In our How I Manage My Money series, we aim to find out how people in the UK are spending, saving and investing money to meet their costs and achieve their goals.
This week we speak to Alexander Dzhienbaev, 27, who lives in London. Alexander is the chief executive and founder of Thytadel, a tech business. Alexander pays £7,000 a month to rent an apartment in Mayfair and spends large sums on eating out and going to the gym. The entrepreneur does not add any money to a pension and adds £3,000 a month to investments, mainly cryptocurrency.
Monthly budget
My monthly income: My monthly income is around £20,000, but this varies. This comes from a combination of salary and director loan repayments from my company, Thytadel, as well as occasional withdrawals from my investment portfolio, and money from a recent 2025 licensing deal.
My monthly outgoings: Rent for my serviced apartment in central London, £7,000; apartment servicing, £450; council tax, £101.85; groceries, £900; electricity, £149; water, £60; broadband, £20.99; mobile, £34; dry cleaning, £90; subscriptions like YouTube Premium, £34.97; car insurance, £173.76; car fuel, £300; car valeting, £270; car parking, £585; car servicing, £90; eating out, mainly for meetings, £2,000; takeaways, £490; E by Equinox St James’s gym, £470; money into investments, around £3,000. I also spend money on sailing when needed. I don’t spend much money on clothes.
I grew up in Moscow, Russia, with my family, which has a background in professional sailing. Before going into business, my father competed as an Olympic yachtsman and later served as a head coach for the 2012 Olympics in London.
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The foods the experts always have in the cupboard
Foods to keep in the cupboard
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Tinned fish
These are a great way to get Omega-3 fats and fish with soft bones are a great source of calcium, says dietician Emma Shafqat.
Ready whole grains
Dietitian Lucy Upton recommends brown rice, quinoa and barley which are low in salt.
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Olive oil
Cold-pressed extra virgin olive oil has polyphenols and antioxidants, says Dr Frankie Phillips.
Foods to keep in the cupboard
Nuts and seeds
They boast unsaturated fats, fibre, plant protein, vitamins and minerals. Raw or dry roasted should have no additives, like salt. Dr Shafqat recommends brands like Meridian, Pip & Nut and Whole Earth.
Dried fruit
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Dried fruit
If you’re mindful of the addd sugar, they can be great for fibre as part of a meal. Dr Phillips recommends dried apricots as they’re verstaile and add iron to the diet.
Dark chocolate
It surprises many people that dark chocolate contains fibre.
It counts as a health food thanks to its high polyphenol count.
To really optimise the health benefits, choose chocolate that is 70 per cent cocoa as it has fewer ingredients and a higher polyphenol content.
Lindt 70 to 85 per cent, Green & Black’s, Divine Fairtrade, Aldi’s Moser Roth (70 per cent) and Lidl’s own brand (85 per cent) are great, accessible options.
Foods to keep in the cupboard
Oats
Plain oats are a cheap, accessible and nutritious food that provide beta-glucan, a type of soluble fibre which helps to manage cholesterol levels.
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Pulses
Dr Phillips keeps canned cannellini beans, kidney beans, chickpeas and red lentils in the cupboard, and adds them to soups, stews and savoury mince dishes.
The UK’s mild climate may be destroyed
While much of the world is set to grow hotter as a result of the climate crisis, the UK could soon face a different fate.
Climate scientists fear a ‘cold blob’ in the Atlantic Ocean may bring Arctic conditions instead of a tropical future.
Bill McGuire, a professor of geophysical and climate hazards at University College London (UCL), is one of them.
Here he shares why cold temperatures could be our reality in a few decades.
Why this could happen
At the moment, global heating is making the UK hotter. This warmth is thanks to the presence of the Atlantic Meridional Overturning Circulation (AMOC), a system of currents over the Atlantic.
- Without these currents, our climate would be more akin to the much colder weather in north-eastern Canada.
- And the AMOC might be set to U-turn.
- One study suggests that the AMOC has weakened by 15 per cent since the mid-20th century.
- There is not much we can do to stop
this decline. Emissions would need to
be cut in half within five years to have
any chance of dodging a permanent global temperature change.
How to prepare for a change
“All countries need to ensure that infrastructure, food security, services
and public engagement are robust,”
says Professor McGuire.
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One paper estimated that only seven per cent of UK land would be suitable for
arable farming in the new climate,
compared with the current 32 per cent. “Managing this looks like rationing and restricted civil liberties,” he claims.
The global impact
Smoke billows from a fire in an area of the Amazon rainforest near Porto Velho, Rondonia State, Brazil (Photo: Bruno Kelly/Reuters)
- It could cause the weakening of the African and Asian monsoons, resulting in famine.
- Increased warming of the southern hemisphere could further dry out the Amazon.
- Increase melting across Antarctica would accelerate sea level rise.
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What we need to do
This is entirely the result of global heating caused by human activities. It is critical that monitoring of the AMOC is maintained, even increased. European governments really need to be planning for a future that could well be
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Our shared ownership home is a disaster
Paul Afshar is struggling to sell his shared ownership flat in Hackney Wick (Photo: Charlie Forgham-Bailey)
Paul Afshar felt a sense of pride when
he purchased 25 per cent of a new home in East London – as a way to get on the property ladder without huge financial backing.
But years on, Afshar has discovered the drawbacks of the scheme, including the rising costs and difficulty moving on.
The background
A 25 per cent of a one-bedroom flat in London.
- In 2007 Afshar put a five per cent deposit (£2,500) on his share of the flat and entered a 35-year mortgage on a standard variable rate.
- Although he only owns a quarter of his flat in Hackney but is eligible for 100 per cent of the maintenance costs.
- Between 2007 and 2024 his mortgage rose 48 per cent from £268.65 to £400.28. He also pays £865.48 on rent (shared ownership requires paying rent to the organisation who owns the rest) and a service charge.
- Fixing unsafe cladding on his block of will also cost in excess
of £50,000, as it isn’t eligible for government funding.
The impact on residents
It has definitely triggered a deep sense of anxiety in me that affected my mental health. It’s this constant heavy, nervous feeling in my stomach.
AFSHAR, 41
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Shared ownership in the UK
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- In 2024, 200,000 households were shared ownership properties.
- In 2021-22 there were 19,386 new shared ownership properties.
- Fewer than 2,000 shared ownership households managed to staircase from part to full ownership in 2022.
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Selling up
Afshar couldn’t sell his flat but didn’t feel safe to live in it – because of the cladding. So he lived with his partner for three years, still paying the mortgage and charges.
Caption: Paul Afshar, campaigner for End Our Cladding Scandal (EOCS). who???s flat in Hackney Wick has been affected by unsafe cladding which means that he is unable to sell the property.
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Property expert Crystal Olenbush says selling is the biggest issue. “You’ve got to figure out how to divvy any equity, then you need to find someone to take over the side of the seller’s portion of the mortgage. There’s a whole legal process to transfer that shared ownership stake. If anyone tries to skip steps, it creates huge problems.”
Paul Afshar is struggling to sell his shared ownership flat in Hackney Wick
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The takeaway
I got into something I didn’t fully understand. I was sold a dream of homeownership and it’s come back to bite me years later. It’s heartbreaking.
Looking back Afshar wishes he’d have looked into the service charge, mortgage rate and selling protocols sooner.
Thinking of getting
a divorce?
It’s not always the solution, says psychotherapist and author Philippa Perry, who has been married for 32 years.
Here are the five things she recommends asking yourself before dishing
out the divorce papers.
The questions you should ask
Is it a you problem?
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It’s not a good idea to get divorced when you’re just depressed and stressed. You’re naturally irritated by everything and everybody. It’s too easy to take that out on your partner and think they’re the problem.
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Are you telling
yourself a story?
We cherry-pick the evidence against our partner until we’re so set on them being the enemy…
It feels almost like tying up loose ends. But it won’t really solve the problem. It just makes it much worse. It’s okay to be wrong. Good relationships are full of ruptures and repairs.
The questions you should ask
It is a mixmatch of
conflict styles?
- When we’re under stress, we have our preferred way of coping.
- You want a partner who’s on the same page as you, so that you have moments of connection.
- Some people think a lot, other people want to go straight to action.
- If you’re a thinker, and you’re married to a do-er, it’s important to remind them that they don’t have to fix every problem. If you are a doer, you have to say something like, explain your process and thoughts a little more.
Do you believe the
grass is greener?
If this is you, do some serious therapy on yourself. What gets in the way of a good relationship is thinking that the grass is greener and therefore having a lack of commitment. This is why we have marriage because you make a commitment.
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Do you have moments
of inclusion?
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- Moments of inclusion are the ones when you both feel like you’ve both clicked, and really get on.
- If these moments are missing, we need to leave more space for them.
- Also treat love as an action, not a feeling. Ask yourself, what can I do for my partner today?
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FOOD AND DRINK
The UPFs the
health experts eat
In the UK, 50 per cent of our daily energy comes from ultra-processed sources, rather than fresh, minimally processed food.
This has been blamed as one of the reasons for the nation’s poor health and high rates of obesity. While all UPFs get a bad reputation, there are some that are better than others.
We asked the health experts which UPFs they include in their diets.
The UPFs the health experts buy
Sausages
Dietitian Aisling Pigott has sausages once a week, choosing the vegan or high-meat versions.
Orange squash
Priya Tew buys no-added sugar squash to help her children drink more water.
Lentil crisps
Nutritionist Jenna Hope has these as an alternative to regular crisps.
The UPFs the health experts buy
Baked beans
Dr Linia Patel, a dietitian and performance nutritionist, enjoys baked beans. She eats them on a jacket potato with cheese and a side salad as a quick, filling and nutrient dense meal.
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Ketchup
Gut health nutritionist Yalda Alaoui, who follows a mostly anti-inflammatory diet, has ketchup as small amounts do not impact her blood glucose levels.
Other UPFs that health experts put in their shopping basket
Some people can be concerned about a sugar rush (Photo: Elizabeth Perez Holowaty/Getty)
Haribo sweets for their children
so they can learn to self-regulate with food.
It’s estimated ultra processed foods make up at least half of the average UK diet (Photo: Getty)
Emergency cereal bars when homemade flapjacks run out.
Sriracha chilli sauce on the production line (David McNew/Getty Images)
Hot sauce and mayonnaise
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Marmite as a source of vitamin
B12 and potassium.
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Almond milk in morning drinks, fortified with vitamin D.
How to find balance
My mantra with UPFs is ‘reduce but not restrict’. I don’t think we need to cut them out but it’s a good idea to assess how much you eat. If some are [things] you especially love, then cutting them out can lead to you craving them more.
Priya Tew, registered dietitian specialising in eating disorders
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How can people give themselves the best chance of a good retirement?
Are retirees in the UK happy?
What the statistics say
47%
Almost half of studies into the impact of retirement on people’s mental health report a negative impact on life satisfaction.
72%
According to the latest Office for National Statistics (ONS) figures, among those aged 50-59 who have left the workforce, 72 per cent would consider returning to work, often citing a need for financial security and purpose.
Nearly a third (32 per cent) of 50-70 year-olds retired earlier than they hoped.
Volunteering
73-year-old Martin Delgado, who retired from his role as a journalist, enrolled as a volunteer with the NHS 10 years ago.
He attends seminars, goes on training courses and works with psychiatric patients at an NHS mental health trust in London.
(As well as looking after his grandson).
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Martin’s other tips for retirement
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Have hobbies
He often goes on bike rides, hikes, solo camping trips and finds time to read.
Exercise
He runs two or three mornings a week and when it becomes too much is planning to take up swimming or cycling.
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Spend time with family
“I spend as much time with our grandson as I can. Having him around has had a huge emotional impact.”
It doesn’t have to be all or nothing
For Toni Del Mar, 75, one of the things that has made her retirement a happy one is spending more spontaneous time with friends in her Devon village.
But she hasn’t given up everything completely. Mar runs her home as a B&B which she cleans and prepares for guests.
It provides her with purpose and help
paying the bills.
If you’re struggling, there’s hope
Retirement was the biggest challenge of my life.
Simon McEwan, who had a 43-year career in journalism, felt lost without structure and routine. He wishes he’d have phased work out slowly.
Now he’s built a new routine including exercise, mindfulness, meditation and joined a mental health walking group.
How to stay connected
- 1Plan in advance – join community groups or take up new hobbies that can bridge the initial gap when work stops.
- 2 Enjoy the arts – creativity can provide a new sense of purpose and organic opportunities for new bonds.
- 3Maximise fulfillment – identify activities that you enjoy, and take time to build up interest.
- 4Balance your activities – mix ones for enjoyment with ones that help others. For example, volunteering at local community groups.
The mistakes parents make at home
Baby-proofing professionals like Al Kola from Baby Safe Steps say there are several mistakes he often sees that are actually more harmful than helpful.
He shares the most common ones.
Accidents in the UK
Unintentional injuries in and around the home are a leading cause of preventable death for children under five years.
67,000
Every year, more than 67,000 children experience an accident in the kitchen, says the Royal Society for the Prevention of Accidents.
58,000
58,000 children have accidents on the stairs, often where the most serious incidents occur.
The mistakes parents make
The wrong gate
Pressure gates – gates with a bar along the bottom to keep them fixed in place – shouldn’t be on the stairs as the bar is a trip hazard. You can end up flying down the stairs with your baby.
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The Cuggle Extending wooden gate failed some of the tests (Photo: Argos)
Not securing furniture
Parents tend to assume that kids won’t do XYZ. For example, we might assume they won’t pull on drawers, but they can, and it’s a threat that can land on them.
What to do
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Don’t leave windows ajar
The window could be pushed open the rest of the way by a toddler of about two years old.
Hide cords
Cameras next to a cot are often on a wire, which means that a child could grab it, take it into their cot and get entangled.
The Government may eventually have to scrap the triple lock (jacquesdurocher/Getty Images/iStockphoto)
Lock cupboards
Lock cupboards where you keep cleaning products, batteries, medicine, glassware and potentially tools.
Other things to note
You don’t need to overprepare. If you put edge protectors everywhere, then that child is not going to know what pain is. When they go anywhere else like nursery and do get hurt because they don’t understand it.
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The only baby gate brand Al Kola trusts is Baby Dan. “We use them for a few reasons: firstly, safety, secondly, practicality, and then thirdly, they look good. They are the only brand that currently ticks those boxes for most scenarios.”
As a finance expert that’s made money mistakes in the past, these are the secrets I’ll pass on…
Clare Seal once had £27,000 of credit card debt. Now she’s a financial coach.
Here are the tips she’ll pass onto her daughter.
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Clare’s story
I want [my daughter] to learn from my mistakes and make smaller, less catastrophic ones.
Over the course of 10 years, Seal amassed debt that equated to her whole pre-tax salary. Some was down to high living costs and a low salary and some from her wedding.
Now she’s paid off her debt, she is teaching her child to avoid this – and be wiser.
Align your career and lifestyle aspirations
I’d like to make sure my daughter knows what sort of salary her chosen profession can command, what sort of hours she might work and where to set her sights when it comes to lifestyle. When there’s a mismatch, it can lead to frustration, resentment and debt if you try to make up the shortfall with credit.
CLARE SEAL, AUTHOR OF FIVE STEPS TO FINANCIAL WELLBEING
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The money tips I’ll pass on
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Keep a ‘freedom fund’
This is specifically designed as an escape hatch from a difficult situation, like a horrible partner or bad boss.
Start investing
Investing even just a
tiny amount of pay
could help to grow real financial security.
Rent control has proved a controversial topic in the UK, but is used more widely across the world (Photo: Getty)
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Always negotiate
For women additional benefits like a generous pension, paid leave and health insurance, can make a huge difference.
The money tips I’ll pass on
Liking yourself is your armour
“I could not tell you how much I have spent over the years, trying to ‘fix’ the parts of myself that society told me were not good enough,” says Seal.
Friendships can be hugely rewarding but like any relationship you have to nurture them (Photo: Halfpoint Images/Getty/Moment RF)
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Have an enjoyment allowance
A pot of money for guilt-free spending is a good idea. If you start young enough, spending on your lifestyle and saving for your future don’t have to be mutually exclusive.
Use credit wisely
- I want to teach her how easy
credit makes it easy to hide your own spending from yourself. - I hope she understands that there
is always a price to pay. - I don’t want her to be scared of credit though because that’s a recipe for misuse and shame.
- I want her to know how to use it well and what the red flags are.
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As a family, we were financially stable, enabling me to study civil engineering at university in Russia and a Master’s in entrepreneurship at University College London (UCL).
From a young age, I became interested in emerging technologies and was curious about mobile app startups like Instagram. I was always fascinated by the idea that anyone could launch an app from a laptop. This sparked my interest in becoming an entrepreneur.
I now run my own tech business called Thytadel, which I started in 2021 after graduating from UCL. The company initially focused on using artificial intelligence (AI) to help assist with drowning incidents in recreational environments.
In the early stages, I patented a safety technology designed to track location and trigger an immediate response in emergency situations.
As the company developed further, I identified an opportunity in distributed computing infrastructure for AI providers. We now provide the tech that helps supply the engine that AI tools need to operate.
The business is still in a growth phase, so most of my personal income currently comes from the licensing deal made in 2025.
I set up my business right after I completed my thesis at UCL. I first had to sort out my residency in the UK, which I did via the Innovator Founder visa route. This gives people the chance to get UK residency within a couple of years by meeting certain criteria, such as investing a specified sum into the economy.
It was challenging to navigate all the requirements and deal with all the different bodies involved.
Since being in the UK, I have not invested in traditional stocks or conservative savings accounts. I prefer to invest in researching industries or topics to identify potential market growth opportunities. If nothing stands out, I tend to allocate capital into cryptocurrency assets, which are highly liquid and can, in my view, be sold conveniently without the restrictions associated with structures like ISAs.
I typically add around £3,000 per month to investments. I sometimes also invest in competitor businesses. I have just shy of £500,000 in cryptocurrency, which I treat as cash. I don’t have any Isas.
I rent a one-bedroom apartment with a small balcony in Mayfair, central London, for £7,000 per month. It is a serviced apartment within the Mandarin Oriental chain. I pay an extra £450 per month for additional services like cleaning and dealing with rubbish. The residential block has a small gym, as well as a swimming pool, spa, work area, lounge and 24-hour concierge.
I know I don’t take a conservative approach to renting. But for me it is important to be in central London and reduce my travel times to and from meetings. I also want to be surrounded by the best infrastructure possible. If I purchased a property, I’d want a freehold home within zone 1 in London.
At the moment, I am not contributing to any form of pension. I prefer to invest my money elsewhere and keep my money more accessible. I have not thought about what age I would like to retire by. I do know that I wouldn’t want to sacrifice my quality of life for a fixed monthly pension. I don’t know how much money I would need for a good retirement, but it would be difficult to live comfortably on just the state pension.
I’d like to get to a point where my company runs without being involved in the day-to-day operations. My main financial goal is to be able to pass on wealth to my future children in the form of companies or trusts.
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