{"id":132360,"date":"2025-10-19T17:33:11","date_gmt":"2025-10-19T17:33:11","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/ie\/132360\/"},"modified":"2025-10-19T17:33:11","modified_gmt":"2025-10-19T17:33:11","slug":"review-college-romances-haunt-narrator-of-witty-heart-the-lover","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/ie\/132360\/","title":{"rendered":"Review: College romances haunt narrator of witty \u2018Heart the Lover\u2019"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Publicity materials for &#8220;Heart the Lover&#8221; describe it as a novel about a romantic triangle, which strikes me as lazy and unworthy of this witty, insightful book.<\/p>\n<p>Yes, the triangle is absolutely writer Lily King&#8217;s favorite shape: Her &#8220;Euphoria &#8221; turned on the isosceles relationship between naturalist Margaret Mead and two men. And &#8220;Writers &amp; Lovers&#8221; also dealt with a woman who&#8217;s having trouble deciding between two (possibly three) men. But &#8220;Heart the Lover&#8221; is about grief and family much more than it&#8217;s about whether Jordan, a novelist, will end up with one of two college sweethearts, Sam or Yash.<\/p>\n<p>Jordan narrates in the present, looking back to several decades earlier, when she, Sam and Yash all studied literature. Now a novelist who is acclaimed for her insight into modern relationships (like King), Jordan&#8217;s relationship with Sam was intense but brief whereas she and Yash made plans for the future, plans which were ruined by Yash&#8217;s impulsive decision.<\/p>\n<p>Eventually, the book&#8217;s timeline stays in the present, when Jordan is happily married (to whom, it&#8217;s not immediately clear) and when a crisis unites the three college friends for an awkward, air-clearing reunion.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Writers &amp; Lovers&#8221; fans will want to know that &#8220;Heart the Lover&#8221; is in some ways a sequel, but it&#8217;s best not to reveal exactly how since King takes her time with that revelation. Let&#8217;s just say that whereas &#8220;Writers&#8221; was about a young person establishing a life, &#8220;Heart&#8221; is about trying to maintain that life: figuring out the impact of past relationships on present ones, settling into new roles with parents, guiding children through challenges.<\/p>\n<p>King is smart about all of those topics and, especially, about how our attitudes can change; the looking-back structure of the novel means we&#8217;re simultaneously aware of how young Jordan viewed her romance with Yash and how older, happier Jordan now sees it.<\/p>\n<p>Both versions of Jordan are sharp, funny company. Her in-jokes with Yash and Sam are not off-putting because she shares with us the rules to their made-up card games and the meaning behind their secret nicknames for professors.<\/p>\n<p>Jordan&#8217;s first-person narration is so observant and distinctive that we feel like we know her, which means King is able to employ the best kind of humor: amusing comments that are funny, not because of what is said, but because we can hear exactly how the characters are saying them.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s not just the jokes that ring true. When Jordan&#8217;s husband&#8217;s voice fades out at the end of a phone conversation, she tells us &#8220;it feels like a premonition of the fact that someday, one by one, we will be separated from each other forever.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>A couple of events in Jordan&#8217;s life force her to reflect on the people who shaped it, people she knows will not always be around. At one point, in response to a friend&#8217;s question about death, she offers a theory that&#8217;s a lovely variation on that old faithful, the circle of life. Maybe that means King has a new favorite shape?<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Heart the Lover&#8221; by Lily King is published by Grove Atlantic and has249 pages.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"Publicity materials for &#8220;Heart the Lover&#8221; describe it as a novel about a romantic triangle, which strikes me&hellip;\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":132361,"comment_status":"","ping_status":"","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[266],"tags":[359,18,117,19,17],"class_list":{"0":"post-132360","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-books","8":"tag-books","9":"tag-eire","10":"tag-entertainment","11":"tag-ie","12":"tag-ireland"},"share_on_mastodon":{"url":"","error":""},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/ie\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/132360","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/ie\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/ie\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/ie\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/ie\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=132360"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/ie\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/132360\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/ie\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/132361"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/ie\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=132360"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/ie\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=132360"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.europesays.com\/ie\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=132360"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}