The senior external relations officer chats to Mary McCarthy about life in Pakistan, her work with displaced people and how becoming a mother gave her more empathy

Aoife McDonnell, who works with the UNHCR in Pakistan

Aoife McDonnell, who works with the UNHCR in Pakistan

In conversation with Mary McCarthy

Yesterday at 06:30

This career has a meaningful impact, and relies on people who are genuinely passionate. However, it carries a significant personal cost, particularly to personal relationships.

Under the stress and pressure of the job, including travelling and periods apart, my first marriage came under strain and we divorced amicably.