{"id":76155,"date":"2026-01-01T22:05:53","date_gmt":"2026-01-01T22:05:53","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/ee\/76155\/"},"modified":"2026-01-01T22:05:53","modified_gmt":"2026-01-01T22:05:53","slug":"joukad-mehed-votavad-vanemahuvitise-endale-kodune-ema-jain-selle-skeemiga-noustudes-konksu-otsa-kaotasin-koik-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/ee\/76155\/","title":{"rendered":"J\u00f5ukad mehed v\u00f5tavad vanemah\u00fcvitise endale. Kodune ema: \u201eJ\u00e4in selle skeemiga n\u00f5ustudes konksu otsa. Kaotasin k\u00f5ik\u201c"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Marie* pole enam kindel, kas soovib saada teist last p\u00e4rast seda, kuidas t\u00f6\u00f6andja temaga p\u00e4rast esimese lapse hoolduspuhkust k\u00e4itus. \u00dche lapsega tundub tulevik turvalisem. Enne lapse s\u00fcndi oskas Marie m\u00f5elda vaid sellele, et meie vanemah\u00fcvitise s\u00fcsteem on suurep\u00e4rane. N\u00fc\u00fcd oskab ta karta, mis saab p\u00e4rast selle l\u00f5ppemist.<\/p>\n<p>Beebiootele j\u00e4\u00e4des teadis Johanna*, et tema vanemah\u00fcvitis oleks v\u00e4ike, sest ta oli alles karj\u00e4\u00e4ri \u00fcles ehitama asunud. Maiko*, kes t\u00f6\u00f6tas v\u00e4ga edukas pereettev\u00f5ttes, pakkus aga kohe v\u00e4lja: ta v\u00f5iks ametlikult hoopis ise vanemah\u00fcvitise v\u00e4lja v\u00f5tta, kuid lapsega kodus on ikka Johanna. \u201eJ\u00e4in konksu otsa,\u201c kahetseb naine n\u00fc\u00fcd. See avas tee majanduslikule ja vaimsele v\u00e4givallale.<\/p>\n<p>Nelja aastaga kolm last jutti s\u00fcnnitanud Triinu* tunnistab: \u201eTegelikult tundsin, et mu keha vajab puhkust. Magamata \u00f6\u00f6d, v\u00e4ikelaste haigused, vanema lapse armukadedushood, k\u00f5ik see kuhjub.\u201c <\/p>\n<p>\u201eSul ei ole varianti t\u00f6\u00f6le mitte minna, kui vanemah\u00fcvitis otsa saab!\u201c \u00fctleb Katariina*, kes on \u00fcks neist, kes ei saanud t\u00f6\u00f6le minnes lapsele s\u00f5imekohta munitsipaallasteaias.<\/p>\n<p>\u201eOn hetki, kus ma tunnen, et liiga raske, enam ei jaksa,\u201c tunnistab kolme lapse ema Marit, kelle \u00f5lul on kogu kodune koormus. Ta teeb hommikust \u00f5htuni \u201en\u00e4htamatut t\u00f6\u00f6d\u201c.<\/p>\n<p>Liis* kasvatab lapsi \u00fcksi. \u201eSee, et ta on laste isana kirjas, aga lastesse ei ajaliselt ega rahaliselt ei panusta, teeb mind vaesemaks,\u201c t\u00f5deb ta. Kohus m\u00e4\u00e4ras, et mees peaks maksma kahele lapsele kokku 300 eurot kuus, aga ta ei maksa.<\/p>\n<p>Nende laps ei olnud veel kahenegi, kui Riina* sai aru, et mees on parandamatu alkohoolik. Mees s\u00f5idutas ka last purjus peaga. Kuid tal on endiselt \u00f5igus lapse elu \u00fcle otsustada! Kui Riina tahab lapsega reisile minna, siis ei anna mees n\u00f5usolekut. <\/p>\n<p>Lisaks ametlikele elatisv\u00f5lglastele on Eestis v\u00e4ga palju peresid, kus on pealtn\u00e4ha kenad <a rel=\"noopener nofollow\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.delfi.ee\/teema\/67799511\/kargpere\" data-rel-date-range=\"[]\">k\u00e4rgperesuhted<\/a>, kuid need toimivad vaid emade leplikkuse t\u00f5ttu v\u00f5tta l\u00f5viosa lastega seotud kuludest enda kanda. Need isad ei ole mingid eluheidikud, vaid lugupeetud inimesed, kes vilksatavad teleekraanil ja seltskonnaajakirjanduses. Karmi t\u00f5de Heli*, Kristi* ja Sille* pereelu kohta teavad v\u00e4ga v\u00e4hesed.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"Marie* pole enam kindel, kas soovib saada teist last p\u00e4rast seda, kuidas t\u00f6\u00f6andja temaga p\u00e4rast esimese lapse hoolduspuhkust&hellip;\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":75074,"comment_status":"","ping_status":"","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[12],"tags":[37969,26,27,19352,37,33,35,37965,37971,34,36,31,32,21,37970,37964,22017,37963,37966,28,29,37967,19,3831,25,10417,33432,23,24,22,20,30,37968],"class_list":{"0":"post-76155","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-eesti","8":"tag-agle-lauren","9":"tag-breaking-news","10":"tag-breakingnews","11":"tag-diskrimineerimine","12":"tag-ee","13":"tag-eesti","14":"tag-eesti-keel","15":"tag-elatisvolgnik","16":"tag-emadusloiv","17":"tag-estonia","18":"tag-estonian","19":"tag-featured-news","20":"tag-featurednews","21":"tag-headlines","22":"tag-hooletoo","23":"tag-kargpere","24":"tag-kristi-saare","25":"tag-lapse-hooldusoigus","26":"tag-lasterikka-pere-toetus","27":"tag-latest-news","28":"tag-latestnews","29":"tag-majanduslik-vagivald","30":"tag-news","31":"tag-perepoliitika","32":"tag-populaarseimad-lood","33":"tag-salk","34":"tag-sunnitusjargne-depressioon","35":"tag-top-stories","36":"tag-topstories","37":"tag-uldised-uudised","38":"tag-uudised","39":"tag-viimased-uudised","40":"tag-vordne-vanemlus"},"share_on_mastodon":{"url":"","error":"Validation failed: Text character limit of 500 exceeded"},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/ee\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/76155","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/ee\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/ee\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/ee\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/ee\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=76155"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/ee\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/76155\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/ee\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/75074"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/ee\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=76155"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/ee\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=76155"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/ee\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=76155"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}