Ingridi s\u00f5nul on tema kuueaastane t\u00fctar Venus soovinud oma perekonnanime vahetada juba mitu aastat. \u201eOlen alati toonitanud, et see on suur otsus ja peab olema v\u00e4ga kindel soov, millest p\u00e4rast taganeda ei taha. Ta pole kordagi selle aja jooksul k\u00f5helnud,\u201c \u00fctleb M\u00e4nd.<\/p>\n
Kui ema l\u00f5puks t\u00fctrele seda v\u00f5imalust pakkus, oli Venus kohe n\u00f5us. \u201eTa oli nii \u00f5nnelik, et ma isegi ei tea, miks ma seda juba varem ei teinud!\u201c Ingridi sisse antud avaldus nime vahetamiseks rahuldati t\u00e4pselt t\u00fctre nimep\u00e4eval, 14. novembril.<\/p>\n
Ingrid kasvatab oma t\u00fctart \u00fcksinda. Kui isadep\u00e4ev on aeg, mil tavaliselt tunnustatakse isasid nende hoolivuse ja p\u00fchendumuse eest, siis Venus \u00fcllatas sel p\u00e4eval hoopis oma ema. Nimelt kinkis laps emale auto parkimiskella ning lausus: \u201eEmme, ma tegin sulle isadep\u00e4evaks parkimiskella, sa oled mul ju isa eest ka.\u201c<\/p>\n
Teed lapse isaga l\u00e4ksid lahku<\/p>\n
Ingridi lapse isa on r\u00e4ppar Beebil\u00f5ust ehk Andrus Elbing. Nende suhe l\u00f5ppes 2022. aastal. Ingrid jagas sotsiaalmeedias, et tema ja r\u00e4ppari kihlus on l\u00e4bi ning naine kolis koos lapsega kahekesi elama.\u00a0Ingrid kannatas selles suhtes nii vaimse kui f\u00fc\u00fcsilise l\u00e4hisuhtev\u00e4givalla all.<\/p>\n
\u201eK\u00e4in iga n\u00e4dal ps\u00fchhoteraapias. Ma ei \u00fctle, et ainult sellep\u00e4rast, et l\u00e4hisuhtev\u00e4givalla all kannatasin. Vaid k\u00f5ige p\u00e4rast, mis elus toimunud on. Saan n\u00fc\u00fcd aru, kui traumeeritud ma tegelikult olen. Ei arvanudki, et k\u00f5ik nii hull on, aga see tuleb kogu aeg v\u00e4ikeste n\u00fcanssidena v\u00e4lja. M\u00f5ni inimene \u00fctleb, et ta ei saa isegi teatud nalju teha, sest mul on sellega seoses trauma,\u201c r\u00e4\u00e4gib ta. \u201eV\u00f5tan tervenemist nagu protsessi ja kasvan ning arenen selle kaudu. Kui mul poleks k\u00f5iki neid traumasid, siis mul v\u00f5ib-olla poleks sellist kasvuv\u00f5imalust,\u201c pihtis Ingrid toona.<\/p>\n
Ingrid v\u00f5ttis juba siis \u00fcksikema rolli v\u00e4ga rahulikult. \u201eAlateadlikult v\u00f5tsin selle otsuse vastu juba enne lapse s\u00fcndi, et nii v\u00f5ib minna. Mina olen alati seda meelt olnud, et tahan saada t\u00e4pselt nii palju lapsi, kui palju suudan neid \u00fcksinda \u00fcles kasvatada. Olen selline inimene, kes ei looda kellegi teise peale. Siis peab elus v\u00e4hem pettuma. V\u00f5ib-olla olen liiga skeptiline, aga elu on mind \u00f5petanud. Isegi kui sul on k\u00f5rval kaaslane, kellele saad t\u00e4iesti kindel olla, v\u00f5ib elus asju juhtuda ja \u00fchel hetkel v\u00f5id ikkagi lapsega t\u00e4iesti \u00fcksi olla.\u201c<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"Ingridi s\u00f5nul on tema kuueaastane t\u00fctar Venus soovinud oma perekonnanime vahetada juba mitu aastat. \u201eOlen alati toonitanud, et…\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":43932,"comment_status":"","ping_status":"","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[5],"tags":[26,27,37,33,35,34,36,31,32,21,28,29,19,25,23,24,22,20,30],"class_list":{"0":"post-43931","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-uldised-uudised","8":"tag-breaking-news","9":"tag-breakingnews","10":"tag-ee","11":"tag-eesti","12":"tag-eesti-keel","13":"tag-estonia","14":"tag-estonian","15":"tag-featured-news","16":"tag-featurednews","17":"tag-headlines","18":"tag-latest-news","19":"tag-latestnews","20":"tag-news","21":"tag-populaarseimad-lood","22":"tag-top-stories","23":"tag-topstories","24":"tag-uldised-uudised","25":"tag-uudised","26":"tag-viimased-uudised"},"share_on_mastodon":{"url":"https:\/\/pubeurope.com\/@ee\/115562887455256339","error":""},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/ee\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/43931","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/ee\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/ee\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/ee\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/ee\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=43931"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/ee\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/43931\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/ee\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/43932"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/ee\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=43931"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/ee\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=43931"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/ee\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=43931"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}