NEED TO KNOW

  • Influencer Kat Stickler seemingly addressed dating rumors with musician John Mayer in a new TikTok

  • The pair fueled relationship rumors over the weekend when they were spotted on back-to-back date nights in New York City

  • In July, Stickler apparently soft-launched a relationship with a mystery man on her social media accounts, posting a photo with him but scribbling out his face in the shot

Kat Stickler is setting the record straight.

After a buzzy weekend for the 30-year-old influencer, which included back-to-back date nights with singer-songwriter John Mayer, 47, in New York City, Stickler took to TikTok to address her relationship status.

In a new video she uploaded on Oct. 14, a voice off camera asked, “Kat, are you single?” to which she responded, smiling, “Um, yeah, I already told you that.”

“No you didn’t,” the off-camera voice said.

“I cut all my hair off — out of the blue one day!” replied Stickler, pointing to her bob. “You think I just did that for no reason? It holds memories. Look at the distance from my shoulder to my hair, OK? I thought you knew me better than that. This is a cry for help. This is a tell-tale sign of a relationship gone bad.”

On Sunday, Oct. 12, Deuxmoi reported that Stickler and Mayer attended a members-only club in N.Y.C. on Friday, Oct. 10, before they hit Flyfish Club the next night. The outlet also shared an image of the pair sitting together at the private club.

Stickler also recently followed the Grammy winner on Instagram.

John Nacion/WireImage Kat Stickler

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Kat Stickler

The relationship speculation comes after each shared updates on their romantic life earlier this year.

In July, Stickler — who shares daughter MK with her ex-husband Mike Stickler — seemingly soft-launched a relationship with a mystery man on her social media accounts, posting a photo posing with him but scribbling out his face in the shot. The post came months after she and Bachelor alum Jason Tartick announced their “amicable” split after six months of dating.

Mayer revealed in June that he was single during SiriusXM’s SmartLess Live, a special live taping of the hit podcast with hosts Will Arnett, Jason Bateman and Sean Hayes.

“I’m a single person,” the “Free Fallin’” singer told the audience. “I’m a catch.”

Later in the conversation, Mayer continued to open up about his romantic life, admitting that he “absolutely” wanted to get married.

“Every girlfriend would be a potential wife at this point,” he said, adding that he “would not date someone if it didn’t have the upward mobility of becoming a marriage.”

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Stefanie Keenan/Getty  John Mayer

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John Mayer

Stickler, who tied the knot with her ex-husband at age 24, also recently shared her thoughts on marriage in a TikTok video posted on Oct. 10, saying, “I just think we need to reframe our idea of this goal to walk down the aisle, because really the goal should be to walk in alignment with who we are and what we value.”

“I think marriage can be amazing,” she continued. “But it’s not this prize to be won. It’s not what finally makes you whole. And instead of being like, ‘Oh, the dream is someday someone will love me enough to stay.’ The dream is ‘I actually love myself enough to keep growing whether someone is walking beside me or not.’ ”

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