{"id":79512,"date":"2026-01-06T20:04:21","date_gmt":"2026-01-06T20:04:21","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/ee\/79512\/"},"modified":"2026-01-06T20:04:21","modified_gmt":"2026-01-06T20:04:21","slug":"mari-ojasaar-parve-samal-ool-kui-ode-lahkus-hakkas-minu-kehas-sunnitegevus-pihta","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/ee\/79512\/","title":{"rendered":"Mari Ojasaar-Parve: samal \u00f6\u00f6l, kui \u00f5de lahkus, hakkas minu kehas s\u00fcnnitegevus pihta"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Kirjastaja Jesper Parve abikaasa Mari Ojasaar-Parve aasta algas keeruliselt. \u201eTunnen, kuidas p\u00fchader\u00f5\u00f5m vaikselt vaibub ja ma hakkan hinges raskust tundma. Ja siis m\u00e4rkan, et see nii juba neljas aasta. Kallis \u00f5de sai inglitiivad t\u00e4na neli aastat tagasi. Ometi olin katki nii mitmeks killuks varisenud, tundsin kergendust, et ta sai vabaks sellest hirmsast haigusest ja valudest, et ta lahkus oma mehe k\u00e4est kinni hoides \u2013 igavesti t\u00e4nulik sulle selle eest @mauridorbek,\u201c kirjeldab Mari.<\/p>\n<p>Mari kaksik\u00f5de Kristi Ojasaar suri 2022. aasta alguses v\u00e4hi tagaj\u00e4rjel. Tal oleks samal kuul t\u00e4histanud 39. s\u00fcnnip\u00e4eva.<\/p>\n<p>Mari t\u00f5deb, et on hakanud vaikselt uurima, mida t\u00e4hendab leinast l\u00e4bi minna. \u201eMinule ei antud aega leinata. Samal \u00f6\u00f6l, kui \u00f5de lahkus, hakkas minu kehas s\u00fcnnitegevus pihta ja me kihutasime esimese praamiga Hiiumaalt Pelgulinna haiglasse. \u00d5nneks rahunes keha maha ja ma j\u00e4in veel kolmeks kuuks v\u00e4ikest tibu endaga kandma,\u201c meenutab ta. \u201eKiku ei n\u00e4inudki teda p\u00e4ris elus. See oli tema k\u00fcll \u00fcks viimaseid k\u00fcsimusi, et kas laps on s\u00fcndinud.\u201c<\/p>\n<p>Mari j\u00e4tkab: \u201eVaatan oma s\u00fcnnip\u00e4evapilti, kui ma esimest korda sel p\u00e4eval \u00fcksi olin ja naeratuse pildile sain, suur k\u00f5ht ees. Imestan, et kust tuli minus see j\u00f5ud, sest suurema osa p\u00e4evast k\u00e4isin pisarates. Aga ma tegin k\u00f5ik selle nimel, et oma k\u00f5hubeebit hoida.\u201c<\/p>\n<p>Kui t\u00fctar Maria Luna s\u00fcndis, oli Mari s\u00fcda korraga t\u00e4is nii palju armastust ja valu. \u201eKuidas mahub \u00fche inimese sisse k\u00f5ik need tunded,\u201c imestab ta. \u201eIgatahes olgugi, et oli ebainimlikult raske, aitas v\u00e4ike Luna mind, et ma kusagile musta auku ei kukkunud.\u201c<\/p>\n<p>Mari lisab, et igatseb ikka veel oma \u00f5de ja imetleb neid naisi, kellel on \u00f5de, kaksik\u00f5est r\u00e4\u00e4kimata. \u201eJa olen nii t\u00e4nulik iga naise eest, kes minu elus on ja kiirgab \u00f5elikku soojust!\u201c teatab ta.<\/p>\n<p>Mari ja Jesper abiellusid aasta 2022. Nende peres kasvab kolm last: 2014. aastal s\u00fcndinud Aaron Troy, 2018. aastal s\u00fcndinud Thor Ragnar ja 2022. aasta algul ilmavalgust n\u00e4inud Maria Luna.<\/p>\n<p>Kuidas see lugu Sind end tundma pani? 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