{"id":38682,"date":"2025-11-09T20:12:09","date_gmt":"2025-11-09T20:12:09","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/ee\/38682\/"},"modified":"2025-11-09T20:12:09","modified_gmt":"2025-11-09T20:12:09","slug":"kabi-ei-kuku-silja-otsar-ja-lauli-koppelmaa-vikerraadio","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/ee\/38682\/","title":{"rendered":"K\u00e4bi ei kuku… Silja Otsar ja Lauli Koppelmaa | Vikerraadio"},"content":{"rendered":"

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Silja Otsar ja Lauli Koppelmaa Autor\/allikas: Sten Teppan\/ERR\t\t\t\t<\/p>\n

“Lapsevanem on ka inimene” on \u00fcks v\u00e4heseid raamatutarkusi, mis aitas 30 aastat tagasi last kasvatada, meenutab koorijuht ja muusika\u00f5petaja Silja Otsar. Sama tsitaat on Siljalt ka ainus eestikeelne lause saates “K\u00e4bi ei kuku…”, mis v\u00f5ru keele n\u00e4dala puhul on osaliselt v\u00f5rukeelne.<\/p>\n

Siljal on abikaasa Vaidoga kaks t\u00fctart. Neist noorem, Hellika Otsar, on juba tuttav nimi lauluv\u00f5istlustelt ja \u00f5pib praegu EMTAs. Aga emaga saates on Hellikast 11 aastat vanem Lauli Koppelmaa, kes on n\u00e4itleja ning Lydia ja kaksikute Agnese ja Felixi ema.<\/p>\n

“Kui Hellika oli aastane ja ema karjus meie peale, ma ei saanud aru, miks,” jagab Lauli m\u00e4lupilti lapsep\u00f5lvest, mis hiljem ise emaks saades end meelde on tuletanud.<\/p>\n

“Ma tundsin, et mina ei taha oma emotsioone niimoodi laste peal v\u00e4lja elada. Aga kui ma sain kaksikud, siis sain aru, et see ongi emale keeruline olukord – hakkama saada iseenda ja oma emotsioonidega. Kui ma enne olin hinnanguline oma ema suhtes, siis ma enam ei ole. Ma ei suuda oma last s\u00e4\u00e4sta k\u00f5ikidest lapsep\u00f5lvetraumadest. Ta korjab need kuskilt ikka k\u00fclge. Ja kui ma \u00fche korra k\u00e4rgatan ja see on tema lapsep\u00f5lvetrauma, siis ma \u00fctleks, et see on juba p\u00e4ris h\u00e4sti ikkagi.”<\/p>\n

Silja Otsari ja Lauli Koppelmaaga vestleb Sten Teppan.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"Silja Otsar ja Lauli Koppelmaa Autor\/allikas: Sten Teppan\/ERR “Lapsevanem on ka inimene” on \u00fcks v\u00e4heseid raamatutarkusi, mis aitas…\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":38683,"comment_status":"","ping_status":"","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[84],"tags":[37,33,35,173,34,36,140,215,144],"class_list":{"0":"post-38682","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-muusika","8":"tag-ee","9":"tag-eesti","10":"tag-eesti-keel","11":"tag-entertainment","12":"tag-estonia","13":"tag-estonian","14":"tag-meelelahutus","15":"tag-music","16":"tag-muusika"},"share_on_mastodon":{"url":"https:\/\/pubeurope.com\/@ee\/115521568397752321","error":""},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/ee\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/38682","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/ee\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/ee\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/ee\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/ee\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=38682"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/ee\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/38682\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/ee\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/38683"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/ee\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=38682"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/ee\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=38682"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/ee\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=38682"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}