{"id":11835,"date":"2025-04-09T05:10:09","date_gmt":"2025-04-09T05:10:09","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/fr\/11835\/"},"modified":"2025-04-09T05:10:09","modified_gmt":"2025-04-09T05:10:09","slug":"nos-conseils-pour-garder-son-flegme-devant-le-bazar-dun-ado","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/fr\/11835\/","title":{"rendered":"nos conseils pour garder son flegme devant le bazar d\u2019un ado"},"content":{"rendered":"

Par Sophie Massieu<\/a><\/p>\n

\n Publi\u00e9
\n le 7 avril 2025 \u00e0 07h00,
\n mis \u00e0 jour le 8 avril 2025 \u00e0 15h34<\/p>\n

Image miraculeuse d\u2019un adolescent nettoyant un salon. (Photo d\u2019illustration)
\n ABCreative \/ stock.adobe.com<\/p>\n

PSYCHOLOGIE – <\/strong>Difficile de ne pas s\u2019agacer face au capharna\u00fcm ambiant dans la \u00abtani\u00e8re\u00bb de votre adolescent. Et si, au lieu d\u2019aller au conflit, on prenait le temps de comprendre ce qui se joue ici\u00a0?<\/p>\n

\u00ab\u00a0Le matin, j\u2019essaie beaucoup de v\u00eatements pour m\u2019habiller. Et je laisse sur mon lit et le canap\u00e9 des tas d\u2019habits en boule, confie Marion, 16\u00a0ans. Sur mon bureau, il y a juste la place pour poser un cahier. Je ne peux plus ouvrir ma fen\u00eatre parce que sur l\u2019\u00e9tag\u00e8re, j\u2019ai \u00e9tal\u00e9 tout mon maquillage. Si on ouvre un tiroir, tout s\u2019\u00e9croule. Je n\u2019ai pas le droit de manger dans ma chambre mais je le fais quand m\u00eame et parfois des bols et bo\u00eetes ferm\u00e9es s\u2019empilent, \u00e7a moisit.\u00a0\u00bb La jeune fille sait que ce d\u00e9sordre agace ses parents, et elle-m\u00eame appr\u00e9cie\u00a0quand sa chambre est rang\u00e9e<\/a>. \u00ab\u00a0Mais pour moi, le rangement, c\u2019est une activit\u00e9 en soi. Quand je me lance, tout est nickel. D\u2019ailleurs, ma biblioth\u00e8que est tr\u00e8s ordonn\u00e9e. Mais je n\u2019aime pas que ranger soit une corv\u00e9e au quotidien.\u00a0\u00bb<\/p>\n

Quel parent ne s\u2019est pas crisp\u00e9 devant le d\u00e9sordre de la chambre de son ado\u00a0? Rares sont ceux qu\u2019un tel fourbi laisse de marbre, m\u00eame si tous ne mettent pas le curseur du bazar tol\u00e9rable au m\u00eame endroit. Mais faut-il\u2026<\/p>\n

\n Cet article est r\u00e9serv\u00e9 aux abonn\u00e9s. Il vous reste 88% \u00e0 d\u00e9couvrir.\n <\/p>\n

\"Le<\/p>\n

Vous avez envie de lire la suite ?<\/p>\n

D\u00e9bloquez tous les articles imm\u00e9diatement.<\/p>\n

\n D\u00e9j\u00e0 abonn\u00e9\u00a0?
\n Connectez-vous
\n <\/a>\n <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"Par Sophie Massieu Publi\u00e9 le 7 avril 2025 \u00e0 07h00, mis \u00e0 jour le 8 avril 2025 \u00e0…\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":11836,"comment_status":"","ping_status":"","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[10],"tags":[3959,5562,5555,2073,5561,5567,5556,1011,27,72,4982,5566,5563,5560,1402,235,298,5557,5559,5558,5565,71,279,4990,5554,5564],"class_list":{"0":"post-11835","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-sante","8":"tag-adolescents","9":"tag-angoisse","10":"tag-conseil-de-psy","11":"tag-depression","12":"tag-deprime","13":"tag-developpement-personnel","14":"tag-forum","15":"tag-fr","16":"tag-france","17":"tag-health","18":"tag-insomnie","19":"tag-interpretation","20":"tag-phobie","21":"tag-psychanalyse","22":"tag-psychanalyste","23":"tag-psychiatrie","24":"tag-psychologie","25":"tag-psychologue","26":"tag-psychotherapeute","27":"tag-psychotherapies","28":"tag-reves","29":"tag-sante","30":"tag-sommeil","31":"tag-stress","32":"tag-therapie","33":"tag-toc"},"share_on_mastodon":{"url":"https:\/\/pubeurope.com\/@fr\/114306287097036766","error":""},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/11835","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=11835"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/11835\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/11836"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=11835"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=11835"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=11835"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}