Luisa tunnistab, et nooremana t\u00e4hendas naiselikkus talle eelk\u00f5ige v\u00e4limust.<\/p>\n
\u00abT\u00e4htsad olid pigem kilod puusadel kui vaimutarkus. Aastatega on fookus aga nihkunud hoopis enesearengule ja tervisele. T\u00e4na t\u00e4hendab naiselikkus minu jaoks iseseisvust, sisemist tugevust ja v\u00f5imet jagada armastust ka siis, kui on raske. See on oskus n\u00e4ha lahendusi seal, kus teised n\u00e4evad takistusi.\u00bb<\/p>\n
Ka enda t\u00fctardest loodab ta kasvamas n\u00e4ha naisi, kellel on suured s\u00fcdamed ja kes ei karda seda avada, kuid ei lase ka l\u00f5hkuda. \ufe0f<\/p>\n
\u00abSamas olen \u00f5ppinud ka midagi v\u00e4ga olulist: naiselikkus t\u00e4hendab ka iseenda v\u00e4\u00e4rtustamist. Laste ja pere hoidmise keskel kipub aeg iseendale tihti kaduma ning sageli m\u00f5istame selle t\u00e4htsust alles siis, kui keha alla annab.\u00bb<\/p>\n
\u00abKui ma septembris kokku kukkusin ja tundus, et keha tegi justkui restardi, sain aru, et minu keha ja vaim peavad olema hoitud. Sest ainult nii saan hoolitseda ka nende eest, kes mulle k\u00f5ige kallimad on.\u00bb<\/p>\n
\u00abLapsest peale olen arvanud, et naine peab k\u00f5igega ise hakkama saama. Minu ema oli just selline tugev ja tegus naine – eeskuju nii mulle kui ka mu t\u00fctrele. T\u00e4na m\u00f5istan aga, et naiselikkus on ka haavatavus. See on oskus abi vastu v\u00f5tta ja seda k\u00fcsida. Julgus jagada oma pisaraid l\u00e4hedastega v\u00f5i p\u00f6\u00f6rduda spetsialisti poole kui tunned, et oled ummikus.\u00bb<\/p>\n
\u00abNaiselik on ka see, kui tunnistad, et vaim on v\u00e4sinud ja vajad tuge – olgu selleks ravimid v\u00f5i koost\u00f6\u00f6 oma ala spetsialistiga.\u00bb<\/p>\n
\u00abJa vahel on naiselikkus ka lihtsalt v\u00e4ikesed m\u00e4rgid ajast: lisakilo puusadel, naerukorts silmanurgas v\u00f5i vikerkaared silmade all. Nagu mu t\u00fctar kunagi \u00fctles: \u00abEmme, sa oled nii ilus – sul on vikerkaared silmade all.\u00bb Kellele vikerkaar, kellele lihtsalt v\u00e4simusest sinised silmaalused.\u00bb<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"Luisa tunnistab, et nooremana t\u00e4hendas naiselikkus talle eelk\u00f5ige v\u00e4limust. \u00abT\u00e4htsad olid pigem kilod puusadel kui vaimutarkus. Aastatega on…\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":87256,"comment_status":"","ping_status":"","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":"","_share_on_mastodon":"0"},"categories":[16],"tags":[37,33,35,9783,15336,173,34,36,58691,58689,58690,140,58692,308,11636],"class_list":["post-128242","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","category-meelelahutus","tag-ee","tag-eesti","tag-eesti-keel","tag-ema","tag-eneseareng","tag-entertainment","tag-estonia","tag-estonian","tag-haavatavus","tag-iseenda-vaartustamine","tag-luisa","tag-meelelahutus","tag-naislikkus","tag-tervis","tag-tutar"],"share_on_mastodon":{"url":"https:\/\/pubeurope.com\/@ee\/116222110157140161","error":""},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/ee\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/128242","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/ee\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/ee\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/ee\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/ee\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=128242"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/ee\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/128242\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/ee\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/87256"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/ee\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=128242"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/ee\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=128242"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/ee\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=128242"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}