Kooli algusega kaasnev \u00e4revus on tavaline, kuid vanemad ei tohiks lapse muret lihtsalt k\u00f5rvale j\u00e4tta. Peaasi.ee ps\u00fchholoogi Minna Kruusi s\u00f5nul v\u00f5ib \u00e4revuse taga olla ka konkreetne probleem, n\u00e4iteks kiusamine.<\/p>\n
Aasta jooksul kogeb suurenenud \u00e4revust hinnanguliselt veerand kuni pool \u00f5pilastest. Kooli algusega seotud \u00e4revust pole Kruusi s\u00f5nul eraldi t\u00e4pselt m\u00f5\u00f5detud, kuid augusti l\u00f5pus suureneb lasteabi poole p\u00f6\u00f6rdumiste arv, sest lapsed hakkavad kooli p\u00e4rast muretsema. <\/p>\n
“Eriti nooremate laste puhul nad ei pruugi ise arugi saada, et see v\u00f5ib v\u00e4ljenduda: k\u00f5ht valutab rohkem, paha on olla, tuju langeb \u00e4ra, v\u00f5ib-olla tekivad magama j\u00e4\u00e4mise raskused,” t\u00f5i ta “R2 p\u00e4evas” m\u00f5ningaid m\u00e4rke v\u00e4lja. <\/p>\n
Kooli algusega kaasnev teatav ebamugavus on Kruusi s\u00f5nul loomulik. Vanem v\u00f5iks sellest lapsega r\u00e4\u00e4kida ja vajadusel tuua n\u00e4iteks ka enda kogemuse. Samas ei tohiks lapse muret taandada lihtsalt tavap\u00e4rasele kooli\u00e4revusele. Vanem peaks v\u00e4lja selgitama, mis t\u00e4psemalt last h\u00e4irib.<\/p>\n
“Paljudel lastel v\u00f5ib olla ikkagi mingi v\u00e4ga reaalne p\u00f5hjus. Midagi seal koolis on, mis tekitab rohkem ebamugavust, v\u00f5ib-olla hirmu,” m\u00e4rkis ta. N\u00e4iteks v\u00f5ib p\u00f5hjuseks olla kiusamine.<\/p>\n
Kui lapsel on kooli alguse ees suur mure, saab vanem aidata selle v\u00e4iksemateks sammudeks jagada. Koos v\u00f5ib l\u00e4bi m\u00f5elda une, s\u00f6\u00f6mise, kooli alguse rutiini ja muud igap\u00e4evased tegevused. Samuti v\u00f5iks pere enne kooliaasta algust pidada v\u00e4ikese koduse koosoleku, kus r\u00e4\u00e4gitakse l\u00e4bi, millist tuge keegi vajab.<\/p>\n
Kui laps \u00fctleb, et ta ei taha kooli minna, tuleb tema tunnet m\u00f5ista, kuid kooli v\u00e4ltimine ei ole Kruusi s\u00f5nul hea lahendus. “Siis see \u00e4revustunne ainult kasvab v\u00f5i ta nagu v\u00f5idab selle v\u00f5itluse,” \u00fctles ta ja r\u00f5hutas, et ka \u00e4revusega saab \u00f5ppida tegutsema. “\u00c4revustunne on meiega kaasas, aga meie julgus on ka meiega kaasas.”<\/p>\n
Kooli algus v\u00f5ib tekitada \u00e4revust ka lapsevanemas. Ps\u00fchholoogi s\u00f5nul peaks t\u00e4iskasvanu p\u00fc\u00fcdma enda \u00e4revust ise reguleerida ega kandma oma muret lapsele \u00fcle. Lapsele v\u00f5ib \u00f6elda, et ka vanem tunneb kooli algusega seoses \u00e4revust, kuid lapsevanem ei peaks hakkama lapsele oma muret kurtma.<\/p>\n
“Tema on ikkagi see t\u00e4iskasvanu, kes juba vastutab veel rohkem oma tunnete eest kui see laps,” r\u00f5hutas Kruus.<\/p>\n
Kui \u00e4revus ei taandu, saavad 12\u201326-aastased noored p\u00f6\u00f6rduda Peaasi.ee n\u00f5ustamisele, kus \u00f5pitakse \u00e4revusega toimetuleku oskusi ja vaadatakse \u00fcle baasrutiinid.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"Kooli algusega kaasnev \u00e4revus on tavaline, kuid vanemad ei tohiks lapse muret lihtsalt k\u00f5rvale j\u00e4tta. Peaasi.ee ps\u00fchholoogi Minna…\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":259991,"comment_status":"","ping_status":"","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":"","_share_on_mastodon":"0"},"categories":[12],"tags":[20423,26,27,37,33,35,34,36,31,32,21,405,101060,101061,28,29,101062,19,8539,25,23,24,22,20,30],"class_list":["post-259990","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","category-eesti","tag-arevus","tag-breaking-news","tag-breakingnews","tag-ee","tag-eesti","tag-eesti-keel","tag-estonia","tag-estonian","tag-featured-news","tag-featurednews","tag-headlines","tag-kool","tag-kooliarevus","tag-koolihirm","tag-latest-news","tag-latestnews","tag-minna-kruus","tag-news","tag-peaasi-ee","tag-populaarseimad-lood","tag-top-stories","tag-topstories","tag-uldised-uudised","tag-uudised","tag-viimased-uudised"],"share_on_mastodon":{"url":"https:\/\/pubeurope.com\/@ee\/117152872338918012","error":""},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/ee\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/259990","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/ee\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/ee\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/ee\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/ee\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=259990"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/ee\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/259990\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/ee\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/259991"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/ee\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=259990"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/ee\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=259990"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/ee\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=259990"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}