V\u00e4hemalt m\u00f5ttes tasub juba plaane teha. Igal juhul on helge ettekujutamine targem kui muretsemine k\u00f5ikv\u00f5imalike negatiivsete stsenaariumide ja olude p\u00e4rast, mida t\u00e4nap\u00e4ev meile ohtralt jagab. Alates k\u00f5ikv\u00f5imalikest pandeemiatest, s\u00f5jahirmust kuni selleni v\u00e4lja, et eesti rahvas sootuks v\u00e4lja sureb, sest s\u00fcndimus on j\u00e4rjest v\u00e4iksem.<\/p>\n
Mina t\u00f5esti loodan, et lapsi ikka s\u00fcnnib, ka selles mugavuse ja individuaalse \u00f5nneotsimise ajastul. Ja et lapsi saadakse mitte juhuslikult, vaid teadlikult, perevastutust v\u00f5ttes, ning et mu pojadki teevad mind \u00fchel p\u00e4eval vanaemaks.<\/p>\n
Ma ei ihka olla nooruslik ja sportlik t\u00e4nap\u00e4evane vanaema, tahaksin olla pigem m\u00f5nus pehme maavanaema. Nagu vanasti. Teen selleks omamoodi ettevalmistusi ka. Igatsen taas maal elada, ehk isegi talumajas. Ja et aias oleksid lilled, viljapuud, s\u00f5strap\u00f5\u00f5sad ja peenramaa, kus k\u00f6\u00f6gi- ja juurvilja kasvatada. Et lapselapsed n\u00e4eksid, kust toit tuleb, ja et k\u00f5ige eest, mis istutad, tuleb ka hoolt kanda.<\/p>\n
Selles maamajas peaksid olema pliit ja ahi. Puude praksumine pliidi all \u2013 see oli mu enda lapsep\u00f5lve \u00e4rkamise h\u00e4\u00e4l, kui elasin vanaemaga ja ta pliidi alla tule tegi, et k\u00f6\u00f6k talvehommikul soe oleks. Toitugi tegi ta ikka ahjus. Tahaksin, et mu lapselapsedki seda puude praksumist kuuleksid. Puupliidil tehtud toidu maitset tunneksid.<\/p>\n
Kui tuba soe ja k\u00f5ht t\u00e4is, pajataksin lugusid vanast ajast ja vestaksin ka muinasjutte. T\u00f5si, ma ei valiks enam selliseid, kus prints valgel hobusel tuleb t\u00fctarlast p\u00e4\u00e4stma. See oleks vale ootus printsessile ja printsilegi koormus missugune! Valiksin \u00f5petlikke lugusid vaprusest ja sellest, kuidas saame ise oma \u00f5nne sepad olla. Selles suhtes oleksin ilmselt pigem v\u00f5rd\u00f5iguslikkuse eest k\u00f5nelev vanaema. Praktilise, mitte niiv\u00f5rd romantilise meelega.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"V\u00e4hemalt m\u00f5ttes tasub juba plaane teha. Igal juhul on helge ettekujutamine targem kui muretsemine k\u00f5ikv\u00f5imalike negatiivsete stsenaariumide ja…\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":28422,"comment_status":"","ping_status":"","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[12],"tags":[15127,15122,15121,26,27,37,33,35,34,36,31,32,4514,21,15126,15124,28,29,19,25,15125,10915,23,24,22,20,7919,30,15123],"class_list":{"0":"post-28421","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-eesti","8":"tag-aasta-klassik-sober","9":"tag-anna-haava","10":"tag-arno","11":"tag-breaking-news","12":"tag-breakingnews","13":"tag-ee","14":"tag-eesti","15":"tag-eesti-keel","16":"tag-estonia","17":"tag-estonian","18":"tag-featured-news","19":"tag-featurednews","20":"tag-fred-jussi","21":"tag-headlines","22":"tag-hedvig-hanson-varjunditerohke","23":"tag-kreutzwald","24":"tag-latest-news","25":"tag-latestnews","26":"tag-news","27":"tag-populaarseimad-lood","28":"tag-tammsaare","29":"tag-tootsi","30":"tag-top-stories","31":"tag-topstories","32":"tag-uldised-uudised","33":"tag-uudised","34":"tag-vaimne","35":"tag-viimased-uudised","36":"tag-vilde"},"share_on_mastodon":{"url":"https:\/\/pubeurope.com\/@ee\/115445512785836968","error":""},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/ee\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/28421","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/ee\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/ee\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/ee\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/ee\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=28421"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/ee\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/28421\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/ee\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/28422"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/ee\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=28421"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/ee\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=28421"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/ee\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=28421"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}