{"id":101975,"date":"2025-10-04T00:09:13","date_gmt":"2025-10-04T00:09:13","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/ie\/101975\/"},"modified":"2025-10-04T00:09:13","modified_gmt":"2025-10-04T00:09:13","slug":"paul-ogradys-grave-finally-has-a-headstone-two-and-a-half-years-after-his-death-and-a-lengthy-application-process","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/ie\/101975\/","title":{"rendered":"Paul O&#8217;Grady&#8217;s grave finally has a headstone two and a half years after his death and a &#8216;lengthy application process&#8217;"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\"><a style=\"font-weight: bold;\" target=\"_self\" href=\"https:\/\/www.dailymail.co.uk\/tvshowbiz\/paul-o-grady\/index.html\" id=\"mol-338b7d40-a09b-11f0-91f4-07424c62945e\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">Paul O&#8217;Grady<\/a>&#8216;s grave finally has a headstone two and a half years after his death.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">The TV presenter passed away aged 67 at his home in Kent, in March 2023 after suffering form a cardiac arrhythmia.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">He was laid to rest the following month in St. Rumwold&#8217;s Churchyard in Bonnington, Kent and for the last two years his grave has been marked wooden crosses and ornaments.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">After a &#8216;lengthy&#8217; application process, his widow, Andre Portasio, took to Paul&#8217;s Instagram account on Friday to announce that he has placed the &#8216;final design&#8217; of Paul&#8217;s headstone at his grave.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">Paul&#8217;s headstone is dark grey and bears Paul&#8217;s name as well as the name of his former long-term partner, Brendan Murphy.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">Brendan died after suffering from an inoperable brain tumour in 2005 and is buried alongside Paul.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>   <img decoding=\"async\" id=\"i-3e0f34412f6ad13f\" src=\"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/ie\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/102692179-15160677-image-a-4_1759522822617.jpg\" height=\"490\" width=\"634\" alt=\"Paul O'Grady's grave finally has a headstone two and a half years after his death. The TV presenter passed away aged 67 in March 2023 after suffering form a cardiac arrhythmia\" class=\"blkBorder img-share\" style=\"max-width:100%\" loading=\"lazy\" \/>   <\/p>\n<p class=\"imageCaption\">Paul O&#8217;Grady&#8217;s grave finally has a headstone two and a half years after his death. The TV presenter passed away aged 67 in March 2023 after suffering form a cardiac arrhythmia<\/p>\n<p>   <img decoding=\"async\" id=\"i-fd25e28a36404018\" src=\"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/ie\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/102692073-15160677-He_was_laid_to_rest_the_following_month_in_St_Rumwold_s_Churchya-a-18_17595235004.jpeg\" height=\"537\" width=\"634\" alt=\"He was laid to rest the following month in St. Rumwold's Churchyard in Bonnington, Kent and for the last two years, his grave has been marked wooden crosses and ornaments\" class=\"blkBorder img-share\" style=\"max-width:100%\" loading=\"lazy\" \/>   <\/p>\n<p class=\"imageCaption\">He was laid to rest the following month in St. Rumwold&#8217;s Churchyard in Bonnington, Kent and for the last two years, his grave has been marked wooden crosses and ornaments<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">The headstone also features a figurine of Paul&#8217;s dog Buster and\u00a0one of Paul&#8217;s &#8216;favourite&#8217; quotes, which is from Philosopher Michel de Montaigne.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">Captioning the album of photos, Andre wrote: &#8216;I am very pleased to share that, after two and a half years since Paul&#8217;s passing and a lengthy application process, we have finally placed the final design of his headstone at his grave.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">&#8216;My heartfelt thanks to the Commissary Court of the Diocese of Canterbury, the Parish of Bonnington, and the Church of St. Rumwold.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">&#8216;Special appreciation to Robin Hopkins, Commissary General of the Diocese of Canterbury, for granting permission for the final design, which features a replica of Buster similar to the one at @battersea headquarters.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">&#8216;I miss him dearly every day, but I am grateful that his resting place is now complete. I hope he would be pleased with the final design. (sic)&#8217;<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">Andre concluded the post&#8217;s caption with: &#8216;As one of his favourite quotes, &#8216;The greatest thing in the world is to know how to be one&#8217;s own self.&#8217; \u2014 Montaigne #paulogrady. (sic)&#8217;<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">And Paul&#8217;s fans were quick to react to the headstone in the post&#8217;s comments section.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">One user said: &#8216;It just makes me weep with happiness that you were kind and generous enough to include Murphy in this: Such a beautiful and selfless gesture. (sic)&#8217;<\/p>\n<p>   <img decoding=\"async\" id=\"i-beb417f768148a56\" src=\"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/ie\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/102692395-15160677-image-a-8_1759522897372.jpg\" height=\"696\" width=\"634\" alt=\"After 'lengthy' application process, his widow, Andre Portasio, took to Paul's Instagram account on Friday to announce that he has placed the 'final design' of Paul's headstone\" class=\"blkBorder img-share\" style=\"max-width:100%\" loading=\"lazy\" \/>   <\/p>\n<p class=\"imageCaption\">After &#8216;lengthy&#8217; application process, his widow, Andre Portasio, took to Paul&#8217;s Instagram account on Friday to announce that he has placed the &#8216;final design&#8217; of Paul&#8217;s headstone<\/p>\n<p>   <img decoding=\"async\" id=\"i-cbe32a580ee923dd\" src=\"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/ie\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/102692079-15160677-Paul_s_headstone_is_dark_grey_and_it_bears_Paul_s_name_as_well_a-a-19_17595235131.jpeg\" height=\"734\" width=\"634\" alt=\"Paul's headstone is dark grey, and it bears Paul's name, as well as the name of his former long-term partner, Brendan Murphy\" class=\"blkBorder img-share\" style=\"max-width:100%\" loading=\"lazy\" \/>   <\/p>\n<p class=\"imageCaption\">Paul&#8217;s headstone is dark grey, and it bears Paul&#8217;s name, as well as the name of his former long-term partner, Brendan Murphy<\/p>\n<p>   <img decoding=\"async\" id=\"i-a17351ea9c9b593c\" src=\"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/ie\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/102692781-15160677-image-a-20_1759523565972.jpg\" height=\"469\" width=\"634\" alt=\"\" class=\"blkBorder img-share\" style=\"max-width:100%\" loading=\"lazy\" \/>   <\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">&#8216;Beautiful. little Buster sat there so proud. I&#8217;d love to go visit this. (sic)&#8217;; &#8216;This is beautiful and how wonderful to have Buster there too xx (sic).&#8217;<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">Andre and Paul\u00a0started their relationship in 2006, before marrying in a 30-minute ceremony at the Goring Hotel in London in August 2017.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">But the magical wedding might not have happened were it not for the advice of Paul&#8217;s close friend, fellow comedian Julian Clary.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">Paul previously explained: &#8216;Julian put the seed in my head. He said, &#8216;I&#8217;ve got married. You should.&#8217; And he&#8217;s right, then you protect your partner. If anything happens to me, he is protected. It makes sense.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">&#8216;You feel more committed. You have made a vow, you have to stick to it. But we still fight like cat and dog.&#8217;<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">Earlier this year, Andre slashed the price of the star&#8217;s\u00a0<a style=\"font-weight: bold;\" target=\"_self\" class=\"\" href=\"https:\/\/www.dailymail.co.uk\/tvshowbiz\/article-14915355\/Paul-OGrady-widower-andre-slashes-price-mansion-dispute-neighbours.html\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">\u00a33.5 million Edwardian mansion<\/a> by 30%, it&#8217;s been reported.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">The sprawling property initially hit the market for \u00a33.5 million in September\u00a0but sparked little interest from buyers, resulting in <a style=\"font-weight: bold;\" target=\"_self\" class=\"\" href=\"https:\/\/www.dailymail.co.uk\/tvshowbiz\/article-14282403\/Paul-OGradys-widower-cuts-whopping-seven-figure-sum-3-5-million-asking-price-stunning-Edwardian-mansion-winning-fierce-planning-dispute-neighbours.html\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">the asking price dropping by almost \u00a31 million to \u00a32.65million in January this year.<\/a><\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">However, following a fierce dispute with neighbours over his plans to convert a security hut, Andre has now reduced the price of the property even further.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">The lavish home is now on the market for \u00a32.4million, with the new price advertised on property sites including Zoopla as well as estate agents Strutt &amp; Parker who are managing the property.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">Knoll Hill House comes with a sprawling 20 acres of land, boasts impressive views of the Romney Marsh in Kent and has previously been described as &#8216;the kind of house you&#8217;d find in one of those <a style=\"font-weight: bold;\" target=\"_self\" href=\"https:\/\/www.dailymail.co.uk\/news\/enid-blyton\/index.html\" id=\"mol-e1ee2f10-631d-11f0-adea-03812e52732e\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">Enid Blyton<\/a> books&#8217; by O&#8217;Grady&#8217;s former partner Brendan Murphy, who died in 2005.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">Once owned by fellow comedian Vic Reeves, the property mixes traditional elegant characteristics like French doors with quirkier qualities such as bookcase wallpaper and a Gypsy caravan in the garden.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">Estate agent Strutt and Parker said: &#8216;Knoll Hill House sits in a breathtaking position at the top of the escarpment above the Romney Marsh which affords the most sensational far-reaching views, looking across the marsh to the coast and the sea in the distance.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">&#8216;Built in 1910 the house has much charm, providing a comfortable and spacious space in which to live and entertain against this stunning backdrop.&#8217;\u00a0<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"Paul O&#8217;Grady&#8216;s grave finally has a headstone two and a half years after his death. 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