb6b586b2aea3aba7b4bfb5b3a3e8a5a9ab\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">[email\u00a0protected]<\/a><\/p>\n<p>\t<img decoding=\"async\" class=\"wp-block-gamurs-author-bio__avatar img-vertical\" src=\"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/dk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/Melody-Heald-Marysue.png\"   alt=\"Image of Melody Heald\"\/><\/p>\n<p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<a href=\"https:\/\/www.themarysue.com\/author\/melodyheald\/ \" class=\"wp-block-gamurs-author-bio__name fg-minimal\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">Melody Heald <\/a><\/p>\n<p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\tMelody Heald is a culture writer. Her work can be found in Glitter Magazine, BUST Magazine, The Daily Dot, and more. You can email her at: <a href=\"https:\/\/www.themarysue.com\/cdn-cgi\/l\/email-protection\" class=\"__cf_email__\" data-cfemail=\"cda0a8a1a2a9b4e3a5a8aca1a9fcfe8daaa0aca4a1e3aea2a0\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">[email\u00a0protected]<\/a>\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/p>\n<p>  <script async src=\"\/\/www.tiktok.com\/embed.js\"><\/script><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"There\u2019s no doubt that dating has always been an expensive activity. As prices increase and inflation is still&hellip;\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":4321,"comment_status":"","ping_status":"","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":"","_share_on_mastodon":"0"},"categories":[104],"tags":[211,4213,210,4214,4215],"class_list":["post-4320","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","category-brussels","tag-belgium","tag-breakups","tag-brussels","tag-relationships","tag-tiktok"],"share_on_mastodon":{"url":"","error":""},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/dk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4320","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/dk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/dk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/dk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/dk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=4320"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/dk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4320\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/dk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/4321"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/dk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=4320"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/dk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=4320"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/dk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=4320"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}