{"id":38740,"date":"2025-11-09T23:15:14","date_gmt":"2025-11-09T23:15:14","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/ee\/38740\/"},"modified":"2025-11-09T23:15:14","modified_gmt":"2025-11-09T23:15:14","slug":"advokaat-annab-nou-%e2%9f%a9-need-on-5-onneliku-abielu-saladust","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/ee\/38740\/","title":{"rendered":"ADVOKAAT ANNAB N\u00d5U \u27e9 Need on 5 \u00f5nneliku abielu saladust"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>\u00abOlles t\u00f6\u00f6tanud perekonna\u00f5iguse valdkonnas juba \u00fcle kolme aastak\u00fcmne, olen saanud esireast j\u00e4lgida, kuidas on l\u00f5ppenud tuhanded suhted,\u00bb kirjutab Austraalia advokaat Catherine Leach v\u00e4ljaandes <a target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer nofollow\" href=\"https:\/\/www.bodyandsoul.com.au\/relationships\/im-a-divorce-lawyer-and-these-are-the-secrets-to-a-successful-marriage\/news-story\/d84807f30a13fb81241ca206eb991ad2\">Body and Soul<\/a>. Tema s\u00f5nul oleks paljusid abielusid aidanud p\u00e4\u00e4sta see, kui partnerid oleksid \u00fcksteisega paremini suhelnud. Leach soovitab suhte hoidmiseks t\u00e4helepanu p\u00f6\u00f6rata viiele olulisele asjale.<\/p>\n<p>1. \u00d5pi aktiivselt kuulama<\/p>\n<p>Aktiivne kuulamine on omaette kunst, mis h\u00f5lmab lisaks teise \u00e4rakuulamisele ka \u00f6eldu meelespidamist ja asjakohast reageerimist. Kui teise inimese jutt l\u00e4heb \u00fchest k\u00f5rvast sisse ja teisest v\u00e4lja, pole sellest kellelegi suurt kasu. Paljud vaidlused tekivadki Leachi s\u00f5nul just seet\u00f5ttu, et \u00fcks partneritest tunneb, et teine ei kuulata teda \u00fcldse \u00e4ragi v\u00f5i ei saa aru, mida ta \u00f6elda soovib.<\/p>\n<p>2. Ole partneri suhtes au<\/p>\n<p>Iga suhte aluseks on usaldus. Sestap tasub ka oma s\u00fcgavamaid tundeid partneriga ausalt jagada. Kui oled \u00f5nnelik, murelik v\u00f5i kurb, siis h\u00e4sti toimivas suhtes saad sellest alati partnerile ausalt r\u00e4\u00e4kida, et ta saaks sinuga nii r\u00f5\u00f5me kui muresid jagada ja vajadusel ka n\u00f5u ja j\u00f5uga appi tulla.<\/p>\n<p>3. Kriitika olgu konstruktiivne<\/p>\n<p>Kuigi igas suhtes tekib vahel erimeelsusi, on oluline, et kriitika oleks konstruktiivne. Selle asemel, et inimest isiklikult r\u00fcnnata, tee vajadusel konkreetselt juttu asjadest, mis sulle muret teevad v\u00f5i sind koguni \u00e4rritavad. Selle asemel, et \u00f6elda midagi sellist s\u00fc\u00fcdistavat nagu \u00abJ\u00e4lle sa j\u00e4tsid pesemata n\u00f5ud kraanikaussi ja mina pidin sinu j\u00e4relt koristama\u00bb, \u00fctle hoopis: \u00abMa tunnen end v\u00e4sinud ja kurvana, kui pean pidevalt valamust n\u00f5usid koristama.\u00bb Nii ei r\u00fcnda sa partnerit, vaid kirjeldad lihtsalt ausalt oma tundeid.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"\u00abOlles t\u00f6\u00f6tanud perekonna\u00f5iguse valdkonnas juba \u00fcle kolme aastak\u00fcmne, olen saanud esireast j\u00e4lgida, kuidas on l\u00f5ppenud tuhanded suhted,\u00bb kirjutab&hellip;\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":38741,"comment_status":"","ping_status":"","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[12],"tags":[490,10319,19654,19648,26,27,19649,37,33,35,34,36,31,32,21,19653,14440,19652,28,29,19,2925,1564,25,19651,19650,23,24,22,20,30],"class_list":{"0":"post-38740","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-eesti","8":"tag-abielu","9":"tag-abielulahutus","10":"tag-advokaat","11":"tag-ausus","12":"tag-breaking-news","13":"tag-breakingnews","14":"tag-catherine-leach","15":"tag-ee","16":"tag-eesti","17":"tag-eesti-keel","18":"tag-estonia","19":"tag-estonian","20":"tag-featured-news","21":"tag-featurednews","22":"tag-headlines","23":"tag-igapaevane-suhtlus","24":"tag-kriitika","25":"tag-kuulamine","26":"tag-latest-news","27":"tag-latestnews","28":"tag-news","29":"tag-onn","30":"tag-paarisuhe","31":"tag-populaarseimad-lood","32":"tag-suhtlemine","33":"tag-tanulikkus","34":"tag-top-stories","35":"tag-topstories","36":"tag-uldised-uudised","37":"tag-uudised","38":"tag-viimased-uudised"},"share_on_mastodon":{"url":"https:\/\/pubeurope.com\/@ee\/115522288035351856","error":""},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/ee\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/38740","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/ee\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/ee\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/ee\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/ee\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=38740"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/ee\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/38740\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/ee\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/38741"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/ee\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=38740"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/ee\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=38740"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/ee\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=38740"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}