\u201eMuidugi ma soovisin emaks saada. Ja ometi, kui j\u00e4rele m\u00f5elda, ei olegi see t\u00e4nases maailmas enam nii lihtne ega ka iseenesestm\u00f5istetav lause. Emadus ei t\u00e4henda alati katkematut \u00f5nnetunnet ja n\u00f5uab seega tuge, turvatunnet ja teadlikke valikuid,\u201c \u00fctles Evelin Ilves.<\/p>\n
Ilves t\u00f5i esile suured erinevused laste kasvukeskkondades, viidates nii peremudelite kui ka piirkondlike v\u00f5imaluste l\u00f5hele. \u201eMe n\u00e4eme suuri k\u00e4\u00e4re \u2013 kui erinevad v\u00f5ivad olla \u00fche p\u00f5lvkonna algused. Kui suur v\u00f5ib olla l\u00f5he nende vahel, kellel on kaks vanemat, nende aeg ja v\u00f5imalused ning nende vahel, kes kasvavad \u00fcles \u00fche inimese j\u00f5ul,\u201c m\u00e4rkis ta.<\/p>\n
Ta p\u00f6\u00f6ras erilise t\u00e4helepanu \u00fcksikemadele, r\u00f5hutades, et nende panus ja vastutus ei ole v\u00e4iksem. \u201eKuigi te ei saa kandideerida Aasta Ema tiitlile, pole teie emadus v\u00e4iksem. Teie armastus ei ole poolik. Teie vastutus ei ole ajutine,\u201c \u00fctles Ilves, lisades, et sageli kannavad \u00fcksikemad korraga mitut rolli ja vastutust.<\/p>\n
Ilvese s\u00f5nul ei saa emadusest ega s\u00fcndimusest r\u00e4\u00e4kida ilma isaduse rolli k\u00e4sitlemata. Ta viitas, et Eestis kasvab iga viies laps \u00fche vanemaga peres, enamasti emaga, ning tuhanded isad ei osale oma laste kasvatamises ega vastutuse kandmises.<\/p>\n
\u201eSellest probleemist ei pea r\u00e4\u00e4kima s\u00fc\u00fcdistavalt, kuid tuleb r\u00e4\u00e4kida ausalt. Sealjuures ka sellest, et mehedki otsivad oma kohta ja vajavad eeskujusid ning t\u00e4hendust sellele, mida t\u00e4hendab olla isa,\u201c r\u00f5hutas Ilves.<\/p>\n
Samas toonitas ta, et ka keerulistes oludes ei tohi kaduda emaduse r\u00f5\u00f5m. \u201eEmadus ei ole kunagi ainult koorem. Selles on igavene elu ime,\u201c \u00fctles ta.<\/p>\n
Ilvese s\u00f5nul peaks laste kasvatamine olema riigi keskne v\u00e4\u00e4rtus. \u201eKui meie riik ei pea end ajutiseks projektiks, siis ei saa ka laste kasvatamine olla k\u00f5rvalteema. See peab olema Eesti riigi tuum,\u201c m\u00e4rkis ta.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"\u201eMuidugi ma soovisin emaks saada. Ja ometi, kui j\u00e4rele m\u00f5elda, ei olegi see t\u00e4nases maailmas enam nii lihtne…\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":171055,"comment_status":"","ping_status":"","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[80],"tags":[26,27,37,33,35,34,36,31,32,21,28,29,95,19,25,23,24,22,20,30,92,93,94],"class_list":{"0":"post-171054","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-maailm","8":"tag-breaking-news","9":"tag-breakingnews","10":"tag-ee","11":"tag-eesti","12":"tag-eesti-keel","13":"tag-estonia","14":"tag-estonian","15":"tag-featured-news","16":"tag-featurednews","17":"tag-headlines","18":"tag-latest-news","19":"tag-latestnews","20":"tag-maailm","21":"tag-news","22":"tag-populaarseimad-lood","23":"tag-top-stories","24":"tag-topstories","25":"tag-uldised-uudised","26":"tag-uudised","27":"tag-viimased-uudised","28":"tag-world","29":"tag-world-news","30":"tag-worldnews"},"share_on_mastodon":{"url":"https:\/\/pubeurope.com\/@ee\/116526530233729362","error":""},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/ee\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/171054","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/ee\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/ee\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/ee\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/ee\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=171054"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/ee\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/171054\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/ee\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/171055"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/ee\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=171054"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/ee\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=171054"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/ee\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=171054"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}